i meet dis guy, he was in mah class fo bout half a year. afta a while n a few heartbreaks, i started to lyke him. we were neva really dat close as frwds. near da end ob da year, he figured out dat i lyked him. we go to same church buh he didn't go fo a long tyme n in da tyme i started goin wif mah frwd to dat church. now afta a while bout lyke 2 months n a half. now he wanna come baq buh he told mah bestiest frwd, ib he sees meh dere, he isn't goin to go baq nemore. both ob us really lykes dat church, buh should i leab? or should i stay?
-carmi

What the heck? Is he that immature? Why is he giving up that church just because of you...it's not your fault you like him! Stay, and if he's mature enough, he should be able to accept you guys being in the same church.

ummmm i can't read that.

Heh, same here.

I'm confuzzled.

Uh, you should both stay at the same church... yeah..

i meet this guy, he was in my class for about half of a year. after a while and a few heartbreaks, i started to like him. we were never really that close as friends. near the end of the year, he figured out that i liked him. we go to the same church but he didn't go for a long time and in that time i started going with my friend to that church. now after a while about like 2 months and a half. he wants to come back but he told my bestiest friend, if he sees me there, he isn't goin to go back anymore. both of us really likes that church. but should i leave or should i stay?
-carmi

That was really hard to read....


But I would say he is being immature... and to forgot about him

Stay.
You shouldn't let him control your decisions.

i also think you should stay, and agree with the others that he is handling the situation very immaturely. besides, church is about god, not about who's there and who isn't.

oh please carmenn yoo were in this situation all the time
buh do yoo end up wif the guy?? nooo
and plus when was he yoors??? hmmm can't realli sayy huh
so how the hell does that make yoo guys going out???
so there no point in sayin yoo can make them happi cuz yoo'll do nething

if hes going to be acting like that hes realli immature im sure you can find someone else better than him you should stay dont leave just because of him

its because she scarin ppl away
did yoo no wat she did? she was gonna fight meh for mah bf
and than she goes tlkin crap about mee
and she does the same to my other fwnd where i shouldn't mention
buh i dun blame the guy unless she doing something taht freakin scarin him away so w/e

just stay. he's too immature.

i say that you should stay at tha church, if he's gonna act like a little kid, let him.. stand ur ground, if u want to do something, do it, don't let him get in the way, if u like him, so be it.. but if u let him control you.... ur gonna regret it, trust me

he`s acting like a total and complete immature BASTARD. forget him. that`s the church YOU go at. it`s a PUBLIC church right? he ain`t entitled to that church. he can`t just move his a$$ to a different church. and why make him happy? IS HE FREAKIN` WORTH IT? i don`t think so.

bbyxstac3y & lilbabicarmi, looks like you two know each other..?

well bbyxstac3y, you`re starting to act like a b!tch. lilbabicarmi wants help, not criticism.

i alreadi no her iph yoo actualli no her i dink u'll be thinkin the smae thing

carmen i think u should stya in the church, god dam thats the stupidest thing ive heard lols i thought guys were dum but not that dum =P sorry guys lols

so what if he dosen't come back to the church. if you like the church stay there. don't let some boy keep you from church. why do u like him? he doesn't even sound nice...gee wiz...

i alreadi no her iph yoo actualli no her i dink u'll be thinkin the smae thing

no yoor wrong stacey, yoo know mah name, yoo no stuff bout meh buh yoo dunno who i am n wut i feEl alL da tyme. ib yoo said dat yoo mah frwd even in da least amount ob way, yoo shouldn't b sayin dis. ever since eric, i mean, i dun even like him nemore, i was nice to yoo, i didn't talk crap bout yoo n i didn't do no shit to yoo. dun b sayin dis crap
-carmi

he can't stop you from going to a church .. if you want to go then just go .. if he chooses not to go afterwards then that's his choice .. & maybe it's a sign he isn't reciprocating your feelings .. but just do your thing and let him do his .. don't stress it ..

please carmen .. type normal so it's easier for us to read .. it took me a long time reading your topic before i could begin to answer your question to your actual problem ..

& it seems to me that baby stacey or however you spell her username doesn't get along with you .. but for whatever reason you guys have to stop flaming in the threads or you will be warned .. the forums are for conversing with people in a friendly matter .. cursing at each other and the such will NOT be tolerated ..

of course you stay !!

who cares bout wat he thinks or whoeva, if u wana go ta church go ahead, if he still doesnt go its his fault bein such a lil pussy

keep going to the church .. you'll get over this kid .. and you dont wanna lose ur CHURCH over someone whos not always gonna b there! .. and if hes that immature to stop going to church .. than you should really get over him ;x

just listen to them.

omg.. he's a loser. Stay! he sounds like a total jerk . you're better off without him.

yea i am stayin` now or at least i th0t dat i would buh grR..someone dat i th0t was mah frwd ish tryin` to kick meh out ob church!! omg can yoo believe dat?
-carmi