I went with this girl. Then i dumped her. then i went with 4 other girls and there was noone like her.I need help. is she special or what?

Please be a bit more descriptive.

erm i dont noe. u didnt realli explain much so i didnt vote

hmm sounds like that first grl was just more experienced...cuz if she was more special to u..u would hav realized it way before..

wow... u went with FOUR other girls till u FINALLY realized that she was ur so called "the one"?
i think that during ur relationships with the FOUR other girls... you really did think about what u guys did together [for ur first gF]...

if ur not with any other girls ryte now...
juss talk to her... see if she feels the same way...
n get to kno her more... like catch up n stuff...
see what's going on...

den after awhile... u guys can go back into a relationship...
ONLY... if u guys are ready...

why did you dump her in the first place?

you went out with 4 ppl?.. hmm.. no offense but I don't think SHE deserves YOU

well if it took a while when u and tht 4 other girls were going out, there is a sure chance tht girl u like got over u..

Yeah .. i don't think she realy deserves you either

umm every girl you date is different just to tell every girl you go out with there is always different connections and feelings okies well thats all i can say



.:tony:.

looks like u took her for granted =/ to be honest, i don't think u deserve her, especially since it took u that long to realize that she's something special.

i think u need to talk more about her for us to say whether u need to be with her. newayz maybe you should go out with her again.

Meh. Look somewhere else.
You're not gonna get her back.
She's the one that got away.

Don't worry though, sooner or later, you'll find a woman that'll make you happy, but not as much as she did.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

You have to explain more. I don't understand your situation until you give more descriptive ideas of your relationship.

This mayb hard 2 understnad but wtvr ill try to explain it. I went out wit this 1 girl for 5 months and i guess i got bored or something and i dumped her. AFterwards she always wanted to talk 2 me even after i had dumped her. she acted as if she still wanted me. but like a month after she stopped talking to me completely. and i wondered y. in a way i still wanted to b with her but i moved on and went out 4 other girls. we both found wierd ways to communicate even after we broke up. ssometimes she wrote about me in her xanga.and none of them made me feel the same way she made me feel. i found myself always reading her blog site just because i wanted some kind of communication with her. she seemed happy and had a boyfriend. so i was kinda just like F*** it. and like 3 days ago we started talking again. and we kinda been flirting. she always seems eager to talk to me do you think she is still interested?

it kinda sounded lyk me...i was datin this guy but had 2 bfs...im wit that guy now kinda...im tryin ta lyk stick ta him...wish me luck

it seems lyk shes not interested, cuz she has a bf...is she didnt, then yea, shes interested...unless shes lyk me...i still wuved him even wen i was wit those guys...[meanin she can b wit sumone but only have feelins fa u]

o god...i jus caught myself starin at ur siggy...
iono if lyk u 2 belong ta each otha but she might b interested...i jus need more info...

Greetings!!

nope. it's just tat our good instincts/sub-conscious is pricking on us for being so mean!! i think tat is exactly wat happening to ya!!

CHEERS CB!!