does anyone know of any sites where you can dl things for your phone

It really depends. What kind of phone do you have?

I mean I could probably let you know on ones for iPhones, but that's about it. =X

hmm
i've found themes on deviantart

A really good site is Mbuzzy.com You can even upload mp3 files and make ring tones.

A lot of places charge a buttload to download stuff, so make sure that you read the fine print. Your cell phone carrier should have access to things like that... who do you have?

Mbuzzy.com is completely free as long as your cell phone already has web access. I use it all the time and people think my mom lets me download any background/ringer I want and delete it if I get tired of it.

i have a lg kf600, i need different themes because they dont let you change them