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shoryuken
so let say u date 2 ppl... how u feell bout that.. dat wrong or wat..?
carolannexbh
It really depends on how the other two people want the relationship. If its an open relationship, sure. But I know a couple people who have 2 or 3 boyfriends and none of the boyfriends know.
illriginal
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 27 2008, 10:17 AM) *
so let say u date 2 ppl... how u feell bout that.. dat wrong or wat..?


It's not good to date multiple people. That becomes very stressful and puts a lot on your mind. Nor is it good to have multiple partners or multiple relationships.


P.S. Open relationships are laughable. That's a disaster waitin to happen.
Melie
dating 2 people isn't a good idea. especially when it can backfire on you. what goes around, comes around.
Castaway
it's stupid.
stick with one or you're gonna end up with a smack in the face.
you'll be much more happier with one anyways. Two girlfriends might be too much work.
foxx
there is a religion like this..
i just
forgot
what
ITS CALLED.
damnn. Ill tell you when i remember
biggrin.gif
shoryuken
sum ppl just aintt readdii 4 rellationnshipp... so... dey datee w/e dey wan.. shrug.gif
QUOTE(Castaway @ Mar 27 2008, 09:01 PM) *
it's stupid.
stick with one or you're gonna end up with a smack in the face.
you'll be much more happier with one anyways. Two girlfriends might be too much work.

laugh.gif laugh.gif...

aintt muchoo workk iff u likee moi hur.. shiet.. laugh.gif
misoshiru
you're into polygamy?
shoryuken
who da h3ll say anythangg boutt 2 gurlfriendz... laugh.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Mar 27 2008, 11:45 PM) *
you're into polygamy?

.. WTH happpenn 2 u bietchhez hur...

y alll u hoo alll nicee n askk questionn n shiet.. blink.gif blink.gif laugh.gif

wat happpen 2 be mean n shiet..? stubborn.gif
Stefanny
I feel that it is definitely something negative. If you have two girlfriends, then that means you're missing something with one of them, or they just don't meet up to your expectations as one person. I say dump `em both. And if you're shallow enough to go out with two girls at once, then go live in a trash can with some stray cats.

I love you, nguoicasison. Go out with me? kiss.gif



































SIKE.
shoryuken
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 28 2008, 03:17 PM) *
I feel that it is definitely something negative. If you have two girlfriends, then that means you're missing something with one of them, or they just don't meet up to your expectations as one person. I say dump `em both. And if you're shallow enough to go out with two girls at once, then go live in a trash can with some stray cats.
I love you, nguoicasison. Go out with me? kiss.gif
SIKE.

DAT BS!!! u dunnoo wth u talkin bout homo... tongue.gif

how dat shallow date 2 ppl...? wen u like me.. u dun settlee 4 lesss... dat aint da way 2 goo wen u like me.. mellow.gif

only averaagee ppll go fo 1 cuz dat alll dey cann go 4.. tongue.gif
Stefanny
I'm not going to say that I haven't liked more than one person at a time. Shallow as in you don't care about how the other person feels, because if you did, then you wouldn't be dating somebody else behind their back. This is all just IMO. shrug.gif
shoryuken
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 28 2008, 03:28 PM) *
I'm not going to say that I haven't liked more than one person at a time. Shallow as in you don't care about how the other person feels, because if you did, then you wouldn't be dating somebody else behind their back. This is all just IMO. shrug.gif

ohh u rite.. buttt whoo cure... laugh.gif laugh.gif

stilll youngg.. so y nott go CRAZII!!! maibi wen me git like oldd den me datee 1 ppl.. laugh.gif .. rite now.. BRINN DEMM ALLL!!! 5-6-7-8 ppll.. who cur.. tongue.gif
Stefanny
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 28 2008, 12:32 PM) *
ohh u rite.. buttt whoo cure... laugh.gif laugh.gif

stilll youngg.. so y nott go CRAZII!!! maibi wen me git like oldd den me datee 1 ppl.. laugh.gif .. rite now.. BRINN DEMM ALLL!!! 5-6-7-8 ppll.. who cur.. tongue.gif
I hope you're kidding. If you want to have a serious relationship when you're older, why ruin your reputation now? I mean.. Let's make a scenario:

Girl likes boy.
Boy likes girl.
Boy asks out girl.
Girl goes out with boy.
Girl finds out boy played 6 girls off at same time when he was younger.
Boy apologizes.
Girl dumps boy.
Boy lives lonely and sad life.
_unsure.gif
shoryuken
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 28 2008, 03:35 PM) *
I hope you're kidding. If you want to have a serious relationship when you're older, why ruin your reputation now? I mean.. Let's make a scenario:

Girl likes boy.
Boy likes girl.
Boy asks out girl.
Girl goes out with boy.
Girl finds out boy played 6 girls off at same time when he was younger.
Boy apologizes.
Girl dumps boy.
Boy lives lonely and sad life.
_unsure.gif

you NUB... howw da h3ll ppll ginnaa finee outt!!! sheez.. u worrii 2 mucchh.. stubborn.gif

welll maibii dey finee out.. laugh.gif laugh.gif ...butt bigg deall..

u aintt me age so u dunnoo howw 2 b sick likee moi.. GTFO my facee!! laugh.gif tongue.gif
illriginal
QUOTE(chocokissez @ Mar 27 2008, 09:03 PM) *
there is a religion like this..
i just
forgot
what
ITS CALLED.
damnn. Ill tell you when i remember
biggrin.gif

Stupid f**kin mormons. I wanna slit all their throats.













P.S. I'm sorry, I'm upset because I ran out of my spicy baconator burger from wendys :(
misoshiru
it's not just mormons who are into polygamy.

QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 29 2008, 03:19 AM) *
how dat shallow date 2 ppl...? wen u like me.. u dun settlee 4 lesss... dat aint da way 2 goo wen u like me.. mellow.gif

why would anyone like someone like you?
Stefanny
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Mar 28 2008, 12:38 PM) *
you NUB... howw da h3ll ppll ginnaa finee outt!!! sheez.. u worrii 2 mucchh.. stubborn.gif

welll maibii dey finee out.. laugh.gif laugh.gif ...butt bigg deall..

u aintt me age so u dunnoo howw 2 b sick likee moi.. GTFO my facee!! laugh.gif tongue.gif
Yeah, so exactly how old are you?
shoryuken
QUOTE(misoshiru @ Mar 28 2008, 04:00 PM) *
it's not just mormons who are into polygamy.
why would anyone like someone like you?

who da h3ll cur bout moron... fuk all da religgionn shiet.. laugh.gif laugh.gif
jeez..

n wth happen 2 u..? me dun likee da normall u misoshiet.. wat happenn 2 b mean..? laugh.gif
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 28 2008, 04:08 PM) *
Yeah, so exactly how old are you?

callll me unclee FOOLL!!! laugh.gif laugh.gif tongue.gif
Stefanny
Wait, no matter what age you are, it's wrong to date 2 people at the same time. Unless, of course, you're like 2 and you have no clue what you're doing. In that case, you'd be pimpin`
Tramatize
Its wrong imo because even if they both are alright with it, its messed up, because in the end you can only have one
shoryuken
QUOTE(JuggaloSKfan @ Mar 28 2008, 04:25 PM) *
Its wrong imo because even if they both are alright with it, its messed up, because in the end you can only have one

2 baddd u oopp ionnion dun countt.. tongue.gif tongue.gif laugh.gif

imaa skatee alll ova u facee u dun stopp talkin inn myy threadd!! tongue.gif tongue.gif
mellysmelly
i was dating two guys once
one knew of the other, the other had no clue

what basically happened was that i was seriously torn between the two
it wasnt that one had something the other didnt
i jus really liked them both for different reasons

and i wanted to keep em both lol buuut
the guy who knew about the other guy
(i hope im not losing you lol)
wanted me to choose him over my real bf but i couldnt so me and him split and are basically no longer friends

i still lk him, shh biggrin.gif
wwwww
Since its you, I don't give a damn. But sane people, I would be against that.
Glamourouz
I've done that & have talked to 7 people at the same time but it's kinda wrong but it depends on your situation or how you view things. I only did it because my relationship wasn't being taken seriously so I just disregarded the relationship altogether and did my thing & talked to other people since I'm young & it's acceptable
Comptine
I think it's funny how a few decades ago, parents wanted their children to date multiple people. This thinned out the kids' focus so they wouldn't get too serious with one person and do bad stuff.

Now you date multiple people, it's assumed you do bad stuff with all of them. mellow.gif

It really depends on the people who are in the relationships. But usually, an open relationship leaves room for a lot of hurt.
illriginal
QUOTE(resplendence @ Mar 29 2008, 02:14 AM) *
I think it's funny how a few decades ago, parents wanted their children to date multiple people.

blink.gif W.T.F. nowai...
Comptine
Have you ever read Archie comics?

That's why Archie dated both Betty and Veronica. And that it was totally okay for Betty and/or Veronica to agree to dates with other boys.

"Going steady" is from that era too. It means, instead of dating different people, you chose one person to date...steady.... I think.
illriginal
QUOTE(resplendence @ Mar 29 2008, 02:19 AM) *
Have you ever read Archie comics?

That's why Archie dated both Betty and Veronica. And that it was totally okay for Betty and/or Veronica to agree to dates with other boys.

"Going steady" is from that era too. It means, instead of dating different people, you chose one person to date...steady.... I think.

o.O; God darn Americans... When I was living in D.R. I remember how no one could go around dating multiple people cuz everyone would know about it and of course the guy would get a bad rep.
fosheezy
eesh, that's a no no.
it's much better to stick with one at a time.
i had a friend who dated 6 girls at once. s
that was one of the stupidest things he ever did.
he pretty much RUINED any future with the one girl he truly felt something for.
datass
QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 29 2008, 04:16 AM) *
of course, you're like 2 and you have no clue what you're doing. In that case, you'd be pimpin`

a little 2 year old boy and 2 little girls next to him all cuddling. cute!
Sprague
I don't think its fair to the other people that you're dating that you're with another person. That's technically called cheating and, well, we know how cheating goes. They will eventually find out, one way or another, because that's how the cookie crumbles. If you have any respect for your significant other at all, you'd either break it off with one of them, or not be in another relationship at once. Its not about how many you can date just cause you're young and you wanna be a pimp. If you were serious about any relationship, you'd want to invest all your time into the one that mattered, not a side "fling".
shoryuken
QUOTE(Reconditee @ Apr 1 2008, 11:48 AM) *
I don't think its fair to the other people that you're dating that you're with another person. That's technically called cheating and, well, we know how cheating goes. They will eventually find out, one way or another, because that's how the cookie crumbles. If you have any respect for your significant other at all, you'd either break it off with one of them, or not be in another relationship at once. Its not about how many you can date just cause you're young and you wanna be a pimp. If you were serious about any relationship, you'd want to invest all your time into the one that mattered, not a side "fling".

paaa pimmp...? wat pimmpp...?
Sprague
You're talking about dating 6-8 people at one time. Assuming you just want them for whats in their panties. :o A bit hectic for one guy, no?
shoryuken
shrug.gif

watt paa pimpp..? me girll BTW.. not boy..
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