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faithin_felix
fellow createbloggers, i am having a tough life at the moment. so there are three girls.i give them fake names. juliett, coconut and happy and girlfriend. there are FOUR GIRLS.
ever since i have girlfriend its been bad. well juliett says ive been changing and stuff and we had an arguement but we are good now. and after she unblocks me she says that i have even turned into worst. well juliett is kind because she tells me everything even though she unblocks me. and then there is coconut. coconut is like my ex, well kinda. not really, don't know what to say. but she liked this other guy and kinda left me. and then coconut had an arguement with that guy, and now she is single and she did like me, so i am thinking and it really seems, and someone might of told me that she likes me back. and i have to try to change back to what i was, because it is a bad change. and juliett told me i shouldn't of told coconut this "i wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend" yea, i was stupid. but it is too late now and now i think coconut is hurt and i can't say sorry, because juliett told me not to or it would hurt her, and i want to stay with my girlfriend because i like/love her a lot. and happy girl is just juliett and coconut good friends. happy girl was helping me, she is kind. and she help get juliett girl unblock me. this is almost like a fantasy. theres more, but i don't feel like sharing it.
twitchyfeets
_unsure.gif Does anyone else get that?
babygurl_xtacy
dude! this is wacko.gif and _unsure.gif . i feel for ya sad.gif pinch.gif
babygurl_xtacy
i get it.. ohmy.gif
bobbster
You shouldn't have to change for anybody to like you. Haha, you kinda confused me and twitchyfeet up there with the three girls, but I can see that A and B are the important ones. If you like A, then stay with her.(that is your current girlfriend, right? ermm.gif ) B left you for another guy, and so.......er.....um..i'm sooo lost now. Well, just choose the girl you seem thats right for you. _smile.gif

Er..and I think it would be easier if you gave them fake names, cause it's a bit confusing reading "B girl" and stuff. _smile.gif
babygurl_xtacy
no.... A and C are friends.. and B is ex.. and girlfriend.. is girlfriend. _unsure.gif
faithin_felix
QUOTE(bobbster @ Jun 23 2004, 11:58 PM)
You shouldn't have to change for anybody to like you. Haha, you kinda confused me and twitchyfeet up there with the three girls, but I can see that A and B are the important ones. If you like A, then stay with her.(that is your current girlfriend, right? ermm.gif ) B left you for another guy, and so.......er.....um..i'm sooo lost now. Well, just choose the girl you seem thats right for you.  _smile.gif

Er..and I think it would be easier if you gave them fake names, cause it's a bit confusing reading "B girl" and stuff.  _smile.gif

ok, i give fake names..

and thanks babygurl_xtacy (julia) thanks..for helping.
babygurl_xtacy
your welcome? haha its okay sai lo.. things will clear up one day..
faithin_felix
thanks. they will one day, all i hope is that "coconut" finds someone new...so what do you people think?
babygurl_xtacy
i have a headache reading this lol good luck bro rolleyes.gif
ThePrincessofTKD
the problem is...you need to stick to ONE girl, but you don`t know which girl to turn to. sad..

yeah..."coconut" left you for another guy [like someone said earlier]. that`s not a good thing. and NOW she has feelings for you? wtf? that`s messed up. she should`ve thought first, ya know? unless you`re the "second chance" guy. then you already GOT a girlfriend and you`re worrying about your ex?? that`s even more wrong. she`s OUT. your girlfriend is IN, right? and you`re not looking at other girls, right??

then you just got to stick with your girlfriend. i mean, BE LOYAL. unless she`s treating you like a piece of crap and prepared to dump you like a rock.

once you choose that girl, SHOW CONSTANT AFFECTION. omg....`cause some girls don`t really have boyfriends that they talk about everyday to their girl-friends. i mean...don`t you want a girlfriend worthy enough to write home to?

sorry...i`m just pissed off at someone. good luck though. happy.gif
faithin_felix
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ Jun 26 2004, 11:35 PM)
the problem is...you need to stick to ONE girl, but you don`t know which girl to turn to. sad..

yeah..."coconut" left you for another guy [like someone said earlier]. that`s not a good thing. and NOW she has feelings for you? wtf? that`s messed up. she should`ve thought first, ya know? unless you`re the "second chance" guy. then you already GOT a girlfriend and you`re worrying about your ex?? that`s even more wrong. she`s OUT. your girlfriend is IN, right? and you`re not looking at other girls, right??

then you just got to stick with your girlfriend. i mean, BE LOYAL. unless she`s treating you like a piece of crap and prepared to dump you like a rock.

once you choose that girl, SHOW CONSTANT AFFECTION. omg....`cause some girls don`t really have boyfriends that they talk about everyday to their girl-friends. i mean...don`t you want a girlfriend worthy enough to write home to?

sorry...i`m just pissed off at someone. good luck though. happy.gif

ohh no, it is okay, you made the point nice and clear. thanks, be loyal. that is what i am. wink.gif
mai_z
it was a bit confusing, but i think i understand......'coconut' sounds kinda like it's a rebound tho, so becareful of that...but most importantly, when u do pick one (which i hope is reallly soon for your sake) stick with her, and make everything crystal clear... constantly show her that she's your girlfriend, and don't let things get muddled up with other girls
Mini
i dont think u should leave your gf to be with coconutt, coconutt left you to be with another guy and now since they had an arguement, she suddenly likes you? coconutt doesnt have her priorities straight. be with ur gf! be loyal.
fullmusicedmajor
pick one, if u cant then pick none and wait till a new one comes along
LoST SouL
soap opera baby jus like my life go through tat 24/7
faithin_felix
QUOTE(fullmusicedmajor @ Jun 28 2004, 8:03 PM)
pick one, if u cant then pick none and wait till a new one comes along

no, that would just be lonely.
babygurl_xtacy
i'll have to say.. pick girlfriend.. shes been there for u.. coconut hasnt.
faithin_felix
yup, and that is what i will do and what i have done. =)
babygurl_xtacy
awesome! problem solved huh.gif biggrin.gif
faithin_felix
except now Happy might like me...
ichiban
I am sorry .. I'm confused xP
babygurl_xtacy
happy.........but do you like happy? if no. then shes not apart of the situation. and i never said i was positive. so.. dont think! rolleyes.gif
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