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Winter
Okay like my ex and I broke up 3 months ago and we haven't really talked much after the break up coz of that awkward phrase. And now he's started talking to me, like 24/7. And it's just like the old times again, where we flirt and laugh and talk about the future.

He knows I get depressed a lot about school and the pressure, and he's always there for me. He even made a special studying timetable for me. He's even helped me to break up with this guy I'm, dating (er, was dating anyway...).

And after another of my depression outburst again today, we got talking about us. To be honest, I never stopped loving him. And I just started crying and screaming at him. I told him that I still loved him but at the same time, I hated that feeling. And how it's making me hate him. And he just supported me.

He admitted that when I got together with the other guy, he was jealous. But another part of him was happy that I had someone. And he says he doesn't know if he loves me or not.

And it's long distance. With my national exam and his boot camp, we'll only be able to see each other at the end of the year or early next year. He says there's nothing we can do but to wait. And when we finally see each other, things will get sorted out.

He's so nice to me. You know, he's actually getting a cell for me coz he knows I can't afford one just yet. I know he wants me to be happy, that's partly why he offered. And another part, I think it's coz he wants me to call him. My parents never let me make international calls. But if I had my own cell, I could get an international package.

I'm scared. I honestly am. This is indeed, a fairytale, just like he always said. I'm scared this fairytale isn't going to get a happy ending.
babixlilac
most fairytales are happy in the end.urs are gonna be jus like a happy fairytale.i guess dont worry bout it jus call him wen u wanna hear his voice.
hybrid
Hopefully, it will. Just hope for a better future. You two seem really close. And that's gonna bring you two together no matter how far apart you guys really are physically. Don't let distance or not seeing each other tear you two apart. Let the love and the faith overcome that. _smile.gif
ThePrincessofTKD
myths are supposed have a bad ending...[those stories with gods & goddesses in them...yup....tragic endings..]

fairy tales always have good endings....because God made them to. _smile.gif

honestly....he really cares for you alot..and that`s wonderful [i`m jealous tongue.gif ]. but long distance isn`t really the thing...maybe he really misses you and just wants the feeling of being near you...but you can`t really call that love..can you? hmm....that maybe love..yeah...he pretty much misses you, but is unsure of restarting the relationship mode thing....

overall...do you want that? him back in your life?
conster
aww thats so sweet tho.. sounds like a korean drama... dont worry.. i think that wen u think its a tragic, the happiness stays til the end, so stay till the end =] but if it doesnt work out, its ok rite? jus dont put too much of ur heart into it, and plus u guys did try.. so even if u guys are gonna go through hardships, u kno at least it was worth the try
d3v1l1ci0us
YES, WHATS UP WITH GUYS? :D??
dani41790
like every1 said, fairy tales have happy endings
ichiban
aw .. hes so nice to you! .. i hope it works out =]]
eboarder2020
Tha does make for a great story...Maybe things will turn out great, and maybe they wont...But have hope...And dont give up...take care or yourself kid and we're all crossing our fingers for ya..
fullmusicedmajor
fairy tale="and they all lived happily ever after". Good luck!
pm3k
oh guy, here's a guy's POV..

I broke up with my ex not long ago.. and I still had strong feelings for her after weeks... then I was slowly losing my feelings for her since she didn't give me the respect I expected..

i'd feel jealous too if my ex got another guy not long after we broke up.. i find that disrespectful - since "i" wouldn't do that.... it would just give your ex mixed emotions and think whether there is another chance or not...

and what u mean by happy ending - back together??? it seems that he's looking forward in seeing u again happy.gif

3 words: "Good luck la~" haha laugh.gif i'm trying to act fobbbish tongue.gif
Winter
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jul 5 2004, 1:29 AM)
overall...do you want that? him back in your life?

Yeah, I do... A lot.

QUOTE
oh guy, here's a guy's POV..

I broke up with my ex not long ago.. and I still had strong feelings for her after weeks... then I was slowly losing my feelings for her since she didn't give me the respect I expected..

i'd feel jealous too if my ex got another guy not long after we broke up.. i find that disrespectful - since "i" wouldn't do that.... it would just give your ex mixed emotions and think whether there is another chance or not...

and what u mean by happy ending - back together??? it seems that he's looking forward in seeing u again 

3 words: "Good luck la~" haha  i'm trying to act fobbbish


After we broke up, he started going out with this girl. Then I got together with the other guy. So I dont' think it'll be like... disrespectful...

I want a happy ending. I wanna be able to just stay in his arms, and be able to feel like nothing else matters except us together.
oOjenniOo
Aww that's so cute! I want a guy friend that is really close to me.. he seems really sweet and if you guys love eachother in the way you do... as in best friends, then ou won't lose faith in eachother and it'll turn out to be a happy ending rolleyes.gif
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