Iono if theres a topic on this but eh i wanted to start something.....

anywho when ur in a relationship do u have time to balance ur lover and ur friends out? Me personally i spend all the time i can with my girlfriend and pretty much kick my friends to the curb haha....yea i know im a bad friend but they should understand.......

how about u guys? do u try to share equal ammount of time with ur gf/bf and friends, or do u favor one side....?

past my 200th post w00t!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Dumb topic i know but eh it seemed original to me...

yeah i try to balance things out for my bf/friends/family...it's really hard, now that i think about it. usually i do end up ditching one group, but i always try to make it up to them.

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this is kinda tricky but i would spend time wit ma peeps first before i spent time wit ma girl. thing is she finish skol much much later than me and tat leaves me ample time to chill out before spending da rest of da evening wit her. now tat it's over btw us, i dun have to worry of 'offending' any of ma peeps!! just gotta balance it out. talk to each other on how to maximise each others' time!!

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well, with my ex, i tried to spend an equal amount of time with him and my friends. but sometimes, i'd spend more time wiht him though.

I'd spend more time with my bf.. I wouldn't want him to feel left out.

yepp i try to spend as much time with everyone equally!! lately i havent spen much time with my friends... since its summer... but lately its usually my boyfriend and family.. which im fine with!

i balance it out. i would hang out with my friends whenever my bf doesnt have time. and sometimes i hang out with both my bf and friends at the same time so i dont realli spend more time with one or the other.

sumtimes me and my friend double date

I try to spend a bunch of my time with my bf since during school, i see him like once a week, maybe twice a month. so during the summer, im tryin to spend as much time with him since hes gunna be a junior and gunna be hella busy so im tryin to plan how we gunna meet and imma even buy him a webcam XD

i see my friends everyday and skool but im still chillin with my best friends at the mall and stuff...with my bf too lol but ya..i guess it equals out

Not in a relationship, but if I was, I'd try to balance everything out. If it doesn't work out with the sharing of me, well... I dunno.

When I have a gf, I always manage to spend time equally with them. That's usually not a problem though, since all of my past gf's have rolled with my crew anyway.

i try and make space for my bf/friends cuz if just left either of them out i would feel so bad. i already hate it when some people i know just spend time w/ their bf/gf..after they break up they come back to you

i try to share equal time...
what i really like about my current bF right now... is that he knows wen i need to hang out with my friends n wen... to be with me... i love him so much

but... being honest...
i wuld prolly choose him over than my friends... that are girls...

I try to balance it out. We have a lot of the same friends so we all hang out together sometimes.

i kind of feel bad because everytime i'm with a guy and i'm talkin to that dude on the fone, and my nephew is calling, i just ignore it. i mean i know he'll understand, but i feel bad aboutz it still.

i still chill and listen to my friends still, but i don't know if they come before the 'dude' ah hehe

well i try my hardest to balance things out, but u nevr realli realize when ur hanging out w/ a person one too many....but u still shouldn't shut out ur friendz...

I spend time with my boyfriend and my friends at the same time.

I think overall I spend more time with my friends, though. =-/

I'll have to pick my friends over my boyfriend. Nothing lasts forever but friendship lasts longer than relationships with someone....That's what I think anyways.

wow who bumped this up lol...

i'm kinda trying to balance but basically its my friends who distant themselves from me...so i dont know what's wrong with it...me and my boyfriend try to spend as much time together as we possible can and my friends join...it's not like me and him are PDA all the time...but we have fun when they join...and it's cool with me if they want to distant themselves but i feel as if they dont want to hang out with me because of him...i need help too!

I usually spend most of my time with my boyfriend, because my friends have each other and stuff. If they really wanted to hang out, I would, but we dont really hang out that much anyways.