last night me and my bf went to speedzone with a couple of his buddies. he was goin on this one ride so he told me to hold his cellphone. once he was in line, i sat down with his homies. then i was thinkin if there's anything happenin with him and his co worker. cuz i know he's all being nice and shit to her to get on her good side so she can put in a good word with her dad about maybe hiring him to work at the auto center. so once i got in his phone, all i saw was all this shit like "oh i'd feel better if we were cuddling." or "oh can i come over sometime?" i got so mad that i excused myself from his friends and walked over to where he was. i showed him his fone and i was like "you wanna tell me wtf this is?" and he was juz like i'll tell you later. and i was mad and i raised my voice a lil bit and pulled him by his sweater. i was like "NO! I'D LIKE AN EXPLANATION NOW!"

so he got out of the line and we talked
he was all like oh that's nothing
we're juz joking around we're juz friends
i was like i know how you are
and you don't flirt
he's all i'm like that with all the girls
and he corrected himself well maybe not
and i raised my voice again
i was like "NO UR NOT! UR ONLY LIKE THAT WITH HER!"
and he's like that doesn't mean anything
all i can say was "thats total bullshit right there"

i didn't get to say this to him last night cuz his friends where there
and like he takes more time talkin to her than me
he takes the time to call her to say goodnite and goodmorning
and he barely talks to me

idk what to believe
should i believe him when he said that it doesn't mean anything?
what do you guys think?

ummm...I think you shouldnt take it to seriously. But he is flirting with her. He prob just wanted to flirt with a girl.

i know exactly how you feel because i've been there myself. if a man is confronted with something like this, they will deny it even with hard evidence in front of them. your best option is to go with what your gut says. it never lies and it's always right. you're still young and you probably weren't dating long (i'm saying over a year). so ending this while it's still new is best for you. because down the road you may have to face this same situation if not worse if it's not fixed right now. if he's not man enough to say to you that he's interested in someone else and he wants to move on, then he's not gonna be man enough to admit that he's flirting with another woman.

Men are horn dogs. When are female going to realize that a man isn't a man until he fully matures and has self respect.

you're talking about jj right?


dude, i'll explain it for you.
you're like the berry that fell on the ground.
hes trying to pick the fresh berries
he thinks hes a player
don't trip too hard
HAHA

@ s1cktypeSF
I'm totally on your side. A boyfriend should be loyal, serious, honest, and communicatable.
Your boyfriend needs to learn to NOT cross the line. Even if he is a guy, he should know his
limits of when to flirt and when to know that he has a girlfriend.

If he's talking with her more than you, that's obviously suspicious. I can understand if he talks to a family member more for advice or company, but why would he want to keep talking to a co-worker? Seriously, I would only talk to a co-worker at work and only at work. I' would only let them have my number for EMERGENCY business, not PERSONAL conversation.

If your feeling mistreated, then speak up. You can't just sit there with his friends and him flirting with girls right infront of you. Guys don't really understand how girls feel suspicious or jealous. Girls have reasons to be like that. Out of love, not out of ignorance. He has no exucse whatsoever to say you're jealous.

I hope you work things out.

I agree with this.

My mom told me the same thing and now I'm getting homesick

^ yeah, melie said everything i said.
i know how you feel, wow it pisses me off.

Your boyfriend tried to have a debate about what drivetrain in a car is more efficient when it comes to racing (he was on your screenname). He seemed like a douche.

Jussayin'

i know him too. hahahahahahah loser
you got played hahaha

If you leave him now..

honestly it makes us look bad when that kinda shit happens but yea i say you test him him once
he fails then he's done
cause i mean yea you saw those messages but if u can find something further then yea u can make ur judgment cause i know guys who i mean they got g/fs and at the same time they still flirt wit they friends but that's simply it they don't go any further with it and yea after their girl catches on to it they explain it or they tell em that the girl means nothin to them and then it stops so yea if it continues then yea def. leave him but make sure that u don't make a mistake cause if u make an accusation and ur wrong think bout where it throws the guys view of you
i'm not saying hes right for what he did cause obviously he shouldn't be flirtin wit another girl it's cool if they friends and all that and they get along but flirtin crosses the line.

If he breaks up with you, I already know who he will be with. Dude got a backup plan.

who are u and how do u know him?

update:

well we talked about it more the night after cuz he slept over my house
and he kinda felt guilty that he's making me feel all sad and shit
now we're closer than ever

we practically live together anyways since he sleeps over so much

oh and he's all like i'm not gonna talk to her to anything anymore
i told him i believe him
but if i stop by his work and i see them talkin
his car is gonna get it
then him





who ever has the username c**t... who the f*ck are you and how do you jj?
he told me to ask you that.

lol i knew you werent going to break up with him

Word, she going to have a remix to that TPain song when it happens again talking about :

"Ohhhhhhh I can't believe it
Ooh ooh he cheated on me on me
He he no longer want me want me
Now I am lonley awwwwwww"

i would've broken up with him
but he really was sorry about it
and he's been real honest and stuff to me

idk...
its hard to explain
but i'm sure stuff like this wont happen again

on the contrary i think it should be. Ive been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and if i found out he was saying things like that to another girl i would question him and ask him what the world he is doing.
If every guy or girl decided not to talk to their beau's with situations like that then it would be just a whole cheat fest out there.

I would talk to him and tell him that this is bothering you and politely tell him to stop. If he does it again tell him and briefly warn him that there will be consequences of doing it a third time. If it doesn't stop then it would probably be best to cut it off. You should be happy in a relationship, not worried and sad.

i wouldn't call it dick whipped. Im not saying he cant talk to other girls

Stop, you killing me right now.

LOL

also.
http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Pathetic

you must be blind if you didn't see the gigantic, bolded 'my bf' quotes. they're not my posts.

btw yall

LOL!
You guys are gone cucu!

i can't believe i didn't catch this.

i never said i was gonna

Not to be rude or anything, but the thought must have crossed your mind. After all you did say this :

JDM 4 LIFE

HAHAHA shamwow...

i c da cummmurrsiall onee tymee.. shiett funni..

he must have taken your virginity man!

random

OMGODDDDDDDD that seriously has to be the funniest thing I've ever seen

whats with all the shamwow? i was actually thinking about it buying one

don't
they over exaggerate stuff on the commercial
we bought one and its not wow-ing me at all
not even a teeny bit

this dude scares the shit outta me cause I think he can convince me to tampons for myself but i dont have a vagina

I wonder what sex with him is like