i've never really had any special "feelings" for any of the boyfriends i've ever had. its just been... "yeah, i like you... yea, lets go out... yea, lets be friends" and such. it was kinda... blah. even when i thought i was "in love", it was more like a "i'll always be there for you" kinda feeling...

but there's this one guy that i've known for a while, but i haven't started talking to until the end of the school year. i've seen him alot this summer and he's the only guy who's ever made me go hot and cold at the same time. like... when his arm's around me, i feel like staying still so i could remember the feeling. i have this "feeling" everytime he calls, even before i know it's him. its so weird. i know i'm not "in love" or anything, but i think i'm going crazy.

and i know that i'm gonna miss him like nothing else when i leave for NJ.

do any of you know what my situation might be like? is it lust? is it love? is it just me being stupid?

Yeah, I have feelings like that. I can't ever tell if it's love or lust. Some unexpected things happened...but I still can't tell. I'm not very sure.

yehh with sum boyfriends i felt like that... well most of them... i loved most of them... but only in a friend manner..

i think that feeling is the want of someone special near you...or maybe...to like somebody...hmmm...

every summer i feel like that...i`m over someone...but then there`s this guy that i always see and somehow...i feel that i like him...BUT IT`S A BIG AND TOTAL MISTAKE!! haha!

yeah...to me...it`s desperateness...

perhaps it is you being desperate..but honestly, maybe you're supposed to discover for yourself what it is. its part of learning and growing. dont be afraid.

good luck

that's exactly the way its always been for me..... i never knew what it was to truly love someone until i met this guy.... and believe me, it does hurt when you're forced to leave them.... but good luck to you anyway... there should be someone for you in NJ

It might be lust.
It sounds like lust.
But it might not be lust.
I wouldn't know.
Just seems like with someone you loved, you'd be more comfortable.

just hang out with him a little more and see where it goes you'll find out you'll know if you love him or you're just wanting someone or you just majorly like him or whatever just take some time.

i agree with her. just try to spend some more time with him and see what happens. or maybe it's that wanting-someone-you-can't-really-have feeling?

best wishies~

I'm in the same situation right now. I think it's just a crush? Maybe you feel like you just want someone special in your life or just to feel like you have someone.

WOW. AND i THOT i WAS THE ONLY ONE FEELiNG THAT WAY...iM WiTH A GUY RiGHT NOW THAT iM TOTALLY HEAD OVER HEELS FOR. & iTS EXACTLY LiKE WHAT YOO SAiD. i KNOE iTS NOT LUST THOUGH. CUZ YEAH. LOL. i THiNK iTS THE BEGiNNiNG PART OF TRUE LOVE. iM NOT SURE. CONFUSiNG AiNT iT?

i know the feeling .. i've been there and done that before .. what your feeling is perfectly normal .. you will come across a few people in your life that'll make you feel that strongly with the little things they do .. it's too early to tell what it is .. right now i think that you are infatuated with him .. but it can grow to love and something more serious with time .. you just have to wait and see .. =/

well expand the relationship before you leave to test if before you regret it.

Its a nice story...and I have been through it to because all guys came to you and there are all nice to you and stuff but sometimes I just feel that it is not that feeling...so you should go for it and try before one day you will lose the one that you really really like...good luck !!!!

You can't really tell if it's love or lust. Most of the time when you've realise what it is, it's too late. ><