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Crazy_In_Luv
Ok for some time now i have liked this guy, and we have been friends for about 2 years and i really like him more then a friend and everyone says that he likes me more than a friend too..right so everyone says whats the problem, well see whenever we hang out and stuff we always are joking around never taking each other serioulsy. but i want him to know how i really feel. I have tried before but he just said; haha you forgot to say just kidding. So how can i get him to take me seriously?
xsweetdreams12x
Tell him how you feel, but when he says, "You forgot to say just kidding," tell him you're not.

Good luck. happy.gif
laur3nw
maybe you can tell him you wanna have a serious talk and then you can tell him how you feel..just be sure youre not smiling so much when you say it cuz then he'll think youre joking with him...i think hes just in denial right now cuz he doesnt want your friendship to change or something
Crazy_In_Luv
k thanks guys it helps happy.gif
conster
tell him again and go i wasnt kidding.. lol
DrEaMgUy2K1
say you want to try being more than just friends, and tell him how u feel. If hes ur friend and he somewat likes u more than a friend,things should work out......
ComradeRed
When you take relationship too seriously, it ceases to be funny.
ThePrincessofTKD
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Jul 14 2004, 8:41 PM)
When you take relationship too seriously, it ceases to be funny.

^^ that`s true. don`t lose the laughter between you two. i mean...to make him know you`re serious...KISS HIM! _smile.gif
flyestbiggurl
Let him know u have something very serious to say and that ur not joking first.And then say what u have to say. good luck _unsure.gif
IIO__oII
aw if he is not seriously about the relationship you want, then just forget it! i mean, if you guys DO get into a relationship, dont you think he wont take it seriously?
talk it with him. =]
defjam_gangsta
Greetings!!

pull his ear and tell him ya not joking!! wink.gif den he will realise ya serious. after which, ya tell him how ya feel. tat's da only way ya gotta get his attention. for a moment, ya already caught him off-guard. ya take it from there aight?! _smile.gif

CHEERS CB!!
islandkiss
talk to him 1 on 1 and tell him that you're serious
sheepy
QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jul 17 2004, 1:45 PM)
talk to him 1 on 1 and tell him that you're serious

yup i agree.. look him in the eyeee!
strwbrryluv8
juss tell him to sit down n listen n that u really wanna talk to him... happy.gif
yeahh... that might be hard... but... we all havta overcome are fears...

n juss tell him how u really feel... n that... ur NOT KIDDING...
bright eyes
tell him you need to tell him something important. ask him if he really likes you as more than a friend, seriously. if he laughs then tell him how you feel and if he just laughs again maybe he was just lying.
winks03
like everyone else is saying let him know it serious and that you have to let him know how you feel...and if it doesnt work it then it doesnt have to be the end of the friendship because in situations like this that is what is feared the most...
xXbabi_gangstaXx
ok well mayb he's jus really scared of taking things seriously...tell him that ur serious...if he still duzn't get it then mayb he's not the right person for u....
scandalous_chic
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MeanBastard
I think I'm going to train myself to type by smashing my forehead on the keyboard since I'm typing the next sentence WAY too much. Ask him out, if he declines move on.
literemix24
Tell him how you feel 'nd tell him that you aren't joking. ..'nd maybe wehn he sed "You forgot to say just kidding" its cuz' hes prolly scared..to fall in "love" .. XP
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