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theguardsman
how do u really cheeer a girl up. its so hard...i mean...what shud i do wen she doesnt care about anything...whatever u do..she doesnt seem to be happier...she's not sad because of u...its just htings around her that made her sad..so yeh..
doing something stupid doesnt work and stuff...its just...iduno. please help
ThePrinceIV
needd PIX...
Reidar
Keep nguoicasison away from her, first and foremost.
ThePrinceIV
diz shiet.. aintt bout da girll mang... stopp withh da spamm NUB.. so..

NEEDDD PIX..
Heathasm
feed her
ldyxluvable
hmm.. maybe you should stop hitting around her, she probally likes you & want your attention on her, take her out somewhere alone time & talk about how she feel ?
RissyMel
Give her a hug and listen to why she's upset.
(:
LoveToMySilas
The quickest way into anyones heart is laughter and food. throb.gif Well...at least for me.
illriginal
QUOTE(theguardsman @ Mar 27 2008, 02:32 PM) *
how do u really cheeer a girl up. its so hard...i mean...what shud i do wen she doesnt care about anything...whatever u do..she doesnt seem to be happier...she's not sad because of u...its just htings around her that made her sad..so yeh..
doing something stupid doesnt work and stuff...its just...iduno. please help

Women are never satisfied with another person's emotional care. Give her money, candy, or any other materialistic object, that'll do the trick.
DeviantShadows
Find a way to make her laugh. My boyfriend always cheers me up just by being his goofy self.
Melie
i think the best thing is to tell her you're there for her whenever she's ready to talk. reassure her that you want nothing but for her to be happy and if she's not happy then you're not. give her that feeling that she's needed by you.

women don't like to be pressured into talking but once she does, you better have some time for her.
JokeInsideJoke
QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Mar 27 2008, 06:14 PM) *
The quickest way into anyones heart is laughter and food. throb.gif Well...at least for me.



food. all the way thumbsup.gif
Tung
QUOTE(JokeInsideJoke @ Mar 27 2008, 04:32 PM) *
food. all the way thumbsup.gif

Does your post ever contain content longer than 1-2 phrases? Seriously, I looked through 3-4 pages worth of your posts, and I have yet to find one.

Stay in the sandbox please.

Anyways, if you want to cheer a girl up, do something you know she enjoys. If she likes shopping, take her to the mall and hang out. Buy her something she might like. Do one of her chores or and errand she has to usually do. Talk to her. Do something.
foxx
QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 27 2008, 06:31 PM) *
i think the best thing is to tell her you're there for her whenever she's ready to talk. reassure her that you want nothing but for her to be happy and if she's not happy then you're not. give her that feeling that she's needed by you.

women don't like to be pressured into talking but once she does, you better have some time for her.

thumbsup.gif
theguardsman
QUOTE(Melie @ Mar 27 2008, 06:31 PM) *
i think the best thing is to tell her you're there for her whenever she's ready to talk. reassure her that you want nothing but for her to be happy and if she's not happy then you're not. give her that feeling that she's needed by you.

women don't like to be pressured into talking but once she does, you better have some time for her.

i said that to her...and then she goes like..."OH. so shud i pretend to be happy even if im not so that you're happy." that really caught be out, i had no idea what to say...
Melie
hmm...something is really bothering her. for her to take it out on you for no reason was unnecessary. find out from her gf's what's wrong with her. maybe they might know something you don't.
JokeInsideJoke
QUOTE(Tungster @ Mar 27 2008, 07:35 PM) *
Does your post ever contain content longer than 1-2 phrases? Seriously, I looked through 3-4 pages worth of your posts, and I have yet to find one.


then you should have looked harder stubborn.gif
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