So, Ive been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 2 years and she has moved away to college in Arizona while im still here in California. Before she left we hung out everyday and we loved each other very much..It was as if I didn't see her for one day then I would be sad and I would miss her. Now, She has left for college and she says that she has changed and that she has learned to put herself before everyone else and that before she left she put everyone else before her. She also says that she wants to be independent in the sense that she doesn't want to feel bad if she misses my calls or texts but, we are still together and still love each other. I feel as if she doesn't care anymore or something..What do you guys think? She also said that it will never be the same when she comes back as far as hanging out everyday and stuff.

THROW SOME D'S ON THAT BITCH

A man has happened. I'm sorry. You will feel crushed. Saddened. Destroyed. And then angry. Enlightened. Cautious. Moved on. Lesson learned. It will be a dreadful process.

Two things can happen:

You'll become the guy that sees multiple women at once.
Or you'll be the guy that waits forever for your next 'right' one.

Say I ain't right.

Doesn't have to wait forever for the next 'right' one. Also things don't necessarily happen in that order, but I'd say pretty bingo right hur right hurrrr.

actually..we're fine now. Found out that she was pressured and said dumb things. She said she didn't mean any of it now and she is coming back next week to visit. I'm transferring there next semester anyways. I think sorority happened rofl.

what do u mean a man has happened? she is cheating on me? I think that's bs I didn't explain everything clearly in the post.

you guys are completely wrong.

Oh and we always talked on the phone for at least 2 hours a day but I guess i'm just a little possesive :O

She was used . Or the guy gave up on her and went off with another girl and she's like "oh no" so now this.

Son I'm not teasing you. In fact, I hope you are right. Omg come back and tell me that you are right. Try to find out wtf happened (I mean really do some background checking), wait a few weeks, then come back and tell me you were right. I will be f'n happy.

I found out that i'm 100% right.

So what happened?

You should get yourself tested.

maybe she found out you're gay