me n mai bff lyke the same guy.. its really hard because we cant get over him and he wont say yes to either of us. i hate competing with her because shes mai bff, but i reeeeally like this guy. omg i cant get over him but everytime i think of him, the second thing that comes to mind is HER and i feel sooo sad. its ike, ill never even have a chance with him, unless she stops liking him (not a good possibility)

I prefer friends over relationships. There are a billion more guys out there.. and you and your bestfriend are risking your friendship over this? Whatever floats your boat.

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Yeah.
What Kim said.. friends over relationships!

yea what she said. You shouldn't ruin your friendship over some guy.

i believe yoo guys, but what do i actually do?

wait a minute....YOU TWO ARE FIGHTING OVER A GUY THAT DOESN`T EVEN LIKE YOU TWO??! NOT EVEN AS FRIENDS?! WTF?!

why do you still like him then!? it`s not like he`s going to like you or your friend JUST OUT OF THE BLUE. i mean...is this guy even WORTH IT?

how can it be soOooOooo hard to get over him?! aren`t there even MORE hotter guys out there?! go to california! there are A LOT of HOT people there!! unless you already live in california...

ANYWAYS...no DUH you pick your friends over relationships...but if your friend doesn`t feel the same way...omg...what kind of best friend is she!?

Since u both like him u should just move on and try to find some1 else ur friend doesnt like.If you both find someone new then u won't be hurting your friend and she wont be hurting u.As 4 the dude,u'll get over him.there are a lotta guys out there just like him u just gotta look.Da best of luck

*~*~*Brittany~*~*~*

If you think your friendship is worth over a guy, you guys can fight over him.
But if you're willing to give up the guy because of your friendship, you can go look for some other guy. You can talk about it.

"Hey, wanna talk about you know, him?"
"er, sure?"
"Listen, I don't think our friendship is worth over one guy."

And go on from that...

yup i agree. friendship lasts longer dey a relationship

EXACTLY!!!

isnt there a bff rule that ur not supposed ta lyk tha same guy??? i say that u both should drop him...bfs come n go but best friends r foreva

Friendships last longer. Stick with her, but you can always still think about him!!

does the guy have any feelings towards either one of you?

a guy shouldn't ruin your friendship.

i had the same problem. me and my friend liked the same guy but she liked him before i did. when she told me she liked him i was like "eww!!" but then later on i was more like hes not bad. i didn't tell her that i liked him cause i didn't want her to feel like there was competition or something. anyways they went out and i was so hurt but then they broke up (secret high five) and now he likes me..but ya. just wait. they'll brake up. thats what i did. i was so tempted to mess up there relationship but i didn't and now its my turn with him

GREETINGS!!

frens are better. but for me, havin comfort in GOD is nirvana. ya think abt it aight?!

CHEERS CB!!

frends always come first..
ur best frend should b thinking the same ding too..

screw the guy. The relationship with your bff is more important than some kid. And if he won't give you the time of the day, what makes you think he'll go out with you?

i had this situation twice wit my 9 year long best friend lol we didnt let him get in our way but we still went for the guy while keepin our friendship lols

Remember that it is better to give than recieve...

^ agreed. if i were you i would try to move on because well this might be just for me but friends come before guys anyday

the safest thing is for both of you to move off of this guy & find someone else .. no matter what if one of you were to choose to try to get him and succeed someone is going to hurt & it won't have a very happy end result .. it's your choice what's more important to you .. the guy or your bff ..