i was just wondering what guys think cheating is. like having sex or basically flirting?

IMO, kissing another guy is the line, and woe to any gf of mine who goes beyond that...

^ what he said.
I'd break up with her ASAP.
Won't even listen to what she says.
Toss her out with the rest of the garbage.
Dirty chicks reek.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Most of the time when my gf flirts, dances with other guys, etc, i dont really care. We have a lot of trust in eachother. As far as crossing the line...kissing.

ok. in my eyes, cheating on my gf would be:

doing anything more than friendly with any other girl, unless if they're like really close to me, Example: relatives, close friends from way back when, etc.

cause like, iono, girl's seem to tend to get a wee bit too jealous sometimes. that's just my point of view on it. altho i do see their point... but my gf doesn't have anything to worry about. i love her and i love only her.

I would probably say when she kisses another guy. I guess flirting with another guy is OK.

anything above flirting. even flirting can go too far (usually you can tell when it's getting out of hand)

I agree with you.

cheating is doing anything farther then friendly with another person.... DUH

look but dont touch...even if u flirt, its crossing the line in my book...

far is far enough!

no really!


kapish!

Kim Chee <-sp me fergot

kissing is far beyond the line d=
holding hands is beyond the line

hrm... when she starts to lie about the things and starts ditchin me for another guy, thats when its too far ;]

Cheating, I thought, would be like.. flirting and getting together with another person. That's how I see it.

i would say touching of anything besides hugging... and if he kisses her... its basically over right there!

Looking >> Okay.
Hugging (If it's a close friend of theirs.) >> Okay.
Hugging (If it's someone who's not as close.) >> Right by the edge of the line.
Flirting >> Moderate. (Make sure it's not going anywhere.)
Holding hands and Kissing >> GET THE EFF OUT BIATCH!!!!

That's how I see it.

Cheating is when you kiss somebody besides your boyfriend/girlfriend.

That's my opinion.

lol i had an ex that used to kiss this guy hoping i wouldnt find out and then when i asked her about it she said kissing isnt cheating, so what is lol sleeping with them?! she didnt like that much... but then she told me she made out with him and that that didng result in cheating either.

i was like wtf? lol but she left me for him and now im very happy.. althought it was over a year we dated so it kinda hurt at first.

kissing i think.

When penis enters vagina.

lolx

reaching 1st base is cool... but after that... oh oh.

how bout when tongue entering ur mouth

i think that's acceptable in a way... it happens sometimes.

Edit: it's not cheating if she doesn't know...

thats sad. its not cheatin if she doesnt know.

but...ya... i kinda did that though. kept it on the down low.

i think if the person does anything that has something to do with tounching each other or flirting is beyond the line already and isnt cheating far enough already?

i don't think flirting is cheatin...but sex is cheating....

u can talk n u can hug..n u can flirt..since the guy i like flirts wit girls alot..but its part of y i like him...but if they hold hands then ima kick the BI@tch who's touching MAH man! haha~

Getting kissed by another is cheating and ne thing beyond that.

But, flirting is bad enough to make me dissapointed in my baby....

Hmm.... lol

look but don't touch is what i consider not cheating.. any hand holding, pecks on the cheek, "incidental" touching is out of the question

Flirting passes it for me...well atleast in this relationship. In the others I've had...it didn't matter much. But, when your in love...holy moly...I care sooo much about who he talks to and who he's looking at. But I know that mah babii wouldn't cheat on me...we're juss cool like that.

i agree w/everyone else... kissing. my friend actually said he personally thinks as long as your not emotionally involed, your not cheating... altho i think that came from the time of hitler...

Would it be considered cheating if someone else kissed you? Not you kissing them? W/O your consent?

Probably would depend on how you reacted.

your decesion of how far it goes it up to you and your own thoughts...some people have sex with random people while married. And think it isn't cheating... it's just sex...so it depends on the person really...

I think FLIRTING is crossing the line...yah im very strict

A little flirting is okay, but not kissing

It's kissing for me. Or excessive physical contact with a girl (unless it's his best friend or something)


And to a post before: how the hell is it not cheating if the other person doesn't know? So if I murder someone, it's not really a murder because nobody knows?

It's kissing for me. Or excessive physical contact with a girl (unless it's his best friend or something)


And to a post before: how the hell is it not cheating if the other person doesn't know? So if I murder someone, it's not really a murder because nobody knows?

I think cheating would be actually going out with them, and having a girlfriend/boyfriend already

cheating is uhmm; when the guy/girl your going out with now is going out with some other guy/girl

Cheating is kissing and anything after that. rooooooooar

i define cheating as kissing another guy. it just shows that the girl doesnt know what she wants and probably isnt worth your time.

I think cheating is a lot of flirting and anything after than that; kissing, excessive touching, etc.
Hah, my friend thinks that looking at porn can also be cheating...

pshh. even THINKING about a girl in a more than friendly way is cheating. *grawr* i'm extremely needy, insecure, and possesive. the bf's just gonna have to bare w. me. lol.

my partner has to be faithful 100%, so any little thing would count as cheating.

sexualy comments & any physical behavior.

flirting is okay. we all have hormones and sometimes they go out on their own and we have no control.

that, and hugs are all right, just as long as the girl really needs one.
anything beyond a helping hug is .

^I totally agree with that. But also, any sexual comments is way outta line as well.

I think cheating is being physically unfaithful to your partner. Just looking at a TV screen and saying "Wow, Pamela Anderson is HOT" is not cheating. That is seeing beauty and appreciating it. But if there is a girl in your office and you seduce her for weeks and then kiss her passionately in the break room, that is cheating. You are using time and affection and emotions that SHOULD be lavished on your partner, and instead spending them on someone else.

Cheating is NOT only about sex. It is about intimacy