Okay, I confessed to a guy I liked him, but he said he didn't like me in that way. I didn't have a boyfriend then, but he had a girlfriend. Me and him we're great friends. And even after I confessed we still remained as if nothing ever was said, he treated me the same. Basically, he still flirted with me tons, and he still looked me dead in the eye and smiled. But today I went to his work [which is where I normally go to see him] but I was with my boyfriend and he didn't even speak to me! Luckily, I knew the manager there and I talked to him, although the guy I originally went to see, stood there right in front of me and my boyfriend, but didn't say anything. That's so not like him!

I don't get it, why would he act this way?
Do you think he likes me secretly but doesn't think I should know because he has a girlfriend? and he definitely isn't a cheater.

Might I add that he looked at me with somewhat of sad eyes when he saw I had a boyfriend.

Maybe he's a bit jealous.
Even though he may not want to be in a relationship with you, he might feel a certain ownership over your affections.
Sort of, "If I can't have you, then no one else can."
There's a possibility that he has considered you as a reliable backup. Like if his girlfriend leaves, he knows he could turn to you.

Kinda possessive, if you ask me.

Best bet is to talk about it.

It takes a lot to be able to look into somebodys eyes. So, I'm basically going with the fact that its all in the eyes. Its obvious that there's something there if he did give you those "sad eyes" look. It could be that he's jealous but I can't say for sure that he likes you secretly. If we assume worse case scenario with the fact that he liked having you like him (because, who doesn't wanna feel loved) and now that he saw you with somebody else and no longer, as the poster above me said, the ownership of your affection, he probably doesn't know what to say and probably wants to strangle your boyfriend.

hahahahahaha! I wouldn't doubt that part. He kinda doesn't like my boyfriend, but in a way their somewhat friends.

Yeah, that's a lie and you know it. he's just being nice to him for you. He probably burns a hole through your boyfriend with his grill when you aren't looking. Haha.

Simple: He's jealous

I'm beginning to think so too, I mean, I went up there today WITHOUT my boyfriend, and he talked to me.

I simply do not get guys. At all.

I agree with Jane. Either he is jealous, because he is a good friend of you and just doesn't like your boyfriend. Or he is jealous because he has feelings for you.

rotfl.

That could be so. (:

and to everyone who replied, thanks. I appreciate it (:

Most guys don't girls either

I always thought they were straightforward. You can tell in their face how they feel, and if you ask them, they're pretty to the point. If it keeps happening, you should just talk to him about it.

that may be true, I may just not be good at reading them. lol. (:
and thanks, I will. (:

When girls tell me that they don't like me, I show up at their job with my girlfriend too.

I think he was try to being courteous to your BF by not making it awkward. Men tend to be flirtatious towards women during conversation. Your BF would not enjoy that.

And at the same time, whether its true or not, I think he felt that you were trying to make him jealous by bringing your BF to his job. Thats the only way I can explain the sad eyes.

Just my perspective. Don't kill me please

lol, i promise i won't kill you. But he works at our local mall at the chic-fil-a, so I don't think he could tell & plus, at first we weren't going to go over and talk to anyone until Warren, my friend, also the assistant manager, called us over there.

And today I went up there and talked to me again, I wasn't with my boyfriend, but he recognized me from the back and yelled out my name, lol. and plus he tried to con me into buying him a shirt lol. but I didn't give in. (: