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deadxblonde
OMG i need major help! ive had my fair share of bf's but ive never made out wiht someone before, and i need SERIOUS tips! im going to a party in 2 days and my bf's best friend todl me he wants to make out w/me! help!
-lucy
inthemudhole
Go with the flow and be natural.

I dunno, I've never made out..
brittnner
you tend to find ur own way of doing things.

and if he doesnt like it. tough Sh!+

but just do whatever comes natrual and go with it. happy.gif
dani41790
err jus do wat comes natural. srry i wouldnt realli noe. the most i've dun with mai bf waz kiss n not french
hybrid
Don't be tense. That's all. ermm.gif
casssy
aHHhh making out is fun =]

own that boy with ur tongue.
thanhmai
QUOTE
I dunno, I've never made out..


i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now _dry.gif
I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ
.. eh its easy! just go with the flow like she said, just remember

A PEACH IS A PEACH
A PLUM IS A PLUM
A KISS AIN'T A KISS
WITHOUT SOME TOUNGE

& if he gets messy just stop.. cause messy kissin aint no fun.. no drool

shifty.gif
<3 KT
lolita kitty
QUOTE
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now


lmao!! yah thats sad, the same with me... but i gotta admit, that wass funny!!! laugh.gif
islandkiss
I wouldn't know.. I never made out before..
Caitlin
yeah i never made out before either but what i would suggest is just be natural. <-- even though i know nothing lol
h22fanatik
haha...soo funny that u guys are planning a makeout session...btw just massage ur tongue with his. sometimes i nibble on their tongues...guys like that.
truluvis4eva
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now _dry.gif

ill join u... _dry.gif
aznhunnie6o1
i havent made out befor either so i'll say what the other people sed, go with the flow..
i think my tounge is too short to french pinch.gif
blowpops69
just go with it, and dont use way to much tongue. it kills the mood. just close ur eyes and go at it
x0143637x0
you should close ur eyes. its more romantic and go with the flow
xsweetdreams12x
I've never made out, or even kissed so I wouldn't really know... blink.gif
illmizzkim
Well, from my experience, even when I first started, the guy never denied making out with me. [Guys at that point don't usually care, as long as they get some.]

But keep your movements slow and smooth, don't kiss real fast until you've gotten into it. Where your hands are is crucial--it can make the slightest difference. Try making light movements with the back of your nails on his back. It makes my boyfriend crazy. happy.gif

But I'm sure you'll do fine. If not, then you have some really funny makeout stories to tell people. laugh.gif
deadxblonde
LOL thanks yall...
-lucy
sheepy
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now _dry.gif

i'll go with youu
bruised_glitter
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now _dry.gif

awww it's ok! You will find a guy!!
screamer
cry.gif omg im such a loser...all of mi friends have like had sex and made out with guys and im just like yeeeaaahhhh whistling.gif ....and i feeel so left out....i dont think i even know how! sad.gif
someflipguy
There is a couple of things that I could tell you...

First, relax and let things happen naturally. If your nervous than things will just fall apart. This is your first make out and it should be memorable.

Second, who ever controls the bottom lip is has more tendancy to give the other person more pleasure out of the kiss...

Third, Too much tongue is bad

Fourth, Brush your teeth...and floss

Five, be aware of what you eat(dont want your breath smelling like onion rings)

And, thats all I have
perdyperdybirdy
when you make out...just like sit sorta close to eachother...then when you guys lean in to kiss....like lip lock for a sec, then after like 3 seconds then open your mouth....but dont open ur mouth like REAL big...that'd be like kinda freaky...lol...then like sorta stick your tounge out like a little....and see if your guy responds, and if he doesn't then that means he doesn't want to make out....then when he opens his mouth, and your tounges touch, just like sorta move your tounge around a little...slowly. but if hes moving his tounge around fast, then u should too...
HoneyGurl
Go wit it
Fashionista225
Don't stress about it. It's gonna happen sometime, and trust me, when it does-you'll love it! lol. Keep your eyes closed, it would feel weird to be stared at. And don't do the same thing with your tongue over and over like moving it in circles.....you'll know what feels right once you start.
FalliNGxFaST
there are a lot of people here who havent made out! wow

well anyways do whatever feels right and make sure you dont like jab your tongue down his throat just put a little tongue in not too much hun or else it gets to not be fun i mean when a guys tongue is like half way down your throat you cant breathe to well

if this is his first time making out too then you both prolly might not know what to do but since many people here have told you then you should prolly take control and just go for it

my first time making out was with a guy who had before (a couple times... well more than that) he took control and i was so flustered (he had his lips on my neck first and whispered something sweet then like totally just went for it). i was so not expecting it yet and i was like freaking out. you dont want that to happen but eventually i was calm. i knew what to do i just didnt for a couple seconds. but then he slobbered so i stopped...
tootsie_kiddo
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Jul 15 2004, 1:43 PM)
I dunno, I've never made out..

yea same here. i'm 13 and a looser.... bleh. i havnt evn KISSEd sumone... bleh, looser me hahahaha
elmogurly
Interesting topic. Sorry I'm not experienced in that area.. huh.gif
Blue Lightning
Meh... I have now flipping idea.... never got the chance to make out >.<
shawty_redd
just do whats natural. you'll get the hang of it sooner or later
x_swtangel
yeahh act natural...yu'll get the hang of it happy.gif
PiNkY_2004
OK well u gotta sit next to eachother {dUh} and then tilt ur head to the right and he puts his to the right too then slowly move together and started kissing then add some tounge and its kinda liek licking out of a dog bowl but much slower i hope i helped wub.gif

gOoD LuCk

iVe bEeN mAkIn oUt sInCe i WaS 12 aNd iM LiKE 13 nOw LoL!!

xoxox

_aLi** wub.gif
LaRevolucion
I'm another one who hasn't kissed a guy.... sad.gif Ah well....the time will come i suppose
cynthia_bell
Kinda caress his lips. And gentle biting is ok..but don't like chop of his lips. Just tease.
TheSuGaRAdDiCt
QUOTE(deadxblonde @ Jul 14 2004, 9:35 PM)
and my bf's best friend todl me he wants to make out w/me! help!
-lucy

ok, wait, when you say "bf" do you mean to say your "boyfriend"'s best friend, or your best friend's best friend? O.o....
Gypsy Eyes
QUOTE(illmizzkim @ Jul 15 2004, 2:50 PM)
Well, from my experience, even when I first started, the guy never denied making out with me. [Guys at that point don't usually care, as long as they get some.]

But keep your movements slow and smooth, don't kiss real fast until you've gotten into it. Where your hands are is crucial--it can make the slightest difference. Try making light movements with the back of your nails on his back. It makes my boyfriend crazy. happy.gif

But I'm sure you'll do fine. If not, then you have some really funny makeout stories to tell people. laugh.gif

yeah. thats a good explaination.

also make sure to brush your teeth really well, and make sure your mouth is super clean
tyedyefroggy
QUOTE(PiNkY_2004 @ Jul 23 2004, 2:51 PM)
OK well u gotta sit next to eachother {dUh} and then tilt ur head to the right and he puts his to the right too then slowly move together and started kissing then add some tounge and its kinda liek licking out of a dog bowl but much slower i hope i helped wub.gif

er *cough* you lick out of a dog bowl? *cough* LoL im just messin' with ya....

like everyone else said before, do whatever comes naturally....

-Courtney
LiLaZnGirL122
QUOTE(InTheMudHole @ Jul 14 2004, 11:43 PM)
Go with the flow and be natural.

I dunno, I've never made out..

im onlii 12 and i havent "made out" thats rilly nasty for a 12 year old lol no offence to ppl who did alrady lol but jus loosen up or if ur not ready... tell him!! b like oh sry but im not ready for this u noe? hope that helped
oOjenniOo
omg, ive "pecked" so many times and i went out with this one guy who i wanted to make out [[for the first time]] really bad, but everytime i leaned in for a kiss, it always eneded up just being a peck. wacko.gif how do you START the all open mouth thing?
Sun_bum8
QUOTE(deadxblonde @ Jul 14 2004, 11:35 PM)
OMG i need major help! ive had my fair share of bf's but ive never made out wiht someone before, and i need SERIOUS tips! im going to a party in 2 days and my bf's best friend todl me he wants to make out w/me! help!
-lucy

beleive me, i've had LOTS of experience in this area...like everybody else already said, go with the flow, just do what feels natural, and do NOT i repeat: DO NOT use too much tongue...you don't want to seem despreate!

and oh yeah, why would you be making out with your boyfriends best friend? isn't that c-h-e-a-t-i-n-g? (something you DONT want to do)
xjjajeengx
not experienced. all i can say is, hope you enjoy laugh.gif i've never kissed (only on like the cheek) OR make out, and im damn proud too laugh.gif

but anyways. alot of people say that too much tongue is bad cause it makes the make out session really like fast ending or something. thass my advice. blink.gif
roxybabe
QUOTE(Caitlin @ Jul 15 2004, 9:47 AM)
yeah i never made out before either but what i would suggest is just be natural. <-- even though i know nothing lol

ya u shuld b natural just do it , itz not like u can make out wrong or nething
19503
Go with the flow. First time is always the best. The others are just protocol.
xo BonnieBoo ox
Ive only made out once... im 13 and it was on a truth or dare.. and dont worry about not making out wiht you boyfriend cause i dated a guy for like 5 weeks and i never made out with him.. and we only kissed on the lips once and i accedentally got his tooth!!! but besides that... i havent really had a good kiss besides the make out on the truth or dare... so just go with the flow cause thats what i did and i was scared to death
makulit
QUOTE(I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ @ Jul 15 2004, 3:40 AM)
.. eh its easy! just go with the flow like she said, just remember

A PEACH IS A PEACH
A PLUM IS A PLUM
A KISS AIN'T A KISS
WITHOUT SOME TOUNGE

& if he gets messy just stop.. cause messy kissin aint no fun.. no drool

shifty.gif
<3 KT

yeah basically do what everybody is saying so far, just go easy & don't be tense, but don't force yourself if you're not comfortable with it. the less drool & spit the better. it gets messy if there's a lot of open-mouth-tongue-down-the-throat-action.. just have fun. _smile.gif
bibliomania
QUOTE(thanhmai @ Jul 15 2004, 1:29 AM)
i havent made out. or kissed a guy. or even had a boyfriend to kiss...um you know what im gonna go into my little corner over there now _dry.gif

Same here. I sort of ish had a boyfriend not so long ago, but it's all over now. Eh. Don't worry about it. Your time will come...

I have no clue what I'm talking about.
sweetxsimplicity
QUOTE(illmizzkim @ Jul 15 2004, 11:50 AM)
Well, from my experience, even when I first started, the guy never denied making out with me. [Guys at that point don't usually care, as long as they get some.]

But keep your movements slow and smooth, don't kiss real fast until you've gotten into it. Where your hands are is crucial--it can make the slightest difference. Try making light movements with the back of your nails on his back. It makes my boyfriend crazy. happy.gif

But I'm sure you'll do fine. If not, then you have some really funny makeout stories to tell people. laugh.gif

Haha Kim, very descriptive..
xourzest
QUOTE(truluvis4eva @ Jul 15 2004, 9:08 AM)
ill join u... _dry.gif
*

yay lets make a club and call in the corner stubborn.gif
Lolasweetcoolie
Yeah. Go w/ the flow. ASk? Do u think u will like it?
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