aybaybay007
May 8 2008, 08:18 PM
you seeeeeee,
im white. yes im a cracker.
im a skinny little blonde girl. but theres one thing i lovveee.
BLACK GUYS!
i think theyre the only attractive guys on the planet.
the school i go to is gigantic and is mixed with mostly black and mexican and white (not that many asians tho dont know why) there are so many black guys i like.
at first when i came to this school i was like hmm im just gonna have some fun with them nothing siriouse. but now its the end of the year and ive had my fun with alot of black guys and im starting to fall for one of them more than just casually. the only problem is IM WHITE! and i feel like i dont have any chance at all with getting sirouse with any black guy. the black guys only date black girls. i feel like the only relationship that they'll have with me is just hooking up and im sick of it.
is there possibly ANY chance of me dating a black guy? because here in houston i never see it.
what do i have to do?
tokyo-rose
May 8 2008, 08:21 PM
Yes. Any black guy who's worth it will be able to see past the fact that you're white and like you for you. But don't limit yourself to only black guys. There could be the right white, Asian, Hispanic, whatever guy out there too.
manny-the-dino
May 8 2008, 08:31 PM
don't let "stereotypes" discourage you.
if you like him & he likes you, go for it!
just be yourself & hopefully he will like you for you.
don't act all fake just to get to him.
race, size, or color doesn't matter in love; just the person
also, it's "serious" not "sirouse"
karmakiller
May 8 2008, 09:42 PM
Date them like you would any other race
aybaybay007
May 8 2008, 09:48 PM
ok let me add this to help yall understand my situation more clearly.
example: i told this black guy i liked him. he said he liked me back and that he wanted to be with me. but he wont go out with me because its not "normal"
brooklyneast05
May 8 2008, 09:49 PM
then he's stupid
karmakiller
May 8 2008, 09:54 PM
Lol... then move on. You really want to be with a guy like that?
DoubleJ
May 8 2008, 11:07 PM
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 8 2008, 10:49 PM)

then he's stupid
I agree. I will admit, that I have never had a girlfriend before, but I have no problem playing in the snow!
ImDaBestIDidIt
May 8 2008, 11:32 PM
QUOTE(Synesthesia @ May 8 2008, 09:21 PM)

Yes. Any black guy who's worth it will be able to see past the fact that you're white and like you for you. But don't limit yourself to only black guys. There could be the right white, Asian, Hispanic, whatever guy out there too.
LOL no, thats just like me saying there is the right Asian or white girl out there for me when I know my heart is stuck on them Latina bitches and Light skinned black bitches.

QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 9 2008, 12:07 AM)

I agree. I will admit, that I have never had a girlfriend before, but I have no problem playing in the snow!
Hahahahaha
I don't go out with white girls. My moms told me if I go with a white girl I will end up like Kobe. And look at that nygga now. MVP. So maybe I should try it. SIKE
DoubleJ
May 8 2008, 11:37 PM
KC shut the f**k up lol. Naw but the Latin honeys and the light skinned black girls, are where it's at.
My dream black girl!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d15cAKtZQFM
ImDaBestIDidIt
May 8 2008, 11:44 PM
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 9 2008, 12:37 AM)

KC shut the f**k up lol. Naw but the Latin honeys and the light skinned black girls, are where it's at.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d15cAKtZQFMMy dream black girl!
My dick will suffocate in that coochie. I want to go to sleep on that ass.
x-hotchocbun-x
May 9 2008, 12:48 AM
yeah of course there is a chance of dating a black guy
there are so many black guys who married, and got children with white women
so if you really love him..
then hold this chance coz it might just slip aay from ur hands ^^
Insurmountable
May 9 2008, 10:57 AM
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 9 2008, 12:07 AM)

I agree. I will admit, that I have never had a girlfriend before, but I have no problem playing in the snow!
lol.
Anyway, I'm sure you have a chance. Don't let normality stop you from being you.
DoubleJ
May 9 2008, 11:21 AM
Lol...I knew you would find that amusing!
karmakiller
May 9 2008, 09:04 PM
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 8 2008, 11:07 PM)

I agree. I will admit, that I have never had a girlfriend before, but I have no problem playing in the snow!
But she only wants one man to make snowangels in her snow.
DoubleJ
May 9 2008, 09:48 PM
^Lol!
You should just give it a little time. If he is not interested in you, then he is definitely a fool.
LoveToMySilas
May 10 2008, 11:24 AM
Who wants to be normal anyway?

If he said something like that, then yeah its pretty dumb. Move on, flaunt your blonde curls

Show them how its done! Haha, sorry, just wanted to say that. But yeah, don't worry. They will come...just be patient.
laurellesions
May 11 2008, 12:18 AM
yeah, if he's fazed by it "not being normal" then he's not the one for you. there are so many other guys out there.
also be aware that even though you only find black guys attractive, don't count everyone else out. you may be surprised by what else is out there.
Anephoria
May 11 2008, 12:27 AM
As if you were around any other guy, just be your self. If there is someone who likes you, black or not, get to know them. Who knows, maybe you'll fall for them :D
I've had an issue with that too. I kinda have an asian/hispanic/caucasian complex; but it's not my fault really, I'm just different xD and I like different people. (Trust me, if you were talking with me on the phone, you'd think I was in another ethnic group) <-not related to topic AT ALL
absinthe
May 11 2008, 12:54 AM
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ May 8 2008, 09:37 PM)

KC shut the f**k up lol. Naw but the Latin honeys and the light skinned black girls, are where it's at.
My dream black girl!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d15cAKtZQFMhaha, all of them?

QUOTE
My dick will suffocate in that coochie. I want to go to sleep on that ass.
DoubleJ
May 11 2008, 01:09 AM
Heck yeah all of them.
RissyMel
May 16 2008, 10:09 PM
never be normal!
=P
Luna5
May 16 2008, 11:17 PM
I'm not being racist but I've never found a black man to be attractive and I am white. They just don't do it for me.
SuckDickNSaveLives
May 17 2008, 02:41 AM
^Thats the same way I feel about white girls. I guess because Latinas and Light Skinned black girls looked better to me.
-ImDaBestIDidIt-
DoubleJ
May 17 2008, 06:33 AM
I only find a select breed of white girls to be attractive. Like KC, the Latinas and Light Skinned black girls do it for me.
alyssa6789
May 18 2008, 01:52 PM
its normal. my brother is engaged to a black woman.
when i was in highschool i had a black male teacher who was married to a white woman.
and my cousin is engaged to an asian.
and i dated a couple of black guys and it was fine im not with them now but it wasnt because i was white and they were black.
so i hope those examples help you see that its perfectly fine.
but be aware some people dont like it and you might get looks or what not just ignore them.
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