I hope I'm not the only girl around here who has, like, serious commitment issues. Ahah. I did't put this in Relationships, because I just mean it in general.

I don't like long-term relationships, if I join, like, a club in school or something, I drop out of it after about a week, and, like, I don't know, it's just weird to me that I can't stick to anything.

I'm not looking for advice or anything like that. I'm just curious as to how many other girls are the same way.

Well, if it's a club or something I can stick with it.

I don't get involved in long term relationships because I still have a lot of issues of my own that I need to deal with before I let someone be with me like that.

I think I kinda know what you mean. I get bored pretty easily so its hard for me to stay committed in a relationship unless they're really unpredictable. Or maybe ever since...that break up, I've never been the same. Or it could just be my A.D.D.

Im a guy, but I have commitment issues too, I quit CSf after 2 weeks and Im about to quit ASB after 2 years :[ :]

I have commitment issues, but at the same time, I'm easily persuaded back into it. So, even if I hate it, I deal with it. It's quite the dilemma.

I used to have committment issues but now I don't; I prefer long term relationships

You just probably have a lot of priorities to finish up with. That's what causes commitment problems. When you have soo much on your mind, when you have all these plans for your future that you fear to buckle down and have someone get in the way of your priorities or what makes you ultimately happy. Above that... it could be change, people don't commit because they don't want change.

I seriously do have commitment issues when it comes to relationships and clubs lmfao. I just never realized that I did

Ahum, taking the steps to a commitment is a very big deal for me, but only because once committed I'll not back out of whatever it is.

@ karmakiller: That's cool, at least you can stick to clubs.
I see what you mean about the relationships.

@ LoveToMySilas: Awwwh. =/ But yeah, I'm not sure if it's boredom or just weirdness for me.

@ SkyliteX: I feel really dumb asking this, but, what are CSf and ASB?

@ MissHygienic: Ooh, wow. That does suck. =[[ Why put up with something you hate?

@ Kayc05: That's good that you don't anymore. :]

@ illmortal: Aha. You're most likely right. I'm all right with change, I think I'm just too scatter-brained and/or busy with other things.

@ aimeesayswhat: We should start a club for people who can't stick to clubs. >_> <_< [/lame idea that won't work]

@ S-Majere: At least you can stick to whatever it is once you get started. :] That's cool.


I think I answered everyone. :]

I only get involved in relationships if I'm crazy-ass into someone. I've had friendships where there were feelings going on between the both of us that we both knew about, but I just refused to get involved because I didn't like the other person enough to do what I did for my ex.

On the other hand, I'll casually pick something up, and if somehow along the way I decide I want it for real, it could take me forever to give it up. I don't make commitments or promises easily.

Ok... just tried to relate to you
Update
I don't have that problem anymore. Recently I realized that he was the one for me.
I think it's just growing up and eventually you would grow into someone that truly cares about you

ROFL! You're my TWIN. I am SCARED TO DEATH of commitments. This caused trouble between me and my boyfriend at first. Well, my wall isn't exactly broken but I'm 5 % there. As for clubs and such, haha. I can never stick to something. ><

@ aimeesayswhat: What I meant was since you said you had commitment issues, I was making a (sad) attempt at a joke by saying that we should start a club for people who couldn't commit to clubs. Idk. My apologies if it came off as me being an ass.

@ Sandraaa: Ahaha. We'll get through it! XD