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Jayembe
Well to tell u the truth i would never date a boy my age. im 13 but still right now i'm datin sum1 way older. probably my choice of what age a boy should b for me is 15-18 lol i no it sounds wrong but still i don't like dating boys my age. What do u think and fourteen year olds well i consider them in range to but prefer 15 and older
ThePrincessofTKD
QUOTE(Jayembe @ Jun 24 2004, 10:34 AM)
Well to tell u the truth i would never date a boy my age. im 13 but still right now i'm datin sum1 way older. probably my choice of what age a boy should b for me is 15-18 lol i no it sounds wrong but still i don't like dating boys my age. What do u think and fourteen year olds well i consider them in range to but prefer 15 and older

no wonder you have a pic of sailor moon as your signature... laugh.gif

anyways...do you feel a guy way older would be more mature..?

i mean...some guys that are older can be jerks. well...most guys, any age, can be jerks.

well...if that`s your choice of guys...for me...i`d prefer someone around my age. not way too old. like months - 2 years older. happy.gif

the thing is about older boyfriends who you prefer...they move on to college and then they won`t be able to see you unless they go to a college nearby, which i know that some people prefer going to out-of-state colleges far away from their parents. i`d say...there would be alot of problems if he was really older than you [like the guys you prefer]. problems will conjure [sp?] up.
Jayembe
i don't think their more mature jus that i dunno they hav sum kinda charm that guys my age don't
and Sailor moon i hate sailor moon only hav it cus i don't have time to change it
mai_z
well i don't think dating an older guy is a problem...it's all about feel. i generally date older guys because i seem to click with them, but i wouldn't be against dating someone younger or my own age...i've had plenty of crushes on guys my own age
and the whole 'mature' thing? i actually think they get less mature as thye get older lol
illmizzkim
Help help help!! Okay.

I'm 16 and my "boyfriend" is 21. Too much??

I say "boyfriend" because I'm not too sure of our status.. but I know something is there.. help meeeee wacko.gif
mai_z
^^ eh, if u really like him, it's fine. u gotta remember that he's legal and ur not tho, so there could b some complications there. i guess u gotta make sure u ko wut ur gettin into
Jayembe
No i think that's not too much becuz u and ur "boyfriend" are like me and my bf soo if u like him and he likes u it's perfectly fine
illmizzkim
oh thanks guys.. haha i really wasn't so sure.. happy.gif
lemonlina
Yeah, I wouldn't go out with a boy my age. 13 year old boys are still too immature. o_o;; I went out with this 14 year old boy and he was mature by soo much! It's amazing what 1 year can do.
Mini
age doesnt matter, but watch out for the older guys..they tend to use younger girls and abuse them..so yeah.
LiNHy POO
yehh i dont like to date guys around my age either!!! im only 13 and im dating a 17 y/o... which i dont think its bad at all!!! but yehh you have to watch out for the perverted ones.. _dry.gif
xsw33t_t3mptasianx
Age doesn't really matter just along as:

1. You guys love each other
2. The person isn't old enough to be ur mom or dad or something like that

--][My Xang3r][--
sandra
yea i agree, age doesnt play much a big role... but there are older guys that cant be trusted so its better to date someone around ur age. lets say 1-3 years older?
JlIaTMK
my parents r fourteen years apart mom=36 dad=50

so u have nothing to worry about
Winter
I'm the same too. I'm 15 but I prefer older guys. My current BF is 17, my ex is 18. I just prefer guys who are more mature.

But if you're dating someone legal, you gotta remember that you're still underage.
y0urmistake
hmm well 13 going out with an 18 year old? Thats a little .. much.... but okay Im 16 soon to be 17 and my boyfriends 20 biggrin.gif I like em older they are so much more mature. pinch.gif
ooo and 17 is legal in tx to woo!!
Yemmerz
QUOTE(y0urmistake @ Jun 25 2004, 12:21 PM)
hmm well 13 going out with an 18 year old?  Thats a little .. much.... but okay  Im 16 soon to be 17 and my boyfriends 20  biggrin.gif  I like em older they are so much more mature.  pinch.gif
ooo and 17 is legal in tx to woo!!

Wait, that's being a hypocrite. Linhy and her bf are about 4 years off [since linhy will be 14 soon] and you and your bf are about 3/4 years apart. There's no such thing as "much" with love. _smile.gif
y0urmistake
QUOTE(Yemmerz @ Jun 25 2004, 11:25 AM)
Wait, that's being a hypocrite. Linhy and her bf are about 4 years off [since linhy will be 14 soon] and you and your bf are about 3/4 years apart. There's no such thing as "much" with love. _smile.gif

13 and 18.. 5 years apart.. but 13... someone what, middle school? 18... someone already going to college... much of a difference, to me anyways.
islandkiss
depends on you.. but It would seem akward to date a guy like who's more than 3 yrs older.
killmewith_love
i think the difference between 13 and 18 is a bit ... well ... crazy. i mean, yes 'age is just a number', but it's beyond 'oh they are 5 years apart'. there is SO MUCH growing up between those years that the boy has experienced that the girl has not. i just .. i dunno. i mean, i totally understand dating up, though. i'm 16 , and my boyfriend is 17, but before that one of my exes was 18, and when i was 14-15 i went out with a boy who was 16.
FreeStickers
I think it's ok to date older guys. My boyfriend is a lot older than me.
vivieeeen
aaw i like older guys too. it's normal

unless............ he's 20 years older than you

but then... i wouldn't find it surprising when "I" get older ... i don't know

my ex's are 5 years older than me averagely.
princesslena523
alright well age doesnt matter but at this young age its kinda weird when couples are like 5 or more years apart or even like 4 lol i mean it seems more reasonable for like a 25 yearold and and a 30 yearold but like a 12 yearold and 17 yearold i dont know a bit odd but if the two sincerley like each other and arent using eachother or desperate then its fine. its up to you but just be carefull
fullmusicedmajor
until you hit 20 theres a "rule" (wives tale type thing)
1 year younger 2 years older
faithin_felix
well dating someone the same age as you isn't that bad, as long as he looks older than you.
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