if you started to date someone, but found out along the way that he/she was raped, would you like him/her less, or just the same, or more?




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wouldn't affect how much i like someone

it wouldnt matter to me

you guys all say that now.
actually, i think i would say that now too. but when it happens, ill get back to you =]

//edit:
i just realized this is for guys
well, my answer is based on the point of view of me..boy version.

it's not like they can help it

I think it would matter to me. I don't know in what way she might be traumatized. I wouldn't want to have an odd relationship =\

LOL, Shrima Boy Version?

My sexuality can be a bit intense; I would be afraid of crossing lines.

i think you start caring for that person even more if that situation ever did occur. you push her to be stronger, to stop thinking and sulking about it, and let her know that friends like yourself will always be there no matter what the situation is. whether it is rape, pregnancy, depression, or attempted suicide.
if you put all the petty immature feelings aside, i think it's easy to like or even fall with someone that got raped.
if she got previously raped, and your dating her and found out through her, that means she trusts you, and only you. if you get weird thoughts in your mind, like the thought of breaking up, thats your immature mind doing work, giving doubts.
if the girl considers you the healing process of her past, then let her use you. don't let rape get in the way of things, and grow with it. cause it takes a lot to date or even hang out with guys after a session of rape.

I'd probably try not to get too sexual with her. Even if she wanted to, I'd probably feel guilty.

i'd be more in love with her.
because it would take a strong person to live with something like that.
i would probably have a greater respect for her.

yes, the names Shrimo

I will don't give a shit about her life and just f**k her but if it's someone who I realy love a lot so this is diferent

^ Uh, gross.

If someone tells you something that like, it means that they trust you. If you push her away because she told you, it's going to do more harm to her. It takes A LOT to tell someone something like that, esspecially to tell someone that you're having sex with. Your opinions about what is too far and what is too much may change, but that's why communication is important.

If she tells you because there's certian aspects of sex that she can't handle, opinions might change, but if she's telling you to get it off her chest and so that you know, then I don't see why things would have to change.

hm i had a thing with this girl last year. we weren't going out or anything but i guess we acted like we were.
anyways s he told me she was raped and that's why we didnt go out because her parents didn't want her to or something.

It didn't affect the feelings i had for the girl, i was actually mad about whoever did it because he was probably around my age.