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frombeautytoashes
WELL .. I met these 2 guys, I knew one of them from church .. we will call him Bob, and John was his friend. I had always thought that Bob was attractive, and I was determined to get to know him. Bob and I, as well as John and I had a weird connection. Bob and I dated for 6 months, and then John and I became friends, but I always knew .. that's not all I wanted it to be. I fell in love with him, and out of love with Bob. Now John hates me .. or .. something, point is, he can't look me in the eye. Why? What should I do?
Winter
Dang it's confusing...

I think erm John feels uncomfortable around you. Coz I mean, you did date his friend for 6 whole months. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him how he feels about the whole situation.
Kathleen
Yeah, John probably saw what you did to his friend, and thinks you would do the same to him with someone else. I suggest talking to him as well, and tell him that you really do like him, and that you've liked him even when you were going out with Bob.
islandkiss
talk to him.
fullmusicedmajor
the best thing you can do is talk to him about it and wait it out
ThePrincessofTKD
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 26 2004, 6:22 PM)
Yeah, John probably saw what you did to his friend, and thinks you would do the same to him with someone else. I suggest talking to him as well, and tell him that you really do like him, and that you've liked him even when you were going out with Bob.

^^ agreed.

yet also....he`s not satisfied that you like him?! wtf?!? stubborn.gif i guess people mostly care about their friends...errr...yeah.. ermm.gif
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