alright theres this guy who i really like alot...but he's going out with this girl that he claims that he loves....but my friend asked him and he likes me and said if he didn't have a girlfriend he'd go out with me. at the time i had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend and we just knew how each other felt. now i'm single and he's not and i don't know what to do cause i wanna go out with him....i'll do anything to get him...HELP!

if he have a girlfriend then i dont you should try to take him away that would juss make her hate you. if he really likes you he would come to you eventually but i dont think you should try to do anything

well he has a girlfriend... though he may have feelings for you... he still likes his girlfriend.... if you really like him... you'll be paient and wait for him to come around.... dont try to make him decide who he wants to be with.... because then both you and his girlfriend maight get hurt... be paient and he might come around..

do not try to part him from that girl! just like you wouldnt want someone to do that to you! things could get dangerous...if you really want him...wait for HIM to come to YOU

so if i just tell him i like him and wait to see what he does would that be okay?

Forget him. You don't want a guy that would leave his girlfriend for you anyways. Cuz then what happens when you two are goin out? He'd just as easily leave you for someone else. Bleh.. I don't know what I'm talkin about.

But if the chick is a total bIaTcH, kill her. If she's nice, leave them both alone. They're probably happy together and you really shouldn't be selfish like that.

anyone else have different advice cause i like him so much i can't be patient

Does he like you more or his GF more? You have to be certain about this. If he likes his GF more, there's just no point.

But if he likes you more, then I guess you can wait for him if you really really like him.

You don't mess with a guy with a girlfriend. That is LOW. If you do that, I will personally be pissed off at you. Did you ever consider that maybe his girlfriend likes him more than you like him? I think you're just being selfish, and it doesn't matter that you "can't wait." You're going to have to. Unless of course, you feel he's worth ruining his girlfriend's life (who you don't seem to give a shit about.)

im in the same situation and im sorry but I learned that waiting is worth it. Even though you may want to be his girlfriend.. his girlfriend is still there. Even if they do breakup being his rebound isnt the best thing in the world. If he knows how you feel about him & if he feels the same way then things will work out because if he likes you more.. whats the point of him being with his girlfriend? One reminder is not to get in the way of their relationship though and if you really want him just wait for him to come to you.

my advice is never mess with a guy with a girlfriend.... it's horrible of you,and its tough on everybody... wait it out if you really like him.... but it sounds like u don't like our advice... did u want the green light from us to steal this guy away from his girlfriend? cuz it sounds morelike uve already made up ur mind

you guys are right...i knew that's what i had to do i just wanted to get some other peoples opinion who don't know me...thanks

you shouldnt do anything if he still has a girlfriend- if he really likes you he'll come to you

i agree. if he likes he would have broke up with his gf. seriously i think he's trying to play you both. just do nothing.

confusing stuff lol well.. iono if hes saying that he loves the other chick but he likes you then that'd be bad cuz if you 2 start going out what if he starts to like someone else but he also might only be saying he loves her cuz they're going out obviously and yea.. iono just confront him and ask him if he likes you. or tell him you like him and see where it goes. no regrets

Yeah, just wait. ... and he'll come around .. :] ..
patience is the key

talk to him...it works most of the time

no no no no no. dont take him. if he has a gf, leave them be. dont ruin it. it will just leave his gf soooooo sad. Wow i cant even imagine if my bf and this other girl did tht woooow. imagine yourself with a bf u really love and him liking another girl and wanting to leave u for her. you wont feel good right? well leave them be.

what are you guys talking about?!?! are you guys crazy?!?!?

kill the girl quick
hire a mercenary to do the job for your

hrmmm. i also think you should be patient... like everyone else said, if you were going out with someone you really liked, you wouldn't want another girl to suddenly take him away right? i think you should wait... and let the guy figure out his feelings first... i mean. he's already going out with someone and he said he loves her, but then he goes and says he likes you. let him be sure about his feelings first, so that there will be less broken hearts, and more happy faces. (sorry that was corny, lol). but yea. i think you should definitely wait. but remember, just because you're waiting doesn't mean you can't take a look at other oportunities.

LMAO!!!

just wait, ur time will come....

uhh, this is pretty simple ta me, look at it this way, he has a gf, he lyks u n he noes u lyk him too [i think] hes still wit his gf so isnt that already lyk choosin her ova u?

n anotha way, wat if he does break up wit her n gets wit u, n he lyks anotha grl, hes prolly gona break up wit u fa her lyk he did wit tha grl b4 u

i dont think its a good idea ta go afta him

hmm if he loves u than he shouldnt have a girlfriend. he'll have to pick either u or his girl... and if he chooses the girl than forget about him cuz its not good to break apart ppl's relationships. yep, if only he knows what he wants than ur mind wouldnt be tangled

That's his choice I guess. I mean, if he wants to be with you, then he should break up with his girl. If he wants to go out with you, but he won't breakup with his gf, then...oh well? I don't think it'd be right to 'steal' him. You'd just end up with a bad rep and a girl who hates you.