please delete this thread

She's confused herself I think. You should talk to her maybe. But honestly I don't think she or him are being very mature about this whole situation.

This is why staying friends after a romantic involvement often doesn't work out.
Just forget about them and stay away.
No need to reach out.

That's what I would do.
It's okay to try to be friends, like you did.
But if the other party doesn't want to do the same, then there's no point in trying.
The more you reach out to her and the more she backs away, the pushier you look.
Move on.