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LoveToMySilas
I was watching wife swap the other day and it was between two families, a really religious one and a really laid back one. Basically, the religious mom was talking to the daughter of the other wife about how its better to be a virgin and wait until marriage and all that bahooey, then she goes into talking about how virgins are less likely to cheat on their gf/bf as opposed to someone who isn't.(I guess physically).

But anyway, for those who don't feel like reading, what do you guys think? Does it even matter? shrug.gif
berrypop90
That's bullcrap. It all depends on who you are and what your mind tells you. Maybe a virgin is in a relationship but she feels the guy she's with won't bring her as much pleasure as another dude. I think the woman is just trying to preach abstinence and make it sound AMAZING. Religious nuts make me sick. If I was the girl she was talking to I would tell her off. Anyways...
1angel3
I don't believe that, even though I think people should wait until marriage just because its so easy to get a STD and its a good test to see if a guy/girl loves you for you, and not just trying to get in your pants. I think cheating is wrong so I won't do it because I hate it if it happened to me. That doesn't have anything to with me being a virgin or not.

Melissa
Iuno... we all saw what happened with Jessica Simpson & Nick Lachey
fameONE
QUOTE(----- @ Sep 25 2008, 08:08 PM) *
Iuno... we all saw what happened with Jessica Simpson & Nick Lachey

You really think that hoe was a virgin? blink.gif

I think that whole mentality is ass-backwards. What difference does it make if someone has had sex or not? That doesn't mean that they can't fall for another person.
Castaway
Not true. However being a virgin means you're conservative and conservative people usually have those kind of morals.
Melissa
QUOTE(Castaway @ Sep 27 2008, 04:10 AM) *
However being a virgin means you're conservative.

Also not true.
datass
^agreed. Where and how do you get such ideas?
1angel3
QUOTE(Castaway @ Sep 27 2008, 01:10 AM) *
Not true. However being a virgin means you're conservative and conservative people usually have those kind of morals.


I'm a virgin and I'm not conservative.
towntown2
No, virgins are not less likely to cheat.
Cheating--I guess we're talking out of the realm of just sexual infidelity--happens despite someone's sexual experience.

Cheating is just the lack of moral virtue.
Being a virgin does not make someon better and more honest.
It just makes them a virgin.
technicolour
QUOTE(1angel3 @ Sep 27 2008, 03:54 PM) *
I'm a virgin and I'm not conservative.



You have it reversed. Conservatives, theoretically, will be a virgin till marriage. And Conservatives, theoretically, have a better sense of morals, thus causing them not to cheat.

Castaway
QUOTE(technicolour @ Sep 27 2008, 04:07 PM) *
You have it reversed. Conservatives, theoretically, will be a virgin till marriage. And Conservatives, theoretically, have a better sense of morals, thus causing them not to cheat.

Thank you thumbsup.gif

Those who want to save themselves for the right person usually have some sense of morals too.



Now there are those conservatives and those who just can't seem to lose it no matter how hard they try.
MYSTICAL-MUSE
hehe, yeah I have never believed this. We all are capable of cheating in one way or another...Virgins are just like most..they wonder what sex feels like etc..they just want to find the right person. but then again what the heck..go for it...most think that a virgin won't cheat on the person because she/he is a vigin...bull..the day will come where the eyes wonder and thoughts wonder...that is cheating whether one wants to admit it or not...my daughter's ex-boyfriend told her that the reason he wanted her was because she was a virgin and that after they had had sex he knew she wouldn't cheat because of the loyality thing...he was her first..yeah after her told her that she dropped him like a dead rat...he was also a virgin and he cheated several times on her before she broke it off!!

Vigins won't cheat yeah if you believe that I have the Brooklyn Bridge to sell you:)
datass
QUOTE(Castaway @ Sep 30 2008, 01:53 PM) *
Now there are those conservatives and those who just can't seem to lose it no matter how hard they try.

hahaha laugh.gif
that's so awful
Cyanide-
I dont think thats true. It really depends on the person and their personality.
Joss-eh-lime
its really depends on the two people in the relationship & their personal morals.

i do support abstinence though. :]
krissybee14
it actually depends on what type of character the person has. It doesn't mean that you're a virgin, you are less likely to cheat. I know of a lot of virgin people who have cheated with their loved ones...
creole
The whole thing depends. shrug.gif
Anyone can cheat on someone, it doesn't matter if they had sex or not.
wwwww
Of course virgins are less likely to cheat. Studies show that 100% of virgins have never even had sex.
amish-hammer
naa i don't think they do because there humans like everyone else, we mostly cant control our feelings for people like to say if we had a girlfriend and she was a really nice girl most guys that aren't assholes don't have the guts to break up with them because it would hurt them so they would cheat. so i think anyone can do it really
MissFits
I think virgins are less likely to cheat.
In most cases you lose your virginity to someone that matters to you. And, if you spent all that time saving it for them why would you go give it to someone else?
lordtraffic
Id say so yes....virgins dont know what they are missing when there in a serious relationship...they associate sex with whoever the person they are with is.
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