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Tung
Honestly girls, would you date a guy who has no money? Don't give me that bullshit about money doesn't matter and it's all about if he cares about you or not. I'm not saying that isn't important, but money is also important too. Would you go out with some dude who has no job, and no money or car to take you places, or treat you out to dinner, or get you nice gifts? Be honest.
pkbabe
My bf fits that category. But its not like a permanent situation. Its only cuz hes concentrating on school in the meantime _smile.gif

He too asks me that question of why I'm with him from time to time but really its no biggie. I've always been self reliant & don't really like being helped because I feel much better about earning things.
yrrnotelekktric
I really don`t know.
I mean if i really cared about him, it wouldn`t matter.
I mean I`d prefer if he HAD money, but whatever.

As long as he`s hot.

laugh.gif

That`s shallow, i know. _smile.gif
iDecay
Honestly, no. I mean he can be a little bit poor, but not majorly. I don't want to have to struggle that hard to get money.
datass
Dating a hobo would be kinda hard.
MissHygienic
If a guy had no job, no money, no car would mean that he has no priorities or a sense of responsibility; therefore, I could and would never possibly date such a guy. Is he going to be mommy's little boy until he's 70? No.
DoubleJ
I have money as evidenced by my expensive lifestyle, but I will admit I don't have a whip. Hell I don't even have a license, but I do have a driver so that does count for something right?
babecakes
honestly, i'm fine with dating someone who doesn't make as much money as i do but i couldn't date someone who sat on their ass all day while i worked. i'm not asking for a ballin' rich boyfriend but someone that can atleast pay some bills and has some self-responsibility :).
Laughsalot
nope i would never date a broke guy, it would just show how lazy and unintelligent he is. my mom says the financial status is one of the most important things in a relationship. look at it this way, if the guy was in loads of debt and in a financial crisis he would definitely be majorly stressed and grumpy even to his partner which would affect the relationsip alot cuz there's no hot hot hot passionate love or that sweet carefree moment where they're cuddling and whatever. and many many other examples.
Melissa
It depends on the situation.

I really don't think it's that hard to get a job and if he can't, then something other than having-no-money is wrong with him, i.e. he probably doesn't have any motivation in life and thinks bumming around is good enough - which I don't agree with.

But, say he was in college and trying to make it on his own... there has to be some point in time where he's going to be really conservative with what he's got and that's fine with me.

I don't need a guy with money, but if the fact that he has no money potentially reveals something faulty about him as a person, then yes, I have a problem with that.
B-NOX
mo money = mo probleme
shoryuken
QUOTE(B-NOX @ Jan 20 2008, 11:50 AM) *
mo money = mo probleme

LMAO!!! i luvv alll da stuff u postt on hurr B.NOX...

funni shiet!!

butt B.NOX.. rite.. mo doe.. mo prrobmle.. LMAO..
Luna5
I want the guy with money. How's he going to take me out to dinner if he didn't?

Steal the food out of the trash... HA!
shoryuken
^ who say anthangg he payinn../ maibii he wantt u da payy fo himm.. wink.gif biggrin.gif
superficial
I'm fine with having a middle classed boyfriend. He doesn't need to be extremely rich, but as well can't be extremely poor. He has to have enough money to support himself, pay bills and etcetera. He could have a bit of self-responsibility. :)
fathomlessdame
he doesnt need money right now. we're in high school. he's a senior, i'm a sophomore. we have plenty of fun hanging out at home. but when we're older it would be nice if he had more money
missnh
I think I'd go on a few dates with him and just fool around (if he's hot), but there is no way in hell that I will ever date a guy again who makes me pay for his movie tickets and dinner. f**k that.
shoryuken
QUOTE(Michelle @ Jan 20 2008, 01:11 PM) *
I think I'd go on a few dates with him and just fool around (if he's hot), but there is no way in hell that I will ever date a guy again who makes me pay for his movie tickets and dinner. f**k that.

loool.gif loool.gif !!!

feistyy..
B-NOX
we got bitches on the right
niggaz on the left
bitches wanna f**k
niggaz wanna fight

do what you gotta do n***a keep it site
cause the n***a right there are westside 4 life cool.gif
shoryuken
QUOTE(B-NOX @ Jan 20 2008, 01:23 PM) *
we got bitches on the right
niggaz on the left
bitches wanna f**k
niggaz wanna fight

do what you gotta do n***a keep it site
cause the n***a right there are westside 4 life cool.gif

loool.gif loool.gif XD.gif !!!

b.nox ginnaa git jumpp in skooll...!!!
B-NOX
oo yea man tomorow is school

im very sad cry.gif
shoryuken
i bet u madd quiett in reall lifee huh.. HAHAHAH!!!
michellerrific
Honestly? No.

As straightfoward as that sounds, it's true. And besides it would be hard to go out with someone who was in debt and had no money. It would be sad if you had to pay for every single darn thing. And if they were nice, they wouldn't use you to that paying advantage.
B-NOX
yo im a rich boy cool.gif
shoryuken
i cann c dat boi.. with you lil bling blingg.. ^^ wink.gif

workk dat shiett boi n git dem girlzz on da streetz..!!

2 badDD u gott no game... tongue.gif tongue.gif
B-NOX
bling bling

what bling bling all my chains are from my gran ma
shoryuken
dam fo reall.. stopp wearinn u granmdaaa blingg blingg..
B-NOX
YOOOOOOO HAVE YOU SEE YOUR CLOOOSE ?


I GOT THE ATTITUDE

YOU DONT
shoryuken
me clothezz fine..

nicee atttiidduee..
B-NOX
no no no I love my clothe I love my Chains _smile.gif
shoryuken
veryy well..
B-NOX
hey man

you still dont see my NEW chain


look at that

http://accel6.mettre-put-idata.over-blog.c...stes/RunDMC.jpg

just as RUN DMC but in silver
shoryuken
clap.gif loool.gif nnnicce!!! takee sum pixx withh datt chain.. LMAO!!
B-NOX
okay man

you will see what is the REAL attitude

i look like 2pac now tomorow ill try to take some pic cool.gif
S-Majere
That's asking 'would you date someone with no aspirations and no life outside of his parents' basement?' The answer would probably be a very firm 'no!'.

My boyfriend has to save for expenses at university and I appreciate that. I also appreciate the occasional treat. Boyfriend complies, S. Majere happy.
DoubleJ
I am the same way. Do I like living in my moms house, not completely. I do realize though that I have to stay here to put things into motion for the future. If I could go to a university out of state I would, but unfortunately, when you are applying for fire departments, you have to stay in the city. I still have responsibilities even though I live at home as my mom does not pay for anything for me. She offers to, but I always refuse.
shoryuken
QUOTE(B-NOX @ Jan 20 2008, 02:02 PM) *
okay man

you will see what is the REAL attitude

i look like 2pac now tomorow ill try to take some pic cool.gif

loool.gif loool.gif loool.gif !!!! CANTT WAITTT!!!
DoubleJ
Can you guys seriously stop spamming the thread? Thx!
shoryuken
nicckaaa plz.. we talkin aboutt BLING BLING which mean $$

the title ask about money.. so we talk bout $$

DoubleJ
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 20 2008, 05:53 PM) *
nicckaaa plz.. we talkin aboutt BLING BLING which mean $$

the title ask about money.. so we talk bout $$

Does every word that comes out of your mouth have to be the n word?
shoryuken
what n word../

stopp spaminn DOUBJ triplee G.. O.G.. ocean city..
DoubleJ
Anywho, the girls that I know obviously like driven guys, but it is not all about money with them. They are all independent, so I know that they don't need a dude to carry them and what not. Do I believe that some girls are only in it for the money? Of course I do, but that is where you shut them down very quickly. That has happened to me a few times, and I have learned how to spot girls like that very quickly. I will admit though, I am the type that will spoil a girl to no end.
Joss-eh-lime
well, im not sure

no car= parents driving or walking places
no job= not a big deal, but they have to have future ambitions
transcendentalism
no, sorry.
i will gladly pay part of my dude's expenses, but i'm trying to keep myself up at the same time too. it's not about getting treated out or whatever, i don't expect that - mister and i live on the poor side of town. surviving is what matters.
fameONE
I'm lurking this thread to find CB's gold diggers.

But I don't blame you ladies, I'm not trying to date a broke ass female.
livwho
I wouldn't date a guy that is dead broke because he's lazy. There has to be a commendable reason, like he's been paying for school.
DoubleJ
Broke ass females are a definite no no.
tokyo-rose
B-N0X and nguoicasison, quit spamming this thread.
Call911Quick
What would you guys consider to be the cut-off line in terms of yearly income?

The average wage in the US is somewhere around 40k to 50k per year. I'd say 150k+ would be considered "wealthy". Then there's people who make millions and billions such as celebrities, etc. You know the cast of Friends made average 1 million per show? 10 season, how many shows a season? They made at least 40-50 million EACH, and that's just from friends, disregarding any movies they may have done in that time.

They make money seem like nothing, where graduates from Harvard and are surgeons make 500k a year (they work extremely hard!), actors and actresses get millions per year for pretending to be someone they're not?
freeflow
Nope I wouldn't. I'd hate to be the one paying for everything.
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