i got this gurl friend (gurl as a fwend) tat came up to me one night telling me shes totally in love with this very awesome guy she met, but shes already got a boy friend((she still likes her boy though)). she knew tat guy for like,,,um.... a month or so ((iguess))hes sweet and funny. and also she has been going out w/ her boyfirend for like a half year, he use tobe funny and stuff,, but now he suddenly got all bored. so she ask me wat she should do? dump her boy friend and go out w/ this new guy or stay as b4? advice plz***


um do u guys get it? did i make it confusing?
and also i dunno if this post belongs here or sum other place,,but owell~ since here says anything off topic, i'll juz post it here.

hmm this actually belongs in relationship


Well, does she know that other guy very well? What if he gets boring on her too? Tell your friend not to do anything that she'll regret.. I don't really know what else to say...


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which one does your friend like more?

She isn't really faithful. She has a bf and still likes other people. Eh.

even tho her bf is boring doesnt mean she should just dump him because of that. do something to spark up the relationship. and that guy that she knew for a month mite not be as fun anymore after a month or so. and knoing him onli for one month is not long. id say one year is long.

^ yea i totally agree. give it some more time to know the other guy better. and of course every new person you meet will be really interesting at first, because there's so much to learn about him/her. it's like getting a new toy.. you dont want to throw away all the other toys you already have... but you want to play with the new toy every day, 'cuz well... it's new. it's something different from what you've been playing with for the past year. but after the initial excitement dies down, your interest in the new toy will probably dwindle as well.

she should really think about this thoroughly, because sometimes, there are no second chances. so if she dumps her current bf, and finds out that the new guy isn't really the one for her... she'll regret dumping him. besides, she's been going out with her current bf for half a year... i'm sure that something can be done to make the relationship lively again. try some new activities together, like canoe-ing, ice skating, etc.

she should also get to know the other guy for a longer period of time, and then decide which guy makes her the happiest...

Hope things work out for the best~

keep her bf..it will werk out soon...

^^

that`s really sad. i guess she`s not the "commitment" type of person.

anyways..whatever makes her happy. if she has no satisfaction in life...she won`t be settled with one man. so if she wants to dump her boyfriend for this "new" guy...she has all the right to. it`s her choice. and her relationship, too. and if that guy is so boring to her, then why isn`t he doing anything about that? lack of interest??

people these days..

who does she like better?