i went to the mall this weekend and noticed some guys carrying purses for their supposed girlfriends.

i don't think i would let my boyfriend carry my purse. maybe help me with some of the stuff i buy but not my purse.

what about you?

I only ask when I'm going to the bathroom and don't want to deal with it. Or if I need both hands.

It's just like asking them to hold anything else. As long as you don't keep them holding it, then it's fine.

no, thats just gay.

he always offers, and when i'm lazy i accept the offer ;P

but sometimes i wanna rock my purse, so i'd rather i carry it so i can show it off ;X har.

when I need to do something and my purse is in the way I have him hold it for me. It's not like its over his shoulder and he's walking around with it...and clearly it's not his.

pockets ftw
or i just use his pockets. haha.

i hate having something on my arm. what if i have to punch someone or something?

Violence FTW?!

I wouldn't... Maybe only if I had to tie my shoe for a second and I had a big tote or something.

I would ask him if I need to do something with both of my hands, or if I'm going to the washroom. But it's not like I keep him holding it so it's fine...and I like to hold my own purse.

DUDE. i totally feel ya! i hate purses so much, they're so facking annoying.

if im shopping and holding alot of clothes or something. he will take it from me until we pay. only when im struggling or about to drop stuff he usually takes it then gives it back as soon as he can.

Only if I'm putting on or taking off a coat or sometime when I need both arms for a quick moment, but never for anything else or for a long time.

Damn, I think you're my long-lost sister that I never had. I hate purses, and if I need tampons, they just go into the boyfriend's pockets.

guys should NOT carry purses...... backpacks, sure, but not PURSES!

nah, i'm just physically aggressive.



word.

lol..hey i say he can drag my purse....as long as it's not on his shoulder...i don't care...i'm lazy anyway

FTW.

agreed with the bathroom thing.
yea, sometimes we need to use our hands for something else.

its gay if theyre wearing around their shoulders. but if they were swingin it around (not that i would particularly like that), it would be much less gay.

and no, never for a long time

Agreed. It totally spoils the nature of w/e it is I'm doing. Freakin annoying~

So I usually wear jackets/shirts/pants w. pockets.

I seriously wonder how some of those chicks parade around w. their purses at their elbow in that one arm position (if you know what I mean). Wouldn't they get a cramp? O_O

Oh man, I was scared to click on this topic in case it was about men with manbags,

My boyfriend always insists upon carrying anything heavy or unwieldy. It's gentlemanly and I love to see it.

I hate purses so I never worry about it.

I carry only what i need.

i don't think men should carry purses period.
Unless they feel like they want to, but thats called something else.

Nah o_O, I've only made one guy carry my purse and that was in high school. I took advantage of him >_>

xD

lmao!

Never, i alwawys see guys carrying their girlfriends purse and i think it looks gay.

No, that would be embarrassing for him. :P I don't carry a purse too often anyway.

i would never offer to carry my girlfriend's person. if she asked i would, but i wouldn't constantly pursue holding it.

same

If i had to fix my shoe or tie my hair back then yeah I would let him but other than that no

Her person?

When i was tired. YES ! Bags, purse ... everything. I mean that's why we have bf's - to carry things hahaha lol jk

Well, for one thing, I don't carry around purses and usually I don't like people carrying things for me...unless its something small like keys and such.

I made my boyfriend hold and he held it like it had a disease or something but yeah I make him hold it if I have to go to the bathroom or hold a baby(and had something else is in the other hand and the purse fell off my shoulders, oh I hate that) or taking off my coat.

I wouldn't ask him per say, but he's done it. He proposed and I didn't refuse.

heck no! that looks awful.
when ive asked my bf to hold my bag (i dont carry purses) he wont do it around people ha

My ex-b/f always offered but i never let him cuz i could carry it but if my arms were full i would give it to him.

Neva eva i'd feel like id be de-masculinizing him

If it's so heavy that you have to have him carry it, maybe you should empty some of your crap out of it. Or go to the gym and get a little strength.

If you have to do something real quick, then I can see him holding it. Sometimes I'll just hand mine to whomever I know that's there. Or set it on the ground.

Whenever I see guys carrying their girlfriend's purses and bags at the mall it just screams pussywhipped.

My boyfriend will carry mine if we're shopping & I have other things to carry I don't mind, I don't even ask him to. He just does(:

Only if I needed him to. Like if my hands are full or something...

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BUTTT pursee... H3LL NAHH...

i always ask him to carry my purse for me he usually just swings it around and throws it in the air lol.

A guy in my school always carried his girlfriend's purse for her and got made fun of

So... no I wouldn't ask any guy to

princc nevaa c dizz...

ew n*gga you gay

no bietchh.. u gaay..

anii guyy carrii shiett ezz gaay..

What about a gun?

I'd ask him if I needed to do something where holding my purse would be a hassle. Then, I'd ask for it back when I'm done (:

My boyfriend only carries mines when I need a free hand.
I'll ask him, "Baby will you hold my purse for a second so I can .....?" and he's like "yeah, of course, baby" and after i'm done i'll take it back. There's nothing wrong with it, it's quite nice of guys to help out. :)

nah. i wouldnt do that to him. If i did i would probably just ask him to hold it for a few seconds if i needed to use both hands for something.