So my dad got a job in Virgina Beach, Va and I am really torn of either going or not going. I love it here Charleston, SC but I was thinking I have been here for a while and I want to explore new things and new places. The only thing I am truly scared of is losing my friends...and its hard to find good friends...sigh... Help!!!

u eithe go or dont go or umm visit if u stay visit him if u dont visit them

if your parents choose to move, you don`t really have much of a choice, right? new schools are always great because you get a fresh start. and besides, you`re bound to lose touch with a lot of high school friends after you go to college anyway. =] my opinion is that you should go. it might bring about new opportunities. ya never know.

Well...I kind of live on my own right now...I have an apt with my brother and I am already in College..my sophomore year...I don't have to go but...you know

eh? well, then. if you move, won`t you be further away from your college?

if u live on ur own, u dun neeeda move...especialliee it is hard to find good friends..jus visit ur parents wen ever u hab time

u might consider finishing college before you move to a new town, then if u want u can get a job in the same city ur dad got a job in

Took the words right out of my mouth.

i don't think it's very difficult to find new friends. you'll get them in time in one way or another, because... yeah. it's kind of the way it's always worked out for me.


cheers. good luck whatever you choose.

i think you should...go with them. then finish college. then get a job and move back to charlseton or whatever the place is.

I'll say Go, But like they said if u live by urself then DONT.

i personally hate moving,i hate starting over n everythin, i live in va, ur gonna make new frends n all that stuff,u will still be able to contact ur old ones though, sometimes change is for da better, but its up to u,or ur parents

but now yoju hve a chance to start over.
be a thief with a new name
be a rich liar with no money
be watever you want
you can make up a new identity people once knew you but now they dont!

Making new friends isnt that hard cuz eventually you will make some.. but if your parents want you to move with them.. i think you should move with them.. cuz a new start is always great

i don't really like changes all that much, and i would definitely miss living in my home town and all my friends... so i wouldn't move.

since you have ur own apartment, can u do both? maybe live in va for half a year. and then for the next half of the year stay in charleston? (i visited virginia beach btw, and it was so nice there!)

well. the choice is yours, best wishies!

well if they're good friends then they would write and keep in contact with u as much as they could and u can always go back and visit them, i would wanna go explore and stuff but i need a guarantee that i can go back lol

hMM... maybe u should visit VA for a lil bit .. and if u like where u live now.. u shouldnt move with ur parents then..