I don't know how to say this, however the past couple of days me and my girlfriend have been talking and everytime we talk it's as if she brings something bad up about myself, whether it's me being a jerk sometimes towards other people and etc etc. It has been really bothering me, im always so nice to her and yet I feel she treats me poorly.


What do I do?

call her out on it . . . she needs to seriously readjust the way she talks to you so dont let her step all over you or it will probably just get worse

I think im going to do that..I can't take anymore of this shit. I feel like im going to snap any moment now..

Well maybe it depends on what she's saying. Is it targeted towards how you treat other people, your habits, etc.? If it is, then it's clearly a sign that she wants you to change. Just make sure you're able to change what's within your capacity, or what you're willing to change. Offer a compromise - criticize something about her to her face so she gets a reality check so she should change some of her bad habits as well.


But if she's constantly bagging on you for no reason and you're taking it like a wuss (no offense), you definitely should talk to her about it. I agree with Heather (Heathasm). Don't get whipped! lol Good luck!

Ask her what's good... she obviously has some sort of problem with you. If she can't answer then drop her. You don't need the negativity of others in your way.

But then again, you gotta keep in mind she's probably joking. They say that people without siblings have the hardest time gettin a long with people because they never had their chops busted by a sibling. So they tend to take everything serious and to the heart.

Most of the times I joke around and act like a jerk...maybe it's just I joke too much and she takes it seriously, i dunno..

^ based on your previous post, i'm leaning towards that answer.

when females constantly bring the same things up, it usually means you either aren't considering what she had to say, or she's simply a naggy bitch.

more than likely, she feels serious about whatever issue she keeps bringing up. like was said above, offer a compromise, or figure something out by talking it out. and by talking i don't mean her bringing it up and you ignoring it ;o.

uh.. PIX..?

what?

uhhh i wanna c you girllfriend pix..

wtf? why do you care?

can someone close this topic for discussion please?

man kid.. i need pix so i can help man..

you can tell what they like if you see tha pix yo.. that y i ask 4 pix..