I used to give this girl advice on this forum I use for a while. We became friends. She was 15 and I was 18. I saw her as a younger sister/friend. We lost contact and got back in touch recently. I realized I have an interest in her. I think she likes me somewhat too. I am going to visit her this weekend.

But point being. I don't want her to see me as a older brother or friend. She's 18 now. I want her to see me as someone she'd want to be in a relationship with. Should I tell her that off the bat, or wait until the date progresses to say something?

Also, I don't want her to think I'm just out for sex either. But if that's what happens.. then I'm going to go with it. Should I bring up sex somewhere along the date?

hmm...i would say that you should wait until the date progresses until you tell her how u feel

Yeah wait for your meet-up with her. You should either tell her flat out you like her or drop hints, so she gets it. And I would not mention sex on the meet-up. That will just make you seem like sex is all you care about & that'd be creepy.

so hay, did you bone?