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forgottenbeauty
how did you feel when it the was the first time to meet your bf or gfs parents. and what happened..

im so scared that when i do i will say something wrong and not impress them at all.. >_<
whomps
I didn't meet them.. I'm too young and scared. :D
LiNHy POO
a little nervous... i was trying to impress them and stuff... but i dont think thats what they wanted.. sooo i slowly juss began to be myself.. and yehh they learned to love me! happy.gif
defjam_gangsta
Greetings!!

yeah. i did met up wit her parents before but luckily for me, i know her momma first before i know her daughter. so it was kinda easy for me. it's only da father tat i had to handle. so far, it's been good. well, yeah from da looks of it. but now, since imma no longer wit ma X, i seldom meet up wit dem. but i still keep in touch wit her parents even though ma X doesn't wanna keep in touch wit me. thing is, i know her mom first so tat's why i gotta maintain da relation i had wit da parents. it's not like imma breakin up wit her parents or something!! do i even make sense to ya?!

CHEERS CB!!
winks03
i cant tell you dont be nervous cuz that is like saying dont breathe!! so all im gonna say is be yourself but also be respectful...thats all there is too it..every parent appreciates a yes ma'am/sir or no ma'am/sir. and every parent appreciates a lil convo when you call on the phone sometimes. it shows you were raised in a good way without sucking someones butt!! haha! wink.gif
dani41790
hehe i didnt noe i waz gna meet my bf's mom that nite so i waz a litto nervous but it waz all good since shes nice
SSJ Kenshin
I was petrified. But I eventually opened up and was myself, and her mom loved me...

The thing about that was she'd known me for years. (My gf and I grew up together)
Blue Lightning
Well I've only been in two relationships where I met the parents, and with my first bf I had known him since 1st grade so I was already familar with the family so I wasn't at all nervous. But I was pretty scared when I met my last exs father.
h22fanatik
i met my bf's parents when we were just friends, so it wasn't exactly nerve wrecking. they seem to love me and treat me like their own child...his mom even talks about marriage which is kinda freaky =/
islandkiss
I never met my ex's parents.. I would be nevous..
blowpops69
never met them _dry.gif thank god....he told me his parents were realy strict and stuff..
xsweetdreams12x
Never been in a relationship, but here's a bit of advice.

Be yourself with them. If they don't except you, and you're a good person, it's their loss. Being somebody you're not for a long time is hard. You're living a lie that'll be hard to end.
FreeStickers
I was kind of nervous cause his parents were supposedly racist, but they ended up loving me. biggrin.gif
ichiban
I never met his parents .... lol but i would prolly be all polite .. be nice =D
x0143637x0
i was realli shy and i didnt talk much. cuz its the first time i met them but they were pretti nice to me. which was good happy.gif
DrEaMgUy2K1
her mom showered me with compliments and her dad was scary.. made think twice about ever wanting to be with another girl.....haha
someflipguy
Shooot....I hit it off well with every girlfriends parents I have met because I am just like that I dont want to seem cocky but its the truth its a natural thing...I think it may have to do with your up bringing...
inthemudhole
I was so nervous.
My boyfriend had me over to watch a movie with him at his house, and he introduced me to his parents.. so formal, haha.
I was really quiet and shy, but I was trying very hard to be polite and friendly.
I think I was pretty friendly (not being arrogant).

Mleh. I dunno if they like me or not, though. pinch.gif

My boyfriend seemed a bit nervous when he met my parents..
They like him, though. They think he's nice.. so it's "all good."
NawtyLilAznChic
1st ex
i didnt even expect him mom ta b there or his dad, lyk im always at his place n theyre neva there, n his dad came by once...his dad was nice...but his mom omfg, jus cuz i didnt say hi ta her, [i have this thing ware lyk its dont speak until spoken to] n lyk wen we left, we were right outside tha door cuz he was lockin it ta walk me home, his mom jus lyk b*tched bout me ta his dad mad.gif

2nd ex
his mom was nice n kinda shy

3rd ex
his mom paid no attention ta me cuz she thought me n him were jus friends

guy i currently date
him mom is really nice happy.gif

my friends first meetin
omg lol, it was soo horrible, her bf went ta his dads room ta tell him ta meet her, then her bf comes down n tells her his dad is comin, it takes him lyk 1/2 an hr n hes still in his pajamas,
her bf was lyk --> dad meet diana, isnt she pretty?
his dad --> wat am i supposed ta say? am i supposed ta say shes tha prettiest grl in tha world? shes tha prettiest grl in tha world
then his dad sez ta her --> u shoulda seen his ex, now she was pretty, hey [her bfs name - i forgot] go get a pic of ur ex ta show diana

her bf doesnt move
his dad --> nvm, i'll jus get it

n she told me that his ex was really gross, n she had frizzy hair, n she was wearin a mini skirt n that tha grl had chubby thighs n lyk light sky blu eyeshadow, n she was lyk "y would he have a pic of his sons ex in a miniskirt?"
Caitlin
i never met them and they knew that we were going out. i met them before we were going out & after we broke up
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
i'm very open-minded & easy-going .. i get along with most anybody i meet .. so meeting my boyfriends family was definitely not a problem ..
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