deadxblonde
Jul 14 2004, 11:35 PM
OMG i need major help! ive had my fair share of bf's but ive never made out wiht someone before, and i need SERIOUS tips! im going to a party in 2 days and my bf's best friend todl me he wants to make out w/me! help!
-lucy
inthemudhole
Jul 14 2004, 11:43 PM
Go with the flow and be natural.
I dunno, I've never made out..
brittnner
Jul 15 2004, 12:17 AM
you tend to find ur own way of doing things.
and if he doesnt like it. tough Sh!+
but just do whatever comes natrual and go with it.
dani41790
Jul 15 2004, 12:45 AM
err jus do wat comes natural. srry i wouldnt realli noe. the most i've dun with mai bf waz kiss n not french
hybrid
Jul 15 2004, 01:24 AM
Don't be tense. That's all.
casssy
Jul 15 2004, 01:28 AM
aHHhh making out is fun =]
own that boy with ur tongue.
thanhmai
Jul 15 2004, 01:29 AM
QUOTE
I dunno, I've never made out..
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now
I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ
Jul 15 2004, 03:40 AM
.. eh its easy! just go with the flow like she said, just remember
A PEACH IS A PEACH
A PLUM IS A PLUM
A KISS AIN'T A KISS
WITHOUT SOME TOUNGE
& if he gets messy just stop.. cause messy kissin aint no fun.. no drool
<3 KT
lolita kitty
Jul 15 2004, 03:48 AM
QUOTE
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now
lmao!! yah thats sad, the same with me... but i gotta admit, that wass funny!!!
islandkiss
Jul 15 2004, 09:46 AM
I wouldn't know.. I never made out before..
Caitlin
Jul 15 2004, 09:47 AM
yeah i never made out before either but what i would suggest is just be natural. <-- even though i know nothing lol
h22fanatik
Jul 15 2004, 10:09 AM
haha...soo funny that u guys are planning a makeout session...btw just massage ur tongue with his. sometimes i nibble on their tongues...guys like that.
truluvis4eva
Jul 15 2004, 11:08 AM
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now

ill join u...
aznhunnie6o1
Jul 15 2004, 11:14 AM
i havent made out befor either so i'll say what the other people sed, go with the flow..
i think my tounge is too short to french
blowpops69
Jul 15 2004, 11:51 AM
just go with it, and dont use way to much tongue. it kills the mood. just close ur eyes and go at it
x0143637x0
Jul 15 2004, 12:17 PM
you should close ur eyes. its more romantic and go with the flow
xsweetdreams12x
Jul 15 2004, 02:43 PM
I've never made out, or even kissed so I wouldn't really know...
illmizzkim
Jul 15 2004, 02:50 PM
Well, from my experience, even when I first started, the guy never denied making out with me. [Guys at that point don't usually care, as long as they get some.]
But keep your movements slow and smooth, don't kiss real fast until you've gotten into it. Where your hands are is crucial--it can make the slightest difference. Try making light movements with the back of your nails on his back. It makes my boyfriend crazy.
But I'm sure you'll do fine. If not, then you have some really funny makeout stories to tell people.
deadxblonde
Jul 15 2004, 03:08 PM
LOL thanks yall...
-lucy
sheepy
Jul 15 2004, 05:52 PM
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now

i'll go with youu
bruised_glitter
Jul 22 2004, 12:53 PM
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now

awww it's ok! You will find a guy!!
screamer
Jul 22 2004, 01:07 PM

omg im such a loser...all of mi friends have like had sex and made out with guys and im just like yeeeaaahhhh

....and i feeel so left out....i dont think i even know how!
someflipguy
Jul 22 2004, 01:18 PM
There is a couple of things that I could tell you...
First, relax and let things happen naturally. If your nervous than things will just fall apart. This is your first make out and it should be memorable.
Second, who ever controls the bottom lip is has more tendancy to give the other person more pleasure out of the kiss...
Third, Too much tongue is bad
Fourth, Brush your teeth...and floss
Five, be aware of what you eat(dont want your breath smelling like onion rings)
And, thats all I have
perdyperdybirdy
Jul 22 2004, 05:56 PM
when you make out...just like sit sorta close to eachother...then when you guys lean in to kiss....like lip lock for a sec, then after like 3 seconds then open your mouth....but dont open ur mouth like REAL big...that'd be like kinda freaky...lol...then like sorta stick your tounge out like a little....and see if your guy responds, and if he doesn't then that means he doesn't want to make out....then when he opens his mouth, and your tounges touch, just like sorta move your tounge around a little...slowly. but if hes moving his tounge around fast, then u should too...
HoneyGurl
Jul 22 2004, 09:03 PM
Go wit it
Fashionista225
Jul 22 2004, 09:10 PM
Don't stress about it. It's gonna happen sometime, and trust me, when it does-you'll love it! lol. Keep your eyes closed, it would feel weird to be stared at. And don't do the same thing with your tongue over and over like moving it in circles.....you'll know what feels right once you start.
FalliNGxFaST
Jul 23 2004, 01:31 AM
there are a lot of people here who havent made out! wow
well anyways do whatever feels right and make sure you dont like jab your tongue down his throat just put a little tongue in not too much hun or else it gets to not be fun i mean when a guys tongue is like half way down your throat you cant breathe to well
if this is his first time making out too then you both prolly might not know what to do but since many people here have told you then you should prolly take control and just go for it
my first time making out was with a guy who had before (a couple times... well more than that) he took control and i was so flustered (he had his lips on my neck first and whispered something sweet then like totally just went for it). i was so not expecting it yet and i was like freaking out. you dont want that to happen but eventually i was calm. i knew what to do i just didnt for a couple seconds. but then he slobbered so i stopped...
tootsie_kiddo
Jul 23 2004, 06:52 AM
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Jul 15 2004, 1:43 PM)
I dunno, I've never made out..
yea same here. i'm 13 and a looser.... bleh. i havnt evn KISSEd sumone... bleh, looser me hahahaha
elmogurly
Jul 23 2004, 06:59 AM
Interesting topic. Sorry I'm not experienced in that area..
Blue Lightning
Jul 23 2004, 07:30 AM
Meh... I have now flipping idea.... never got the chance to make out >.<
shawty_redd
Jul 23 2004, 07:48 AM
just do whats natural. you'll get the hang of it sooner or later
x_swtangel
Jul 23 2004, 07:59 AM
yeahh act natural...yu'll get the hang of it
PiNkY_2004
Jul 23 2004, 02:51 PM
OK well u gotta sit next to eachother {dUh} and then tilt ur head to the right and he puts his to the right too then slowly move together and started kissing then add some tounge and its kinda liek licking out of a dog bowl but much slower i hope i helped

gOoD LuCk
iVe bEeN mAkIn oUt sInCe i WaS 12 aNd iM LiKE 13 nOw LoL!!
xoxox
_aLi**
LaRevolucion
Jul 23 2004, 05:11 PM
I'm another one who hasn't kissed a guy....

Ah well....the time will come i suppose
cynthia_bell
Jul 23 2004, 06:01 PM
Kinda caress his lips. And gentle biting is ok..but don't like chop of his lips. Just tease.
TheSuGaRAdDiCt
Jul 23 2004, 06:33 PM
QUOTE(deadxblonde @ Jul 14 2004, 9:35 PM)
and my bf's best friend todl me he wants to make out w/me! help!
-lucy
ok, wait, when you say "bf" do you mean to say your "boyfriend"'s best friend, or your best friend's best friend? O.o....
Gypsy Eyes
Jul 23 2004, 06:42 PM
QUOTE(illmizzkim @ Jul 15 2004, 2:50 PM)
Well, from my experience, even when I first started, the guy never denied making out with me. [Guys at that point don't usually care, as long as they get some.]
But keep your movements slow and smooth, don't kiss real fast until you've gotten into it. Where your hands are is crucial--it can make the slightest difference. Try making light movements with the back of your nails on his back. It makes my boyfriend crazy.
But I'm sure you'll do fine. If not, then you have some really funny makeout stories to tell people.

yeah. thats a good explaination.
also make sure to brush your teeth really well, and make sure your mouth is super clean
tyedyefroggy
Jul 23 2004, 07:14 PM
QUOTE(PiNkY_2004 @ Jul 23 2004, 2:51 PM)
OK well u gotta sit next to eachother {dUh} and then tilt ur head to the right and he puts his to the right too then slowly move together and started kissing then add some tounge and its kinda liek licking out of a dog bowl but much slower i hope i helped

er *cough* you lick out of a dog bowl? *cough* LoL im just messin' with ya....
like everyone else said before, do whatever comes naturally....
-Courtney
LiLaZnGirL122
Jul 23 2004, 07:50 PM
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Jul 14 2004, 11:43 PM)
Go with the flow and be natural.
I dunno, I've never made out..
im onlii 12 and i havent "made out" thats rilly nasty for a 12 year old lol no offence to ppl who did alrady lol but jus loosen up or if ur not ready... tell him!! b like oh sry but im not ready for this u noe? hope that helped
oOjenniOo
Jul 23 2004, 09:01 PM
omg, ive "pecked" so many times and i went out with this one guy who i wanted to make out [[for the first time]] really bad, but everytime i leaned in for a kiss, it always eneded up just being a peck.

how do you START the all open mouth thing?
Sun_bum8
Jul 24 2004, 12:42 AM
QUOTE(deadxblonde @ Jul 14 2004, 11:35 PM)
OMG i need major help! ive had my fair share of bf's but ive never made out wiht someone before, and i need SERIOUS tips! im going to a party in 2 days and my bf's best friend todl me he wants to make out w/me! help!
-lucy
beleive me, i've had LOTS of experience in this area...like everybody else already said, go with the flow, just do what feels natural, and do NOT i repeat: DO NOT use too much tongue...you don't want to seem despreate!
and oh yeah, why would you be making out with your boyfriends best friend? isn't that c-h-e-a-t-i-n-g? (something you DONT want to do)
xjjajeengx
Jul 24 2004, 02:18 AM
not experienced. all i can say is, hope you enjoy

i've never kissed (only on like the cheek) OR make out, and im damn proud too
but anyways. alot of people say that too much tongue is bad cause it makes the make out session really like fast ending or something. thass my advice.
roxybabe
Jul 24 2004, 09:37 PM
QUOTE(Caitlin @ Jul 15 2004, 9:47 AM)
yeah i never made out before either but what i would suggest is just be natural. <-- even though i know nothing lol
ya u shuld b natural just do it , itz not like u can make out wrong or nething
19503
Jul 25 2004, 01:56 AM
Go with the flow. First time is always the best. The others are just protocol.
xo BonnieBoo ox
Jul 25 2004, 09:47 AM
Ive only made out once... im 13 and it was on a truth or dare.. and dont worry about not making out wiht you boyfriend cause i dated a guy for like 5 weeks and i never made out with him.. and we only kissed on the lips once and i accedentally got his tooth!!! but besides that... i havent really had a good kiss besides the make out on the truth or dare... so just go with the flow cause thats what i did and i was scared to death
makulit
Jul 25 2004, 02:24 PM
QUOTE(I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ @ Jul 15 2004, 3:40 AM)
.. eh its easy! just go with the flow like she said, just remember
A PEACH IS A PEACH
A PLUM IS A PLUM
A KISS AIN'T A KISS
WITHOUT SOME TOUNGE
& if he gets messy just stop.. cause messy kissin aint no fun.. no drool
<3 KT
yeah basically do what everybody is saying so far, just go easy & don't be tense, but don't force yourself if you're not comfortable with it. the less drool & spit the better. it gets messy if there's a lot of open-mouth-tongue-down-the-throat-action.. just have fun.
bibliomania
Jul 25 2004, 05:06 PM
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now

Same here. I sort of ish had a boyfriend not so long ago, but it's all over now. Eh. Don't worry about it. Your time will come...
I have no clue what I'm talking about.
sweetxsimplicity
Jul 25 2004, 05:12 PM
QUOTE(illmizzkim @ Jul 15 2004, 11:50 AM)
Well, from my experience, even when I first started, the guy never denied making out with me. [Guys at that point don't usually care, as long as they get some.]
But keep your movements slow and smooth, don't kiss real fast until you've gotten into it. Where your hands are is crucial--it can make the slightest difference. Try making light movements with the back of your nails on his back. It makes my boyfriend crazy.
But I'm sure you'll do fine. If not, then you have some really funny makeout stories to tell people.

Haha Kim, very descriptive..
xourzest
Dec 18 2005, 11:04 PM
QUOTE(truluvis4eva @ Jul 15 2004, 9:08 AM)
ill join u...

yay lets make a club and call in the corner
Lolasweetcoolie
Dec 30 2005, 05:30 PM
Yeah. Go w/ the flow. ASk? Do u think u will like it?
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