okay ... well, this is what's up ... let's just tell you guys the whole truth ... i'm not a virgin, and this is what this is about ........ okay well, like my closest friend in the world, who knows everything about me(her name is kimy) ... told her friend(korina), that i'm not a virgin ... and the reason why that makes me upset is because in all the years that we've been close she's never told anyone any of my secrets ... and the other part is that like i know korina, she's my friend, but i'm not close enough to her, to let her know that kinda stuff about me ... and like my other 2 good friends doesn't even know that i'm not a virgin ... that's the other reason why i'm so upset. please help me out ... like ... how would you feel if you were in my situation? ... i talked to kimy and i told her how i feel and everything ... but like the thought of her brings tears to my eyes because of what she did ... and like i'm really mad at her. i told her i'd be disappointed and mad for a long time because it's something that's hard to overcome ... how would you handle this?

Eh..that's a toughy. I'd probably feel very upset. How old are you? Because I understand that if you are young and not a virgin, you wouldn't want that out in the open.

hey, you are not alone. STORY TIME, just like you.

my "bestfriend" knows everything about me. and I finally told her I wasnt a virgin and she flipped out. Goes off and tells ppl what I had done and starts saying "Im going to get my mom to buy her a pregnancy test" and to top it off...she told everyone BUT me what she was doing. and so the whole band knows (over 100 ppl) and everything. So that put me into tears in my boyfreinds arms.
Afterall that, she blames other ppl for telling other ppl when she started it. But what can you do? ...maybe thats why I dont hang out with her that much (we take a summers break apart or we fight) and I dont tell her anything anymore, much less anyone at all.

xanger

ummm.idk cus i habent been in dis situation, maybe sometimes its better to keep dese dings to urself.

well you know people change. you should tel your friend that next time that she should keep it to herself and to herself ONLY. well asfor me i stil have my virginity but my "best friend" blabbed tons of embarassing things ive done when i was young to my ex not the exactly the same, but you can say i kinda know how it feels

yep.. I would tell her that I lost trust in her for what she has done.

hmms.. yeah im not exactly sure wut ur feeling .. but u should tell her how u feel about wut she done.