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AimatmeRam
Growl, Why is that?!
I'm not a whore nor do I go around f**king everybody? stubborn.gif

Why do guys say what the girls want to here then...BAM! admit they want to do you?

Haha I've been through this before and I know when a guy is serious about me or not.
It makes me angry.

Does this happen to you girls?

And for guys why?
brooklyneast05
guys don't only want that. girls just like to go around saying that cause they think it's cool to say.
AimatmeRam
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jun 13 2008, 10:10 PM) *
guys don't only want that. girls just like to go around saying that cause they think it's cool to say.

I never say i want it. mellow.gif
But guys think I have had sex [not that i haven't] but still.
I'm not a piece of meat. I like to talk to guys the way i talk to girls. Real. But people take that as flirting. stubborn.gif

brooklyneast05
you flirt with girls?
AimatmeRam
^ haha no I kid around with them.
1angel3
Yeah I run into a lot of guys like that but as it may seem there's good guys out there.
jaeminnie
Most guys are driven by hormones. That's something that will never change.

I don't associate with guys who are like that, because they're not worth playing games with.
AimatmeRam
^ yeah I know...
It sucks when you got to work with them though. mellow.gif
MissFits
I've had that problem forever.
I have NEVER EVER had a good guy friend that didn't try to have sex with me, or admit to me that he'd like to have sex with me.

That's what makes me wish I could read peoples minds, to find out whether they care about me or my poon.
Vyrrei
QUOTE(MissFits @ Jun 14 2008, 02:43 PM) *
I've had that problem forever.
I have NEVER EVER had a good guy friend that didn't try to have sex with me, or admit to me that he'd like to have sex with me.

That's what makes me wish I could read peoples minds, to find out whether they care about me or my poon.

Just because a guy would like to have sex with you doesn't mean they don't like you.
doiink
there is a surprisingly large amount of guys out there that aren't solely motivated by their penises; you just have to weed out the ones that are penis-driven when you're searching.

besides, we are BUILT to be horny and reproduce, some guys just have better self control or can just keep their brains (or heart, for you romantics out there) separate from their dicks.

also, I guess it's sort of a compliment, considering they're willing to (technically) engage in an activity that (usually) results in producing offspring, and in most cases that means your mate considers your qualities/genetics desirable for his children.

Vyrrei
QUOTE(doiink @ Jun 17 2008, 01:19 AM) *
they're willing to (technically) engage in an activity that (usually) results in producing offspring

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Kay-
That's probably happened to every girl
Rachel
I thought you had a boyfriend, SLUT
Melissa
booo, everybody rewatch when harry met sally.

guys and girls can never be friends ... the sex thing always gets in the way.

a bunch of us were talking a few months ago and someone brought that up and at first, the guys just kind of stopped and thought about it and then agreed with it. then, one of them came up with this stupid analogy about ladders.

supposedly, a guy has only one ladder - girls that he wants to f**k. everyone else is sort of just there.

girls have two ladders - guys that she wants to date/sex/whatever and guys she wants to be "just friends" with.

so from that theory, i'm guessing that all of my guy friends are either really not my friends or want to have sex with me at some level.

both choices are kinda sad :(
synkro
i concur with doiink. i have a good amount of guy friends who i find attractive, and vice versa. the key is control.

@melissa: lol i love the ladder theory. i agree with it, especially the fact that my current bf was originally on my "friend" ladder, and that mofo took a giant leap to my other ;o.
Melissa
lol, is that where he got it from? and i thought it was all made up on the spot.
Kristov
You're a very attractive woman. You're going to attract all sort of men. Some men are lusting. Some men are trusting. You sort it out.
ojairus
surprisingly girls only want me for my body.they dont understand i have feelings too.
karmakiller
I guess it's better that they are up front with you about what they want an expect than you wasting your time befriending them and getting to know them only to find out way down the road the true reason they were doing it all. Or worse, if you get involved with them and find out they were only "getting to know you" to get in your pants.
Sandraaa
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jun 14 2008, 04:10 AM) *
guys don't only want that. girls just like to go around saying that cause they think it's cool to say.

f**king true! Gahh, I'm tired of hearing this bullshit. You're not that interesting.
AimatmeRam
QUOTE(Rachel @ Jun 17 2008, 05:25 PM) *
I thought you had a boyfriend, SLUT

When I was with my bf. My ex wants me back. mellow.gif
But I told him to shove it up his ass.
hammer.gif

Be-Faithful
I new boyfriend now hammer.gif
Rachel
chillax, i am kidding.
DaniiVICIOUS
LOLLLLLLLL. The guy I'm with now... when I first met him, his friend and my friend pure went off to have sex. I behaved *smug* and then I was like... talking normal to Johnathon.. we were sat on the grass WELL AWAY from the other scene HAHA and then he looked at me and was like.. so what do you wanna talk about now? I was like .. umm.... then he leaped on me :o:o:o!!!! and I was like :|:|:|: OK THEN....

ROFL.

ummm... we're going through a rough patch like TUT
But like..
Yeah my point is guys can't help wanting stuff from you..
and deep inside you want it as well.
But you want the more "civilised" approach to a relationship, yeah?...
I dunno, just make it clear and be confident about what you believe in.
Guys too.
I hate the way girls always get to be the victim like.
Guys can be too!!!! ROFL.

In fact in some ways gorls are worse ;/
INNIT.
lmao

Danii
xox (I'm a girl by the way!)
PurpleDaze112
Hell, I don't know what would be worse; too much attention or never getting attention.
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