Ok. Here it goes;
I have a friend his name is Kinu, he lives just a while away from me, & i think im starting to like him.. But i have a boyfriend, Kinu is closer because he lives in the same state as me, and we are the same age.. I Love my Boyfriend, & i dunno if this thing for Kinu is, just a feeling or a random thought.. ergh.. why me.. i dunno what im feeling at the moment & i think that the thing for Kinu is get a random thought.. yea..
Should i look deeper into this? or should i drop it?


<3 DAVE

well, you have a bf already, and you do love him right? just drop it.. unless you start to feel like you do like him.. (hmm.. does this make any sense?)

eh...same situation...my bf doesnt show that he likes/loves me...i think i should dump him...i dont feel loved

I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ <-- i think that u should jus stuck ta ur bf...cuz u cant jus bounce from guy ta guy...n ur guy friend is jus a friend...ppl usually blur tha line between jus friends n more than friends...

xEoreMehttax <-- dont jus dump ur bf outta no ware...talk ta him bout it...ur supposed ta work things out...not leave things unanswered n lyk not even try...

if you feel bad about liking someone other than your b.f then dont. theres nothing wrong with that. if your b.f makes you happy and you have really strong feelings for him (b.f) then i think you should drop it. its not worth the confusion and the doubt. but if its the opposite with you & ur b.f then maybe you liking someone else is a sign that you want something more and your friend is just that. i hope this helps.

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if you love your bf more than this kinu than go for it...but if you don't think this will work out than just drop it cuz you only have one chance for this and you have to make whatever decision you pick worth it..hope i'm not making it confusing

If you like your boyfriend MORE than Kinu, then stay with him.

But if your relationship starts to wobble, then end it and go for Kinu.

never be with someone who makes you feel unwanted.

as for the situation of the first girl.
so of what i read, you and your boy are in a long distant relationship, am i correct? so maybe this "thing" you're feeling with Kinu is something you are starting to feel because of the absence of your current boyfriend.

you should think hard into this.

Greetings!!

keep da current beau while keepin da other guy in check. just in case, he might be of use later part in ya life!!

CHEERS CB!!

yep yep

Who is Dave?

Anyways.. I've been in a similar situation. But yeah.. I got lucky and such so.. w/e.

As others said:

If you really love your bf, stay with him. Slight feelings for someone else can easily go away. It's normal.

But if you feel you have a chance with the other guy and you like him more than your bf.. you owe it to yourself to give it a shot.

Then again.. you can stick with your bf and if he does anything to hurt you, drop him and go for the other guy.

just at least try to stick to your bf

if u truely love ur bf, u wouldnt have these feelings for the other guy... but yah it happens. stay with bf, cherish what u have right now before u loose it

well if u love ur bf how could u love someone else? o wait i mean like.. er neways .. if u really love ur bf.. stick with him.

hahaha, I have been in this situation and it SUCK!! anyways....similar story of a bf and liking ur guy friend.

I suggest you ask yourself who you really like. I know it's HARD, but make a list of the pros and cons if you can't really decide. Maybe you just feel this way because your bf is far away and Kinu is THERE for you, so you feel a "stronger" bond with him. I mean, if your bf was there with you, do you think you would feel this way for Kinu? In some sense, the feelings you have for Kinu is due to the absence of your bf. Long distance relationship is hard so maybe this is why you are developing feelings for him. However, if it's more serious, every good guy deserves to know the truth and break up with your bf if you like Kinu. Just remember to be honest with your bf and know what you want.

does kinu like you? if not, i wouldnt go into it at all. at least make sure he likes you before you make any rash decisions.

I think you should stick with your current boyfriend for now. I mean, as long as he hasn't done anything to hurt you, and you still love him... why end the relationship so soon?

besides, your affections for Kinu might turn out to be false later on... maybe you just think you like him because he seems to be easier to have a relationship with (i.e. no long distance).

If you love ur Bf and he loves you too nutting would come between you guyz.. But if diz is going on den it's up to yooh noone can make da desicion except you.. DO wat ur heart tells yooh...

do you really love your boyfriend i think if you are thinking more of kinu then you should ask him out but what do i know

you should straighten out your feelings and see if you really do like your friend or not because you might end up regretting breaking up with your boyfriend

um..if ur planning to leave ur boyfriend and go to ur guy friend..make sure that he "likes like" you first..cuz u never know

^I agree with Sammi.
It mostly depends on if that Kinu d00d likes you.. if he doesn't, then you should forget it.

I'd stick with my boyfriend. >:]

u should drop it...mayb u feel like u wanna hook up w/ him but who knows? it may b jus mixed feelings....it's like thinking ur in luv w/ a guy but really u get confused between loving sumone and actually liking sumone as a friend....this is the same situation....

jsut stick with your bf and see what goes on from there

Well, with any luck, the problem has been resolved - since this was two years ago. :P

^^^^^^

if you're really in love with your bf just forget about this
but if after a few weeks you're still having feelings for this guy, then it may be time to break things off with your bf

why do you want to complicate things with kinu? you have a bf, you certainly miss him, thats why you're feeling like that.

omg diane why did you bump this 2 year old topic?

be sure WHO you want.. and be sure NOTHING is wrong with your current relationship.. that had recently happened to me, and i ended up going for my guy friend than working shit out w/ my NOW ex.... i dont regret it though sometimes i feel horrible about it b/c my ex is in my school...

Never leave the one you love for the one you like unless things are going badly with your boyfriend.

^ How true.

Whom do you feel for more? Is it worth ruining what you have with your boyfriend?