in my opinion i would rather be a softie...lol for a couple of reason...its easier to for girls to understand you and get to know who you are..and i hate figthing..haha...i tried to be like a badass one time...all i got were threats..so yea

depends who n where i am...i kinda lead one of those "double lives". when im in king of prussia im a softie but in phillly, im somewhat of a badass cause im forced to hold my bitchiness in during the weekday till i go on the weekends ^_^

i like softie gurls like that sorta thing but wen sumone meeses wit u man ya cant jss take it ....bring it nd get it on...tahts wut i did n it worked.....but mostly im a softie id b more of it but ya noe...get in too many fights nd sum ppl jss get on ur damn nerves..l

im a bit of both, i work out alot and boss some of my friends around and stuff so i have a tough guy image, but inside im understanding and good with emotions and stuff ( check out my post on relationship forums i give good advice '_^ )I think girls find it attractive to have a man thats built and can defend them,but at the same time love it when their men can be sweet sensitive and have intellecutual conversations

softies get annoying after a while =/ i get sick of being the man in the relationship all the time.

well softie i guess
this is what i think.... most girls while younger like the badass type but when they get older they like the softer type

king of prussia? i live near there. =]

I'd be a bad-ass. Oh yeah, sexy.

Both. Gotta know when to be a softie and when to be a badass depending on the situation.

nice guys finish last

i am kinda IN the middle



.:tony:.

im in the middle and im kind of sensitive

why don't you just be yourself? that's always good hehe

really? how close?

I love it when my bf is being such a softie but being a big badass when he's sticking up for me or something..i think its sweet lol

He HAS to be a softie to me.

But when like, someone's intimidating him, he can be a badass.

its all about being a softie that looks like a badass. that way, you don't get stepped on and only people who know you intimately (like close friends) know the real you.

im not a badass, but im not a softie either... nd im not all that hott or anything.. i try to make up for it by being sweet.. i donno if it works.. but thats just me..

i think i would choose a soft bad ass lol, not too soft and not too hard

whats a softass? im a cry baby so all the badass kids at my school beat me up and i cry

I'm an inbetweener

Lol, usually when I'm around girls I'm a softie. But... sometimes with the other guys u get pissed off and u just gotta stand up for like what you believe in. Yeah.

im a badass fohsho. fick around with me and ill lay ya ass out

im somewhat in between like i can be either or wen i need to b

im both more of a badass

IMO, if the guy was a badass, I would never ate him. These are the reasons why SOFTIES are cool:

• They are sweet and CAN be romantic
• They understand you and listen more
• They don't want to impress you
• They can be a friend AND a boyfriend to girls

I can't think of anymore lol. I don't like badasses because they alwasy try to show off, they always think they're sooo cool becuase of this and that, and they seem to usually choose to hang out with guys mroe than girls because even though they do want to impress girls, they WANT to impress guys more, IMO. So ppl think they are cool

i wuld want a guy to b both so he can stand his ground but still b nice

i would be a softie kuz i dont really go for the sluttish type of girlz...i go for the nice cute sensitive and they go for the nice softie guyz.....

i agree. you gotta stand up for what you believe in, and even if you're soft at times, you'll be a badass when something happens that you don't like

i think i'm more of a softie then a badass...i don't try to get into fights or cause trouble for no reason. but if i was confronted, or if a friend/family member was confronted, i would stick up for them (or myself), and the badass part of me would come out

ya i need a bit of both

I melt for badasses.

girls want boys who treat them like shit.

i like a softie who will stand up for me when needed. i don't like those pretend badasses.