here's the thing...
recently, one of my school mates signed up for xanga. i used to have a fling with him... now, we're kinda friends.. kinda not.. i don't even understand it...
anyway..! he found my account and started reading the things i wrote..... his name appeared a couple of time in some of the entries.. those had to do with how i felt/feel about him and what not.. later, he finds this entry that's about a night i spent with a guy.. there are no names in it; just pronouns.
then, he remembers about the time i told him that my family won't be home and i asked if he wanted to come over. his answer was vague and eventually, he didn't come. i didn't make a big deal out of it cuz i my other friend, who was visiting from the philippines, came over.
the point is, he thinks i was talking about him and that i was being "f**king delusional"!!! argh...!! i hate people like that!!!! i mean... why the hell is he assuming that i was talking about him!?!! i'm not desperate at all!!!! plus, he doesn't like me anymore and i don't like him anymore.. (but i'm not sure if that's clear since he did this..)
now, he's saying that i'm "f**king crazy" and "living in a fantasy world." bullshit!!! then he was like, "you're retarded" and some other crap like that.. i mean.. please!! the world does not revolve around him and it's not like he's the only guy i'm seeing....!!
well... yea.. that's enough of my ranting...
...so....
have any of you ever experienced that..? like people assume they know who or what you're talking about, and they think they know you..?? don't you find that rather annoying or aggravating..????

i like to change names of people in my xanga.

anyway.
yeah, i hate it when people think they know what im talking about, but don't, so i have to end up explaining shit to them and they still dont believe me.

yea i wrote this entry a while back when my group of friends were going thru some major drama. i didnt mention any names and i didnt talk about anything that was recently going on. i just wrote down random thoughts. and one of my friends ASSUMED it was about her when it had nothing to do with her or anyone else.

it really is annoying when ppl assume they know whats going on when in actuality they dont know anything. when stuff like that happens it ends up only making more problems.

jackie

Yes it sure is annoying when people assume... But you cant really let it bother you because.. it really has nothing to do with them. You should just let him be... and eventually he'll feel dumb cuz you dont give a rats a55 about him.. haha.. just dont let it bother you...

yea i assumed a lot cus it makes sense.well after i assumed, i was kinda rong so i jus acted like nothing happen.

I can't really ignore his comment cuz he works with me.. i think he's f**king insane.. *rage* he even left the comment on that post (but of course i deleted it cuz of all the profanity and insults he put in) and he wrote all over my chatterbox, saying i was "f**king retarded" (and yet again, i had to delete all that crap).
i mean.. if people have a problem with it, i don't think it's appropriate to leave the insults in a public forum. it's just embarrassing for the author.
but yea.. i still it's annoying when they assume then don't clarify and spread the word..... feel me?

I assume myself so I can't get to p.o at anyone else who does. Just our nature I suppose. Have you blocked him from your xanga.. you could always do that.

It's okay. *pat pat* Let's just burn those people.

ah yeah assuming sucks

omfg...*totally agrees*
My number ONE HATE is people ASSUMING!!!!! Geezus, if I didn't announce to the whole world already, I hate people that assume! I feel you....and I'm serious. There's NOTHING worse than people accusing you for something you DID NOT DO...and they assumed you did it too! I'd probably rather die than let people do that to me (and no I'm not suggesting you to do so...never do that). I'm just saying I hate it that much. I can't say, "Just let him think that way," because that just doesn't work. Get that stupid boy back into reality. Tell him the world doesn't revolve around him, and there's more boys out that a thousand times better than him, so don't go assuming that he's at ANY kind of important place in your heart. Even tell him he's less than trash in your mind if that's how you feel right now...since he's calling you all these things. Geezus, making a big freakin deal out of this, he's retarded. I wish people like him never existed. He's only alive because it's illegal to kill him...

EXTREMELY EXTREMELY EXTREMELY NEARLY TO HATE THOSE PEOPLE...

That's so annoying...they cut me off when I'm not done telling them what I mean...I hate when people assume things.

hahaha...!! i'm glad someone here feels this much hate towards people like that...
yup... the only reason he's alive is cuz it's illegal to kill him...

well.. about blocking him, let's just say that he knows my account on xanga and is willing to make new accounts for himself if ever i block him.
starting a new xanga is not really the path for me cuz i don't feel like re-doing everything.......

i'm not sure how to confront him cuz he's like, "oh, don't talk you dare talk to me anymore, you freak!" (he wrote that on the chatterbox and i deleted it earlier) and he's out of town so i can't really retalliate.. only thing i did was make a notice on my xanga about that.. (if you wanna check it out, click here)

YEAH I COULD TOTALLY AGREEE. GOSH . i hate ppl who assume..

my mom assumes things... and she looks at me weird

Yeah I have experienced that and it IS annoying and f-ing stupid for them to assume they know who or what you're talking about, and they think they know you.

mann that really makes me soo po'ed, especially the people here in town, they ALWAYS want to be right when they're really totally wrong....

-Courtney

yea i really hate ppl like that. they always need attention and thinkt he world revolves around them.

sometimes you wonder.. how do those kinds of people even get along with others...? and why are they still alive??!?!?! lolz...!!
that guy i was talking about earlier.. he was telling me..."why do you even try to make it seem as if we're together when we really aren't?" i got so pissed when he said that cuz i wasn't the one doing it...! he assumes that i'm the one who still likes him!! what an idiot!!! *rage*
there's this saying in the Philippines, "maraming namamatay sa maling akala." literally translated, it means, "a lot of people die from false assumptions."
hahahahahaha...!!!

yeah, that really annoys me... gah, then they on't shut up if they're mad at you..

if you think about it... why do they even assume to know you...?? especially that guy... he doesn't know me that well.. he never asks anything about me nor does he try to find out from others...
sometimes, he says, "oh, i do know you." pssh!!! i hate that...
assuming is bad....!!!
lolz...!

yea that happens to me and i hate it

yeah that always happens with me.... see i try to laugh it off.... but when u laugh it off it only makes it worse

Assuming sucks.

Had a friend who assumed a lot... got annoyed. had a huge fight. done. she's not my friend anymore.

It's even worse when you tell someone something and that someone says, "I know how exactly you feel..." Well, the truth is the person doesn't know exactly how I feel because I am me and he is him and she is her! :P

Some people tend to think it's all about them. Well, it's not.

well i odn't know.

i assume a lot of the time. I confront the person if i'm pretty sure it is conserning me. I think it's best to know about it. I don't go spaz and yell at them if I'm not ENTIRLY sure though. nothing wrong with assuming. But in the way he did it, I suggest just tell him what REALLY happened.

yah people assume and jump into conclusions as soon as they read or hear something. well it happens to me too when i assume people are talking or refeering me, but i dont do anything about it.

*brings matches*

i hate it when people do that. then i'm like omg people don't be so concieted.

Why yes.

You're having an A B conversation and someone pops in acting like they know what we're talking about when they got it all wrong.

burn people, burn.

yeah, i hate it when i say something to my cousin and she takes it the worng way, and she gets all like "well fine be that way" and Im like, uh.. your taking it the wrong way and she always says " Im not a frickin retard I know what your talking about:" IT DRIVES ME CRAZY!!!

Yeah it gets me annoyed Once I was trying to set up my DDR and the dance pad wouldn't work, I kept jumping on it and then I went "What the--?" And my grandma was like:
grandma: eh, watch your mouth
jane: but i didn't say anything bad
grandma: oh? then whats after that?
jane: heck.

yes...

but i assume a lot of things as well.