Ekay
Oct 16 2009, 03:54 AM
If you saw your significant other matching with a friend that is of the opposite sex how would you react if you found out that it was intentional.
It happened to me and it bugs the living sht out of me. Maybe because I view matching more as a couples only thing; not matching all the time, but occasionally. I've yet to see friends of the opposite sex match before unless they liked each other. Am I trippin' or do I have a legitimate case of worry?
mipadi
Oct 16 2009, 08:06 AM
QUOTE(Ekay @ Oct 16 2009, 04:54 AM)

Maybe because I view matching more as a couples only thing; not matching all the time, but occasionally.
Hm. I think you're thinking of sex, actually.
Ekay
Oct 16 2009, 09:27 AM
No, what I say is actually quite literal.
Beenly
Oct 16 2009, 10:10 AM
I'm sure you're not the only one that feels like this.
;)
Maccabee
Oct 16 2009, 10:20 AM
are you telling me that if i match clothes with the girl i like we will be dating?
now think about your situation.
Ekay
Oct 16 2009, 12:21 PM
No, but isn't that generally the pattern? What would be your reason for matching with a girl if you didn't like her excluding something like school events or costume parties, since it is near Halloween.
itanium
Oct 16 2009, 06:37 PM
You're paranoid as f*ck. I doubt that your girlfriend is cheating on you because she happened to wear similar clothes as a friend at some point in her life.
Maccabee
Oct 16 2009, 06:52 PM
QUOTE(Ekay @ Oct 16 2009, 12:21 PM)

No, but isn't that generally the pattern? What would be your reason for matching with a girl if you didn't like her excluding something like school events or costume parties, since it is near Halloween.
seriously.
paranoid. i wouldnt worry about. and its disturbing that you would ask an online forum before him. dont sound paranoid or sound like your trying to make him feel guilty but just ask him! tell him it doesnt make you comfortable.
but just like us he will prob say or think. what the crap. i just wore matching clothes whats the big deal.
and how do you know it isnt just a coincidence?
karmakiller
Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM
QUOTE(Ekay @ Oct 16 2009, 12:21 PM)

No, but isn't that generally the pattern? What would be your reason for matching with a girl if you didn't like her excluding something like school events or costume parties, since it is near Halloween.
lol I couldn't figure out that your OP was about matching clothes. I was like matching what? Chemistry? Personality? Matching clothing would be the last thing I'd think of when it comes to being interested in someone. Besides if a guy is wearing the same thing as me he's probably cross dressing. And that's not attractive to me.
Beenly
Oct 16 2009, 07:22 PM
Awh, don't worry.
I think you're qt.
IWontRapeYou
Oct 16 2009, 07:24 PM
Dude, don't be that boyfriend. That boyfriend who get's pissed at a girl for having a guy friend. A guy friend she probably knew before she even started dating your ass. That boyfriend is annyoing as f*ck.
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM)

lol I couldn't figure out that your OP was about matching clothes. I was like matching what? Chemistry? Personality? Matching clothing would be the last thing I'd think of when it comes to being interested in someone. Besides if a guy is wearing the same thing as me he's probably cross dressing. And that's not attractive to me.
lol I thought he meant like matching in project partners at school or something.
itanium
Oct 16 2009, 08:08 PM
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Oct 16 2009, 07:21 PM)

cross dressing
not attractive
orly?
Tomates
Oct 16 2009, 09:52 PM
Nice tights Cj ;)
Maccabee
Oct 16 2009, 10:09 PM
that looks like the vest i have.
IWontRapeYou
Oct 16 2009, 10:13 PM
Don't judge me CJ
Ekay
Oct 17 2009, 02:25 AM
@jcp I'm a guy. Yes, I did let her know that it bugged me, but I was just wondering what people generally thought about it. It wasn't coincidence, they did plan it. @Iwontrapeyou: I'm not trying to be the boyfriend who doesn't allow his girlfriend to have guy friends. That's the last thing I'd want to do; I view that as unfair especially if I can have friends that are girls while she can't have friends that are guys? Ridiculous.
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