QUOTE(fixtatik @ Jul 2 2008, 03:38 PM)

unless you want a site that's being updated regularly but dead, you'll need to do some major promotion. i've brought my site from 0-2 visitors a day to 250+ visitors a day in a month by promoting to no ends.
keep in mind, by "promoting" i don't mean spamming. if you want it to be a successful site, invest in advertising. you can do PPC advertising if you want (like google adwords, bidvertiser, etc.), but it's best to actually look into advertising at a site that's relative to yours. if you can find a similar site that's owned by one person, the advertising is probably very inexpensive.
thanks for the tips. how much did your promoting cost month? how long did it take to make it back up?