I've been wondering this for a long time, and sorry if there's already a topic on this.. but..

Guys, do you want the girl to make the move (for the most part)?

EDIT//: "The move" as in.. asking out, kissing, hugging, holding hands, etc..

if tha guy is shy, then yea...or if lyk theyre unsure whether or not ur ready fa it

no guys in here either? lol

actually some guys are shy and some are more bold, so its a little hard to find the answer to that one. but im asking guy friends right now and we'll see how it goes.


question i asked: do guys like it better if the girls make the first move or the guy himself?

(reminder: these are all different guys)
here are some answers:
guy: "Honestly I like girls to make the first move on me"
guy:"i think some guy like it when the gurls make it"
guy:"girl....cuz guys are lazy"
guy:"for me id rather have the girl do it"
guy:"yeah" (the girl) in unison-
guy:"yeah" (the girl)

hope that helps.

I would believe all guys would want the girl to make the first move, why? Because rejection sucks first of all, second its nerve racking, third its takes alot of confidence to make the first move, some confidence that the "average joe" lack.

Well... I know it sucks making the first move but eh u get the experience... and u mite become a better "ladies man" or u just become use to the fact of rejection u dont really care wut the answer will ne

Greetings!!

if only tat will happen, it's gonna save us guys so much trouble. coz we won't know whether it's da right time to do this or are we allow to do dis. ya know wat i mean. but hey, it's sure gonna be ma luck if such a girl ever exists and she's mine too!! so yeah!!

CHEERS CB!!

eesshh. I'd rather have the guy make the first move. =]

It would be a real change to have the girl make the move...but either way I wouldn't care...

yehh if the guy was shy.. i would try to make a small move.. like give him a hug or maybe hand holding.. but usually i ike that the guys make the move.. cuz eeh im shy myself.

I'm old fashioned on the dating thing. I'd want the guy to ask me out.

For making the first move on holding hands and stuff, if the guy was shy, then I'd make a small gesture. Nothing bold. Not me... AT ALL.

quote from my kuya lolz and some of my guy friends " i think it's sexy/kinky whena girl makes the first move". the guys alwayz move before i can do anything...usually

im a female but i asked some guys and they said for the most part its really hott when girls do, guys are too lazy too so dont bother waiting for them too, and sometimes some girls are too domineering about it so no (1 guy said that)

well I"LL rather hav the guy go make the move

i'd make the first move if i HAD to...but i don't realli care who makes the first move...as long as the move is made =]

im a girl and i would make the first move but girls are afraid of rejections too.. and what if ur just THINKING that he likes u? and wen u ask him out, he goes.. i dont feel that way.. lol all that courage and confidence in the girl will go down the drain

Fortune favors the bold...

same with me

But the Romans were Italic

Hmn. If the the boy is a shy guy, I'd try hard and make first moves to open him up. But for the most part, I'd want the guy to make a move. Ofcourse, throw in a little hard to get. x]

only if they are shy

wouldnt matter if she goes first then cool, if she doesnt then i will

im a girl...n im totaly wayy to scared to talk to the guys i like..so..i jus wait..n wait n wait n wait..thinking that if it was meant to be then he wud ask me out but if no then it wont matter...but soo far all the guys i REALLY like..havent asked me out..n im to scared to ever talk to either of them....so ya.. im not in a hurry though

i ususually make da firs move. gurls i date r kinda ond a shy side..but a gurl makin da firs move would be really attractive to me..i lyke gurls dat dun give a fcuk wat ne body thinks

augh.. I just want her to make tha VERY first move. asking me out.. i'll do tha rest.. heh..

Guys can ask out first but the rest, I prefer the girls do the first moves.