ok so me n this guy had been going out for a while.. and then last night he told me we needed to break up to so that he could have time to concentrate on getting a job and everything and then he said that he didnt want to leave for good and that he wanted me to wait on him? do you think he's just trying to get rid of me or should i just wait on him? i mean i understand that he needs to concentrate but i mean we could have stayed together and just not hung out so much ya know? and he keeps saying he needs time to himself and time to think so i really dont know what to think. this is just all confusing.

Maybe "his time" includes seeing other people. I think you should talk to him and let him know how you feel that you think that you guys can make it work.

To be honest when a man tries to sell me something like that i never buy it because if a guy really cares about a girl he stays with her through thick and thin.


I wouldn't wait on him but i wouldn't necessarily go out looking for another boyfriend..

thanks y'all. yea i told him it was over. :]

Thats good.

Since this is resolved Ill go ahead and close this :]

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