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ryfitaDF
it's very ironic and sad sad.gif

there are threads here about "friends with benefits don't work out. somone ends up liking the other..." so i was worried that she was starting to like me, but it ended up the other way around.

the last time i saw her (before today) was june 8th. all day at school we just hid under the stairs and made out and stuff n it was so great. then school let out and she went on vacation in jersey. she got back a week ago, but i've been too busy to talk to her till today. so i call her and hear about how she likes this other kid, who, by the way, i DESPISE (before any of this happend), so i'm feelin kinda sad. i confronted her and it turned out all the rumors were true, and that she's going to end up going out with him. i know i shouldn't be believed but i'm actually really sad, for some reason. i really liked her, i guess, but i'm an idiot and didn't want a relationship i lost what now seems like the best part of my life. oh well...

sad.gif

(expect a song in the "writings" section shortly)
Winter
This is why I've decided to not have FWBs. It's fun for a while but when one of you start feeling something, man it sucks.

Seems like there's really nothing you can do dude. I guess just take this as a lesson?

PS If I were you, I'd go whack that dude up nicely. But that isn't gonna make her like you any more so don't do it lol...
ryfitaDF
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 26 2004, 2:09 AM)
This is why I've decided to not have FWBs. It's fun for a while but when one of you start feeling something, man it sucks.

Seems like there's really nothing you can do dude. I guess just take this as a lesson?

PS If I were you, I'd go whack that dude up nicely. But that isn't gonna make her like you any more so don't do it lol...

well i have learned a lesson, but not what you're thinking, probably. i figured out that friends with benefits end up getting hurt, but any relationship ends up with people gettign hurt, even marrage. i'll probably have another friend with benefits some day soon.

i really do wanna throwdown with him. no, i actually just wanna throw him down. i'll wait till he breaks her heart. that's a valid excuse, right? she's still my friend, and he most definetly will start to like somone else soon. (it's happend with every girl he's been with yet).

he's not even cute or anything. and people say he's a good kid and so nice, but he's a complete darsh to me. man, i need to slamdance now mad.gif
orionpax
QUOTE
well i have learned a lesson, but not what you're thinking, probably. i figured out that friends with benefits end up getting hurt, but any relationship ends up with people gettign hurt, even marrage. i'll probably have another friend with benefits some day soon.


how so very true. i guess u'd have to be stone cold not to get hurt one way or the other.

u'll recover soon enough...
x hYpErRoSeY x
dun worri youll get ova it :) im sry to hear that tho
Kathleen
Aww...Lunchbox...there's plenty of other girls out there. She doesn't seem worth it if she chose this guy over you!
NatiMarie
Aww...I'm sorry this happened. Don't worry, eventually she'll see what she lost. But you two can still be friends...right?
Hope all goes well sad.gif

flowers.gif Don't worry, things will turn out better soon. Maybe you'll find somebody else that can give you that lovely feeling inside of you _smile.gif
baybietenshi
send a friend to kick him hard...in the nuts whistling.gif
its_me
Aw.. I'm sorry 'bout that. It'll get better though.. So, before you know it, there'll be a girl who likes you and you like her and it'll work out. happy.gif
babygurl_xtacy
FWBs dont work.. are guys afraid to make commitment or something.. thats why they choose to be FWBs? Recently I've had something like that.. duno what happened.. kinda hurting me.. and im sry to hear that.. but since you guys hid under the stairs and all that.. how come you didnt ask her out?
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