my girlfriend and i started dating after we hooked up together at a club. and we dated for a while and had really strong feelings for each other. we told each other that we loved one another dearly, and i knew i meant it because there wasnt a moment in the day that i didnt think about her. plus i would do almost anything for her to be happy. after dating for a while my girlfriend ( phoebe ) said that i was her first love and that she was going to give up her virginity for me or to me whatever. but yeah . soon after are relasionship took a turn for the worst. we started seeing less of each other and i started to get really sensitive about are relastionship. then after a week she brakes up with me saying that " she fell out of love with me " .. .. .. and today is the 4th day after the brake up and im so depressed. and im even more depressed because i found out some really bad facts about my girlfiend showing that i may not be the only one she did this too. so as of now im woundering if i was just played for a fool. ______ she even told me that i was the sweetest boyfriend she ever had ! and that one day we'll get married to each other. and that she wanted my kids. o.0 . GOD i miss her so much but i know for a fact that she's not even thinking about me !
love SUCKS !

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what should i do . should i try and talk to her or just cut it off for good and try my best to stay away from her. !??!??!!

Greetings!!

geez!! tat's awful man!! and i thought it's da girl who is always in dis kind of dilemna. anyway, if she's gonna 'dump' ya, just let it go. notin da fact tat she's lyin behind ya back, ya gotta lay da smackdown!! big time. but being da gentlemen we are, i would prolly just tell her da following.

"thks for da great time. i won't foget ya but who say i will remember ya. anyway, best of luck on ya upcomin valentine. just pray tat ya next guy won't get ya laid instead. coz wat's goes around, comes around. coz i believe in retribution too!! and so long!!"

anyway, chin up brotha. smile aight. who knows. there might be another lady worthy of ya love round da corner. just waitin for ya to notice her too!!

CHEERS CB!!

i don't think she led you on...just maybe her feeling DID change.. i mean would you want her to keep dating you when she didn't like you? wouldn't it be better if she just dumped you when she stopped liking you?

i know it hurts to be dumped, but that's what EVERYONE risks when they ask eachother out...

I agree with Jenni.

Maybe you should just.. forget about her and not talk to her.

If she tries to talk to you, stay cool and just talk..

I don't know, I've never been dumped, and I've never dumped.

move on, theres more fish in the sea, if shes like that then let her be.. u should be happy and jus move on lols

she sounds like she was scared about having a relationship where she could see less of you. Me and my bf (during skool) only saw each other on a saturday if he could get out since we went to different schools and different districts. we still hung in there. idk..sounds like ur gf was a real fool to say all tht stuff and only a WEEK she falls out of love with you..thts messed...ur gf is messed...may i ask, how long have u been with her?

Awww, sorry to hear that. but you have to realize that these sort of things happen in relationships... people may say one thing, but end up not meaning it. maybe her feelings did change, and you have to accept that.

i think you should just forget about her and move on.

grr.. dat sounds like a mean person.. well i dink u guys should talk. nd you should tell her how you feel.

im sry ta hear that...
that sounds jus lyk my last ex...he told me that he luved me lyk on tha 3rd day, n he sed that i was lyk his only gf that he fell tha fastest for or sumthin lyk that, he was sooo full of sh*t!!!
i so shoulda knew it, i was his f*ckin 8th gf...n u wana noe his great break-up excuse? "we have nuttin in common" thas tha lamest excuse lol, n lyk less than a week afta tha break up, he writes in his profile that he only luved one grl n he always did...n lyk less than a month ago, he wrote sumthin bout luvin 2 grls n that hes sry

That's awful. But hey, you seem like a nice guy. And maybe she just takes pleasure out of breaking guys' hearts. I know it's mean and all, but I know a couple of girls that like to do it.

aaww. I'm sry.. I think you should tell her how you feel..

i noe ur a nice guy..
fallin in and out of relationships is kinda a routine...
i guess some just fall harder than others...but at the end we styll havta move on nd find another way out ryte..? SMILE!!

awww... dont worry!
there are still a lot of fishes in the sea...
u might just not have found the right one yet...

sometimes wen u fall in love...
u juss have to watch out not to fall in too DEEP...
once u fall in all the way... u juss cant get back out...
till after... awhile...

for now... juss try not to think about it...
n evrityme u do... juss remember... maybe she wasnt... "the one"...
u have the rest of ur life to find someone...
good luck!

maybe the reason that she didn't want to be with you was because she was scared about becoming so intimate. if she did it with others i think that might be the problem. although you have to understand that all relationships don't work out and if she 'fell out of love with you' then maybe she wasn't the one for you.

hoping for the best.

so true....

mann, this situation reminds me of some others thats been going on around town here.....personally, I think that you should try to move on and pick your life back up and just go with the flow, try not to remember her if she hurt you that bad...

LaterZ

-Courtney

damn. thats bad. since she hurt you, you should just stay away from her.

keep ya head up, shes not really worth ya stress, goodluck?

aww. poor thing! well when the world turns its back on you...you turn your back on the world! got that from "the lion king" im a disney fanatic..im blabbing huh? sorry. habit. well. screw her. she doesnt sound like she deserve you. like some of the earlier commenter said, "there's a lot of fish in the sea." so just throw that hook back in the sea and sit back and relax.

awwiez. you seem like such a sweet guy, too! that ghurl was krazy for "falling out of love" with you. i know it may seem hard, not being insensitive or anything, but you should at least slowly try to mend your heart, soul, and mind.

I agree with everyone you should definately move but I know from experience that that isn't as easy as it sounds. I mean i really don't think you can fall out of love with someone her feelings might have changed though. Anyway i'm sure you'll find someone else that you'll be even more happier with.