you can not pick equal, would you pick this or that.


if you are a guy, a best long term relationship friend or girlfriend

if you are a girl, a best and long term relationship friend or boyfriend

damn that is HARD. i would say girlfriend.

yes it is hard, i kind of have the problem...harder for me.

well it depends..in ur situation. i mean i never really HAD a best friend. im a float..im friends with everybody.

but girlfriend, NOT just any friend.

err srry i cant pick. i love mai bf but i also love mai frenz too so yea i dont think i can make a decision

i really need to know! please. i am so dead.

hmmm they both sound equal eh? its so weird that every topic i click its u that posted it. heehee hmmm... i would choose friend cuz they usually last longer than relationships... but thats just my opinon. if ur saying that the relationship would last, than definately the gf/bf

Strong friend. But...I don't think our decisions should be affecting your choice. It's your situation, we know nothing about your friends/girlfriend...so don't let what WE think change your judgement.

I'd say a strong friend.....because for ex. For a guy....if the guy had a strong friend that was a girl... the girl could become a gf to him.....then he'd have a gf and a friend....in some kind of way.....and for a girl it would be the same except opposite in the gender......(Did that make any sence???) n e ways....I say friend~~

Its rather hard to pick, but I would most likely pick girlfriend...

because the gf is you...haha... ;)

bros before hoes

can I say a strong girlfriend?

Haha. Friends Over Relationships as a group of people would say.

everyone chose girlfriend, regardless whether i am. heehee, what would u choose?

i don't know...so hard. very very tough choice.

Friend over BF. I mean friendship lasts much longer than relationships do.

depends.

i've chosen both, and ended up with nothing both ways.

the friendship turn out to be a dud after we had no classes together

the relationship well, yea.

now that i think, i should have do it the other way around. might have worked better.

oh well, can't spend my entire life regretting what i've done.

boyfriend...

the best boyfriend is a good friend.....so i'd pick boyfriend, then i'd have both!!

sorry to say to my boyfriend... but FRIENDS FIRST!!!

best and long term relationship with my.. um.. bf. I guess.

boyfriend.

i'd pick long term best friend. i wouldn't risk a good friendship like that. but thats just me..

that is so smart. how can you people pick so easily? it is so hard for me to pick..

are they two seperate people or one in the same?
it depends on who the bf would be...not for some random guy on the street.

srry kant live w/o either but id have to say boyfriend if i really had ot pick

seperate

ok, after 13 days without people posting in this topic, i have finally made my decison, i would pick a strong friend.

I'm hoping you didnt actually have to choose between one in real life..

It would be very hard.. I dunno exactly what I'd pick..
I'm hoping that it'd be the same person, but otherwise.. dunno..

well..nope not saying i had to pick one in real life, because if i did, it would be so hard still, even though i had an answer..thank god...but i just relaized which one i'd pick thats all.

I'd pick boyfriend cause a boyfriend can still be a friend, right?

er im not too sure. but den again.. my bf would b my really good friend

Wasn't there a topic about this somewhere else??

Well, I'd pick a strong friend, because he'd be someone I could talk to more easily.

uhmmm it depends on who these people are. but i'd probably pick a best and long-term relationship with bf.

wow i am in the same situtation. i cant choose . just believe what you think is right. if your best friend is truely your best friend. they will be there no matter what right?

i think its the same one, because no one posted in it for a while.

well for me, i would say relationship because i want someone i could hold in my arms and be there for that person when they need me, but if ur a person who jus wants to have fun,u would probally pick bestfriend thing.