my b/f says this 2 me



a part of me wants to a part of me loves him ever soo much

idk wat to do so i say


but im like so depressed now i wanna die
plz idk i need idk ive been cryin 4 like an hr now

Hey...! Talk to him, tell him that if he gets mad alot, you can handle it. Or maybe it was a lame excuse to finish you off..I dunno..don't listen to me.

convince him otherwise.

what'd he say to what you said? i'm sorry honey, that would be my worst nightmare

well i mean.. if he does hurt you alot... i remember some old old posts of yours where u talked about him hurting you and such. If he's hurting you so much, how can u hold on? But you seem to really like him alot, maybe enough to love him.. Tell him to stop hurting you.. If he really cared about you, he would STOP and try to not get so angry...

But maybe the break up is best for both of you IF he hurts you so much and get so mad frequently.. even though the break up will hurt you alot.. it might be for the best...

^^the only way girl.

i think it`s best to break up with him. NO GUY should be treating a girl like that. guys are ALWAYS to treat girls like princesses.

love hurts, doesn`t it?

ask him who is hurting who. ask him why is he getting mad frequently.. try to talk things out.. since he brought up the topic.. talk it thru with him

if he's hurting you nd getting mad at you alot and everything .. well first step, talk to him!

when yoo gib someone yoor <3, yoo dun want anything baq buh fo dem to happi n loved. hab a talk wif him, ib he ish alwayz sho0 mad it dun mean dat ish yoor fault. mayb ish someone else. buh in anycase, ib yoo love someone, yoo dun hab to b wif dem 24/7. a simple glance n loq ish gewd enugh.
-carmi

when yoo gib someone yoor <3, yoo dun want anything baq buh fo dem to happi n loved. hab a talk wif him, ib he ish alwayz sho0 mad it dun mean dat ish yoor fault. mayb ish someone else. buh in anycase, ib yoo love someone, yoo dun hab to b wif dem 24/7. a simple glance n loq ish gewd enugh.
-carmi

man, i'm really sorry, I really don't know what to say.... but remember, no guy is worth crying over, and the guy that is, won't make you cry

Talk to him about it...maybe its for the best?

It would be perfect if you talk to him via phone! That way, you'll not be in hassle. LOL

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AzN_PnoY_BoI

talk to him buh if he realli wan u to be outta his life...den do wat he wants..maybe he will miss u...nd wanna get back

you have to calm down .. you've posted similar threads to this one where you're constantly crying or upset with your boyfriend .. although it sounds hard .. if you really love him that much you'll let him go if he doesn't seem happy in the relationship .. have faith that if things were meant to be it'll work out in its own time .. you can't stop your life because of it .. because the world won't stop for you .. be strong and keep doing what you have to and maybe he'll come back .. but for now all you can do is respect how he feels and back off .. i'm sorry .. it's easier said than done but don't go getting all irrational saying you want to die .. you have so many things to live for .. most importantly family and friends who care and love you .. be considerate to those who are there for you .. don't think of taking the easy way out and doing something stupid like wanting to die .. it's being selfish to your loved ones .. in time things will get better ..

& you should listen to christina (just_dream) .. she's seen your old posts as well .. and i also recall posts where he made you unhappy and didn't treat you right .. so don't stay with someone who's hurting you more than making you happy .. it isn't worth it .. you're just consumed with a blind love that just doesn't really exist .. you have to learn to let go .. it happens .. that's how life and love is ..

dont worry, it happens... we all have to suffer from break ups.. and its consequences.. but u kno what? us girls gotta be strong and get over it and show the guys that they're gonna be losers witout us =) i hope u feel better

if you have been crying for an hour then you must really love him then you should works things out talk to him ask him why hes getting up set and make things betta well i wish for all the best for you

good luck



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I know how your feeling. Just remeber things will get better, and you ahve friends. A boy that makes you cry is NOT worth it.

wow that helped me alot. me and my bf broke up some time now. he hurt me lotz.. =/ thank you

Aww hun... I'm sorry. Sometimes things just don;t go the way we want them too... *sigh*

I'm sorry .... hey, do you want me to punch him for you?

Make that a double punch.
with a kick down there using steel-toed boots.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Aww I'm sorry. I know this must hurt but don't go kill yourself because of it. You're life is worth a lot more than giving it up for him.

You still have a lot of things ahead of you, and you're young now. This just served as an experience. I mean, I would cry too, but eventually, slowly, the pain will seize away. Just remember that better times will come your way, and there will be more heartbreaks, more b/f's, but eventually, you will stabilize into a better relationship.
Time will tell and right now you're in pain, but it will slowly seize away.
Don't worry, I hope you feel better though.

let it burn. you're probably a beautiful girl, you can get a better guy than a guy who makes an excuse like that. you're worth more than that! :D well you dont have to listen to me.. ok.. im going to shut up now..

uh-huh i agree. no guy should treat a girl like that.

GREETINGS!!!

Awwez.
I'm sorry.

Break it off.. I guess.

CHEERS, CB!!!

Try tying in proper English. Maybe what you have here is that your boyfriend can't understand your IMs.

hes not worth it. If hes being a little p*ssy and getting mad a little bit over here and there, hes not worth it. Me and my bf fight like at least once a week. its like a givin...we both get hurt but we still manage. I personally think ur ex is a p*ssy. Im sure u will find someone way better.


just wondering, how long have u been going out wit him?

trust me you dont wanna die. just work it out. or just deal with it. how long have you guys been going out??? well dont worry it will pan out. it will work out for the best...

I dont even know what to say. Please just dont do anything to hurt yourself. My good friend's older sister killed herself because of a stupid boy that broke her heart. If anyone can cause you that much pain then they are not worth being with. Even if you got back with this guy, it probably wouldnt be for the best. It would hurt more if he tried to end it again. I promise you can find someone that can treat you right

its natural to think that i think... i know how u feel >.<
but be happy wit wat u got.... thats wat my cuzzin said to me...
bah.. theres more fishes in the sea... i hate that saying.. n yet its true

aww, i'm sorry. but i guess you just have to deal with it and try to get over him. i know it's hard, because i've been through that too. but there is probably another guy out there.