lately ive been having trouble with girls and it seems my approach is horribly off. What is the best way to attract that special someone??? Can someone actually give me methods that have had some experiance?

1: do not make witty comments
2: never spit in front of her
3: dont act like your the shiznit most badass guy around when your by her
4: listen to her more


and sometimes the good ol' six pack, bulging muscles and good personality plays its roles with some people

be yourself... if that doesnt attract them then they arent worth it

yup

yeah if they dont like you for you then screw them lol

Greetings!!

be honest wit her too. make it an experience tat ya two will remember for life!! just dun get overboard. tat;s all!! best wishes mate!!

CHEERS CB!!

Be yourself and be nice.

yea be yourself, dont try to be something you arent, let the girls like you for who you are :D but dont be dorky

orange/red hats look so hot on guys. when you see a red or orange hat coming near you you know their gonna be hot and you just gotta stare.

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and what she said =]


btw-- I LOVE THAT SONG IN UR SIGGY =] its like my all time favorite song. er i wanna steal your sig =P

i dont believe in that crap about if she doesn't like you for who you are, then screw it. How the hell is she supposed to know you if you just caught her with the corner of your eye. She'll take interest if you look nice then u can show her how u are. You can try wiping sweat off your forehead when its hot so she can see your abs, i've tried that a few times

< you > y hallo thar buttseckz? LOLOL
< her > omghi2u
< you > kekeke

It works everytime, dude.
And you gotta trust me on this.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

LOL thats gotta be one weird situation, but ill try it on the next girl posting in this topic, better work

Aww, that's so true, Jamie!

haha

Hahaha what the heck? You're always so silly Jose

well sometimes you gotta get peoples atention b4 u can actually be yourself , try striking a conversaton with her, work on your confidence cuz some girls like guys that are confident and not insecure BUT not cocky. But yea .. be yourself too, dont try to go the easy way i lay a pick up line cuz girls eiher heard them all find i very cheeeezy

oh yea, tell us a little bit about urself, are u preppy is,jockish,gangsterish? Do you wear cologne? do u have facial hear, blah blah blah

wuahahahaha! thats awesome yet i dont think that will work to well

be sincere...and help her out with her problems. Just try to get to know her as a friend first.

lol... uhmm i guess be yurself...haha yu probably got that alreadii since a ton of people said that but...i lyk a guy who can make me laugh. . .BUT dont overdo it wen a guy tries too hard to be funny he just looks lyk an ass...then uhmm if yu really lyk her then give eye contact. . if she`s not paying attention then thats probably a sign shes no into you and. . yeh dont act lyk yur all that either..thats all i can say. . .

PS: be sweet

exactly..expecially #4

oOo thats a really good one eye contact is pretty intamate

don`t don`t don`t don`t attempt to turn yourself into the prototype "perfect guy." there are too many of those. just be yourself.

but i love dorky guys. don`t diss the dorks.

hehe depends on what the girl likes.... u need to find out first

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depends on the girl really. if shes a quiet one it'll be a little harder for you to talk to her. cause like most guys, they're speechless with the ones they love.

just break the ice, thats what i do. If you dont know her at all thats all you gotta do. If you've known her for a while, just be a better friend to her.

pretty much, be nice, funny, caring, and thoughtful. DONT be cocky, DONT try and gain attention by doing crazy stunts, DONT act all tough, DONT be shy.

well, thats all teh words of wisdom i can give

I'll let you in on a little secret. I call these The 10 Steps To Success. But make sure you do not tell anyone. If you do, i will be forced to kill you. Lol... j/k but here are 10 things that always work out for me.

1. Most important, be yourself.
2. Act cool
3. Don't be too macho
4. Listen
5. Don't get desperate (write love letters, poems, and etc.)
6. Get to know her and vice versa.
7. Find out what you two have in common and concentrate on that.
8. No Stalking
9. Make her laugh (but no gross humor)
10. Praying doesn't hurt. LoL j/k Just ask her out like it's no big deal. If she doesnt want to then too bad for her.

If all else fails... stalk her j/k. Anyways if she doesnt want to go out with you or w/e then why waste your time on her?

just be urself and let them come to u! umm...dunno really...if that doesnt work try blakmailin or bribe them with money

yes I agree

Hehe, I have learned my lesson in the past

oh yea, dont be needy :O girls just gets sick of you

'ey, just be yourself & try not to be so uptight if your gonna talk to her;
& abs dont hurt, dont be macho though.. thats kinda dick like..
try singing to her, or writing her a poem, i like when my BF does that..
or, be sweet/random.. like say your beautiful to her, & while shes tryin to respond to you, steal a kiss from her, or kiss her on the cheek..
i think thats sweet & you'd get me if you did that.. haha,
booty comments dont always work on girls..=P

<3 DAvE

& sorry for posting in the guys locker, the subject was on the NEW TOPICS thing
am i welcome here? =/

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Just be yourself. If she doesnt like you for who you are, then it wont work out.

2questions.. are u askin her out for her luks? do u kno about her at all?

i think you should make witty comments... just not mean ones. sarcasm and humor is key to attracting a girl as long as you don't offend her in any way shape or form. in addition, shower her with compliments as much as possible, talk to her as much as possible (don't worry about being annoying). make it clear that you want to hang out with her more and when you talk about your futures somehow include her in yours. when she asks for advice, actually listen and give her your honest opinion (DON'T under any circumstance say "i don't know" or "how am i supposed to know"). if she doesn't ask for advice and you know she's upset about something you could ask her if anything is wrong and tell her you're always tehre to listen if she wants to talk or just tell her she can let out her anger on you. don't be fake, don't lie about her to your friends, let people know you're crazy about her. also don't act differently when you're with your boys. girls absolutely positively hateeee that.

do all of those things, and she's good as yours.

Whatever you do, suck in your ego! Don't try to be all cool and macho and badass because it's NOT GONNA WORK. Sorry, just feel strongly about that. Be NICE. Us girls hate those wanna-be-macho pervs who are rude. Be sweet and be yourself. ^_^
Friendly and outgoing is always a good thing.