DrEaMgUy2K1
Jul 13 2004, 01:12 PM
How do u talk to someone on the phone u just met and know nothing about , do i just call and say hi,and go from there? iono my past relationships were with people i atleast somewhat knew.... anyone wanna help ? im phoen talk retarded :P
mouse_3k
Jul 13 2004, 01:42 PM
lol i did tht before...
when i was dating my ex, he introduced me to his friend on the fone:
me: hi
ex's friend: hi
(silence then you can hear the fone moving around)
ex: hey
(hear ex's friend in the background say "she sounds cool man"
lol then ex came back on the fone. Then i was like *hmm...he sounds cool..lol* so I went to my ex's friend xanga and found his sn. started talkin to him online then i got him # then after skool on a friday (yes i remember perfectly) i was bored cause i was walking to the bus so i called him up and we talked for like a hour or so...lol yup..
Now hes my sweet bf XD Im so happy i made tht call..lol I love my bf
xsweetdreams12x
Jul 13 2004, 01:48 PM
Hmmm... that's a good question.
I'm not really sure, because I've never done that before...
NawtyLilAznChic
Jul 13 2004, 04:16 PM
hmm i usually say hi n then lyk go from there, i usually end up tellin funny stories bout old friends that were tru lol
cleec
Jul 13 2004, 05:58 PM
I just met a guy and we are talking on the phone! What a coincidence. I met him at a party and he calls me a lot. Mainly we just talk about what's going on in our summer lives and once we get on a certain topic we go into other things. Like say I bring up that I went to the CD store today..then he asks oh really what do you like to listen to? Things like that..it just has to flow.
always_n0vember
Jul 13 2004, 06:02 PM
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Jul 13 2004, 1:12 PM)
How do u talk to someone on the phone u just met and know nothing about , do i just call and say hi,and go from there? iono my past relationships were with people i atleast somewhat knew.... anyone wanna help ? im phoen talk retarded :P
Yeah you can call and say.. "hey its me so and so.. I was callin to say hi!!".. "so whatcha up to..." then ask about they're day and what not.. and it should flow from there!! thats how i met my man.. through a friend over the phone... and we've been together since then... 2years&8months...
Darkpekkle
Jul 13 2004, 11:02 PM
don't worry, once u get started on the conversation (get past saying hi and the awkward silence) it'll keep flowing. start off with simple stuff like what school do you go to, interests, friends, sports, whatever. tell funny stories (like someone above mentioned)- it helps break the ice and make the convos much friendlier!
best of luck~
dani41790
Jul 13 2004, 11:13 PM
err no i dont think i've done that b4
defjam_gangsta
Jul 14 2004, 12:47 AM
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jul 14 2004, 2:42 AM)
lol i did tht before...
when i was dating my ex, he introduced me to his friend on the fone:
me: hi
ex's friend: hi
(silence then you can hear the fone moving around)
ex: hey
(hear ex's friend in the background say "she sounds cool man"
lol then ex came back on the fone. Then i was like *hmm...he sounds cool..lol* so I went to my ex's friend xanga and found his sn. started talkin to him online then i got him # then after skool on a friday (yes i remember perfectly) i was bored cause i was walking to the bus so i called him up and we talked for like a hour or so...lol yup..
Now hes my sweet bf XD Im so happy i made tht call..lol I love my bf
Greetings!!
tat was so swweett!! anyway, yeah i did somewat like tat but i guess i just stick to being frens all along.. they wasn't intrested in me i guess.. LOL
CHEERS CB!!
FrUiTy TuTie
Jul 14 2004, 01:47 AM
i would just ask tons of questions try to learn everything u can about him, i talked to this guis on aim for like hours he sounded really cute but i kept askin question he was like 'why do u keep askin questions bout me?' i was lik ei wanna no more bout u" so he was like "okay then how bout u ask one question then i ask one" i was like alright!! it was tons of funn.. but anyways.. ASK QUeSTIONS FIRST!!
someflipguy
Jul 14 2004, 09:49 AM
I actually text message them first...then i start to get into the voice conversations...
Retrogressive
Jul 14 2004, 10:06 AM
yea its best to get to know someone before talking on the phone.
inthemudhole
Jul 14 2004, 10:17 AM
Blah. I haven't done it too much.. I usually just talk about my friends.. I end up saying "wow.." and "yeah.." a lot.. yeah..
I hate talking on the phone, anyway.
SkYlIneZx4xLiF
Jul 14 2004, 10:45 AM
juss call em up nd say hi or watevah....the thing will juss go from there
islandkiss
Jul 14 2004, 10:56 AM
umm.. just introduce yourself and just talk about random things.
sheepy
Jul 14 2004, 01:06 PM
o_O umms.. im not too sure just talk to get to noe the other person
babySTEPH
Jul 14 2004, 08:46 PM
just say thinqs like wsup, what school you qo to, whatchu like to do, etc. qet to know him better & maybe thinqs will work out qood & you'll see what happens
ibabyqrlx
Jul 14 2004, 08:54 PM
i`ve never done that before.. but i guess u can just say hi and ask them some questions, like how was their day..
ichiban
Jul 14 2004, 10:54 PM
call .. say hi .. talk bout stuff that goes on around school .. lol .. yeah and then talk about whatever you think of xP
inthemudhole
Jul 15 2004, 12:11 AM
Yeah. Just be random...
It's kinda awkward at times.
hybrid
Jul 15 2004, 12:15 AM
Depends on who you're talking to.
Looow
Aug 9 2004, 08:38 PM
hmm yeah just say hi and go from there...ask questions about them....try to get to know them...=]
huney8o8
Aug 17 2004, 02:08 PM
thatz happened to meeh a couple of tymes. all i did waz call the person or he called meeh....and we jus sorta asked questionz to find out a litol more about each other! and then it went on from there!
captivatedheart
Aug 17 2004, 02:14 PM
i just met this guy and the only communication for us is AIM & our cell phones. but my advice, just talk about ANYTHING. like favorites, random questions (take those questions from those xanga survey things. it helps), past experiences that will crack him up, etc. just go with the flow, so cliche, but it helps. and remember to keep the conversation going.. and if you're interested in him, make sure you get that clear across =)
oh yeah, and don't interrupt him if he's talking.. not good.
sammi rules you
Aug 17 2004, 02:54 PM
just call up and be like "hi..i was bored and i remembered i had your number..wanna chat?" that's how i call people..
skaterjswife2
Aug 18 2004, 01:32 AM
oh my gooooosh i know what u mean lol.
basicaly what usually works is like aksing what they did today.. like if they say ohh.. i went skating today.. u say oh i wanna learn to skate..BLAHBLAH blah lol andit can go on from there ya know? and if theres EVER an awkward silence just ask some stupid random question like whats ur middle name i swear it works lol! okay well yaa good luck!
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