I was in a store last week. I saw this girl that caught my attention so I went into her line. I started a conversation, and it went good. You could tell there was a good vibe going. I was going to ask her for her number, but there was this big line behind me. I went back to go buy somethingelse I needed. I got back in her line and I suggested we hangout at my job. She said yes. I asked her for her number and she started blushing and told me she would just come up there one day.
I told her sure you're gonna come up there. I meant it to sound skeptical when I said it. A week went by and I went back up to her store to buy some groceries. I didn't expect to see her, but I did. I got in her line. She saw me. She looked shocked and she blushed. We talked and she told me she doesn't come to where my store is that much, but when she comes up there she said she was going to visit me. What I found unusual was that she was telling me she works on weekends primarily. I didn't even ask her. She just brought it up in the conversation.
I was thinking about going back up there and just giving her my number, but I didn't want to come off the wrong way. What should I do to succeed in this scenario?
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awh, i liked how you acted :D! she didn't want to give out her number so quickly to someone she just met in line. you know? that's understanding, and i'm glad you accepted it. some guys take it the wrong way. but maybe she just haven't had enough time. maybe you should just ask her to hang out with you after she gets off from work, or when she's off? i don't know much, but i hope that helped :]! you should talk to her more or get to know her more, maybe she'll feel more comfortable?
QUOTE(shannlovin @ Sep 11 2008, 07:13 PM) 
awh, i liked how you acted :D! she didn't want to give out her number so quickly to someone she just met in line. you know? that's understanding, and i'm glad you accepted it. some guys take it the wrong way.
ditto. some guys get mad or offended, but the way you reacted was great. i say give it a little time. get to know her a bit more and give her your number the next time you see her. tell her that whenever she's off and has time to give you a call so you can hang out. if she's really interested she'll call you. either way you should feel good about yourself because not only did you have the courage to talk to her, but you did in a respectful way. good luck!
I agree with the people who posted before me. Give her your number, I mean... guys asking for her number in her line... ehh. But if you give her your number at least you know that she has it so that she can call you if she's in the area.
You're playing it cool and slow, that's awesome.
Charm her. I'm sure she's never been picked up at her checkout stand, so let her know that it won't be a quick hook-up.
She sounds like a chill girl.
Good for you.
If you want to give her your number, couple it with a funny joke or something. But no pressure on her!
Charm her. I'm sure she's never been picked up at her checkout stand, so let her know that it won't be a quick hook-up.
She sounds like a chill girl.
Good for you.
If you want to give her your number, couple it with a funny joke or something. But no pressure on her!
QUOTE(dpl313 @ Sep 11 2008, 11:11 AM)
I was in a store last week. I saw this girl that caught my attention so I went into her line. I started a conversation, and it went good. You could tell there was a good vibe going. I was going to ask her for her number, but there was this big line behind me. I went back to go buy somethingelse I needed. I got back in her line and I suggested we hangout at my job. She said yes. I asked her for her number and she started blushing and told me she would just come up there one day.
I told her sure you're gonna come up there. I meant it to sound skeptical when I said it. A week went by and I went back up to her store to buy some groceries. I didn't expect to see her, but I did. I got in her line. She saw me. She looked shocked and she blushed. We talked and she told me she doesn't come to where my store is that much, but when she comes up there she said she was going to visit me. What I found unusual was that she was telling me she works on weekends primarily. I didn't even ask her. She just brought it up in the conversation.
I was thinking about going back up there and just giving her my number, but I didn't want to come off the wrong way. What should I do to succeed in this scenario?
I told her sure you're gonna come up there. I meant it to sound skeptical when I said it. A week went by and I went back up to her store to buy some groceries. I didn't expect to see her, but I did. I got in her line. She saw me. She looked shocked and she blushed. We talked and she told me she doesn't come to where my store is that much, but when she comes up there she said she was going to visit me. What I found unusual was that she was telling me she works on weekends primarily. I didn't even ask her. She just brought it up in the conversation.
I was thinking about going back up there and just giving her my number, but I didn't want to come off the wrong way. What should I do to succeed in this scenario?
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arrite kid..
NEVA NEVA giv gurl u numba..
u ask her numba.. she say no.. u movee on..
y u ask...
cuz wen gurl giv u hur numba.. lotta tyme.. mean she interestt u.. butt sumtyme dey wanna teese u.. u dig...
NEVA NEVA giv gurl u numba..
u ask her numba.. she say no.. u movee on..
y u ask...
cuz wen gurl giv u hur numba.. lotta tyme.. mean she interestt u.. butt sumtyme dey wanna teese u.. u dig...
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