i've decided to make an advice topic becuase it seems that some people need it. so... post up ur advice for peoples that need it!!

there are four catergories::
1]frends
2]dating. relationship. etc
3]family
4]enemies
but you can make ur own catergory as well!! just post the catergory, and type in what you want to say about it.

so... my advice??

frends::
if they piss you off, tell them to **** off! just forget them and go on... get some new frends and be better off than before! that way, they'll noe that u can live w/o them. dont bother holding unto them... its just going to make you seem pathetic and they'll just make you down more. so keep ur head up!! aiites? ^_^

dating::
i dont noe much about this catergory... i not "experienced" well... experienced as in choosing the guy... but not in "dating" so yea... haha

family::
no clue. right now. me and my family not so well off... haha ^_^

the advice for friends...ummm ur right, i agree with your thinking
how about adding a category for enemies? lol

i added it, jordan inc. thanks for telling me to add it ^_^

1. FRiENDS
- Having friends can be a drag when they dont know how to have fun.. Find friends who don't take life so freakin' serious every freakin' day..
- Friends are great, if you find the right ones.. ^

2. RELATiONSHiP
- Don't give in too fast.. Just because a guy and a girl spend time a lot together as friends, doesn't mean there's that special spark between you two.
- If you really like the girl/guy, don't scare them off by taking things to fast..
- Comment the girl or guy every once in awhile.. It's nice to hear from your gf/bf.

3. FAMiLY
Be nice to your parents cause you'll know that they'll be there for you every step of the way.. (it's not just your friends) but your mother/father have been there for since then. Well as for your brothers/sisters, keep being mean to them! Haha.. J/k

4. ENEMiES
Sticks and stones make break my bones but words will never hurt me.. Am I right?.. Haha, anyways.. I'm not really an enemy type of person.. If they hate you, hate them back..

great advice coldasice! *nods head* smartness

for dates.

this is for guys, dont talk about cars, music, or anything else that girls wouldnt wanna listen to.

pay attention to the girl when its cold outside and you have a jacket. ( i learned this the hard way)

i disagree cause i have a classmate who had a real good friend who pissed her off... they stoped being friends.... now this classmate wasnt very friendly, and after that, she never had friends until now...

>_<

you both are true..

i can learn a lot from you.. will you be my girlfiend??

WHAT? LEAVE ME ALONE! hahaha..

hahaha joke joke joke.. do you really mean that?? i mean i already have you right?? haha

always be there for [a] friend[s] because sooner or later, they'll help you and if they don't, well i guess they take friends for granted!

err...what's going on?!?!

er..? haha

hmm... CJ1, i guess you are right in ways. but i guess it depends on what the situation is... but you are smart. i never thot of it that way... i was only talking/typing based on my experiences ^_^ haha

really? me? smart? im so honored wait... that didnt seem too smart.... yeah....

HAHA no really your smart! ^_^ seriously.

you should see me right now... im blushing.. and im so smiley.... wait... smiley isnt a word...

at least not in that kind of way...

FRIENDS: Don't tell them to **** off! I mean, unless they really piss you off. Some things you can get over.
RELATIONSHIPS: Don't push people to do something you want them to do. Don't let people push you into doing something you're not ready for, like sex. If they respect you, they won't push you.
FAMILY: Make sure to have contact with your family, an have social interactions. lol. Have at least one meal a day together, with everyone in your family. Make sure you talk to them. After all, they're paying for the bills and the food and washing your clothes..unless you don't live at home...then, stayin contact!
ENEMIES: Avoid them. If you have them, avoid them. Don't go looking for fights, if they come to you, don't back down easily, don't give in, but stand up for yourself. Don't physically fight-that's no good. But have the courageto walk away. That's the best thing you can have. Did anybody get that? The last part?

awwwww~ haha

hmm... good advice good advice on relationships i think people should get that!! haah dass right ^^

:+:Fwendz-Gewd fwendz will always stick by your side no matter what rumors other ppl make. they'll always know you for who you are, and they wont make you change (unless they dont want you to say insults ;D)

:+:Relationships-NEVER, AND I MEAN NEVER GET IN A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU'RE NOT READY! or when you're too young. trust me, when you're too young and dont understand love yet, it might get ugly. N they never last.

:+:Family-Love them no matter what, cuz they'll always love you. no matter how pissed you are at them, or they are at you, after a while, you'll look back at that moment and laugh. cuz family lasts forever...unlike relationships. and if you really dont like your family, get used to them, cuz they're gonna be around for a LOOONNGG while.

:+:Enemies-just ignore them. and on the outside they seem tough, but on the inside they're as weak as glass (doesnt make sense, eh?). just be patient, and just wait, cuz maybe they'll come crawling back to you saying sorry. N when they insult you, you can just say "thank you" to annoy them. that's where i get my fun. lolz.

heh, we should make this like a sub forum for this forum! lol, this is a great idea!

derno...dont act "gangsta" on her.

act yourself.

W0RD 0F TH3 WiSE!

seriously... gawr... guys! please dont act all like "wangsta" on the gals unless they WANT it... kekeke yea... as you can see in the gurls' locker... most of us dont enj0i the presence of wannabe peoples... ahah

Alright. Listen carefully, this is going to be some weirdo story but really its real.

There's this guy his name is Bryan. I care about giving names because I hate him so much. He was long ago a friend of my cousin's. But now they are just aquaintances. He stole my cousin's journal and read it during lunch. He thinks he's superior to my family. He called my family; lesbians, gay people and freaks. And he said my family has a low life. I hate him so much, what am I to do? Do I ignore him? If I do, I can't stand it. He's getting me angry that I want revenge! Help?

tell him straight out that you hate him and that he's pissing you off. hahaha thass funny, ur family- a low life? MY @$$... it seems as tho he has a low life since he's judging your family rahter than himself. thass so gay... anyways. dont ignore him if you cant. dont push urself to being nice and good if you dont wanna.

~*~Friend~*~
Dont change fo anyone even though it sound cliche and all....itz tue we all say we wont but wen we get in the sitch...we do and say different things...so if you feel yourself changing aask yourself"why?" bc if itz notbc u want it then u should put yourself in the positon to change.

Dating and Relationship:
Don't say " I love you " after 2 days of dating. It's stupid and you'll probably freak out your date.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

^WORD chinkieeyedpnoi... alot of younger peoples especially 6th and 7th grade (i noe from experience) make the mistake of saying i love you too soon... and it gets hard to break up cause the person just wont let you go...

wow....all this readin is really hlpful thanx everyone!

whoa.. jeese u need to tell em off rikku

whoa..pplz knos so much bout these stuff.. thx 4 the advice tho. hehs..even tho i onli read the relationship parts

Enemies

What I don't really get is that someone is so pathetic as to cuss someone out online! This happened to me! And this enemy knew me in real life! In fact she still is an enemy! I just want to say that people who hate/dislike someone in RL 9rela life) shouldn't go so low as to cuss someone out online and not say a single *bleep*ing word to their face! I mean, if you wanna say something bad to someone, at least front! It's really low to do that.


Relationships

Don't give up on relationships so quick! Ont eh first day of dating my boyfriend (since he asked me out), at that time I wasn't sure whether I should have got together with him. I kept feeling like i shouldn't have said yes, becuase I didn't have feelings for him YET. I though he was really cute (he's so adorable, like a lil boy =D) and all, but I don't base everything on looks. He was really shy and yea. If I hadn't listened to my friend and stayed with him, I wouldn't have ever felt love nor be in a relationship for a while (I was going to dedicate myself to education and I wanted to give up on the love part). My Advice is that don't give up on love so quick. I mean, you have to give time for your love to develop. People seem to be falling in and out of love, or they jsut date someone for a week and just break up. I personally think that's a load of bull because that was not even a relationship.

=) 15 months.. Going on 16 months for me and my hubby =D

hmm... another relationship advice:

Dont ever dump quickly cause you feel annoyed and just bored if you ever feel that you are bord of your relationship, think over it first. think of how much ur gf/bf meant to you before and how much he/she means to you now, and think of why its like that. if you think over it constantly and you come to the decision that it has to be over after LONG thought, then go ahead. but dont just dump and regret later. even tho you feel annoyed and bored now, you might regret it w/o them.

w0w .. s0me 0f the things y0u said were a little harsh ab0ut friends..

just because a friend can piss y0u 0ff s0metimes d0esn't mean that y0u sh0uld wipe them 0ff the slate .. friends, like all pe0ple, are n0t perfect s0 y0u will have disagreements and pr0blems .. but y0u have t0 c0nsider h0w much they've been there f0r y0u and h0w much y0u care bef0re y0u readily let s0me0ne like that g0 .. y0u may regret it and furtherm0re it d0esnt sh0w that y0u have any rati0nality if y0u just dr0p them acting as if they were `bad` friends..make sure y0u rec0gnize the difference between a true friend and s0me0ne y0u can live with0ut.

Uhmm... Why would you call someone your "friend" if you'll just leave em when they piss you off? Everyone pisses each other at times.. buh friends, they always reconcile.. that's why you're FRIENDS in the first place... Just kinda got a lil offended.. Every relationship is a give and take situation, one does something that offends the other buh someone always makes the first step to reconciliation. You wouldn't be a friend to your "friends" if you just drop them like a hot potatoe. If they piss you off, give it time.. and you'll all be happy. That's better than holding a grudge and making everyone else grumpy.

As for dating:
Keep it slow. Going too fast is just.. well... too fast. You gotta keep everything in a proper pace coz if you don't stuff just.. well it gets out of control.

For the enemies:
You gotta love em ;P They add the "spice" to yah life

hahaha well, if they piss you off for a long time and ignore you and hurt you alot (frends) then they shouldnt be ur frends. yea, what i said was harsh i agree aww sorry if i offended you guys didnt mean to. im just saying, if they dont care about you and sh!tload like that, then you need to get over it and move on to other frends. cause i've seen so many people hang on to frendships that just dont work, but they still hang on to them and end up getting hurt and getting really depressed. if you let go of them after they hurt you tho, there is a better chance of them realizing how much they miss you rather than getting more irritated by you. dass all im trying to say

sorry you guys!! seriously, didnt mean to get you guys all mad...