jus had my last phone convo with my gf.. ex gf 20min ago.
how do i get over her?

I'm sorry. Breaking up is a lame situation.

Um, whenever I had a relationship that ended I would always take more hours at work, work harder at school, practice drums, listen to music, and hang out with my friends.
I always tried to fill my time so I didn't have any time to sit and wait for him to call or think about calling him.

Eventually you will get over it and you will realize that you and this person breaking up was a good thing.

sigh. i just feel so stupid. i feel like i meant nothing to her. im a dumbass...

Well, what happened?

Everyone always feels stupid when they break up. I can't find the words for it in my head but it's like you put so much time and effort into someone, you trust them, and it turns out you were wrong. Relationships are sometimes cruel jokes. It feels like you will never be happy again, but you will be.

Relationships are like addictions. If you spend all your time with someone and you always do things with someone when you suddenly stop doing those things you will go through withdrawals, but you will eventually get better. You just have to occupy your mind until that healing process stars.

we were good together for like 6months.
we skipped school, mom and cops got involved.
she moved back to china, it became long d. and things
started getting f**ked. we made promises, but that
didnt mean shit to her. wow. now im jus pissed at
her -_-.

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best song ever.

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Well, even though said already, just occupy your mind for now. Keep yourself busy so that you won't think about her. Find a new girl to hang out with. :)

distraction is key. freetime leads to thinking which leads to reminiscing which leads to pain. as superfish has stated, hang out with friends, listen to music, play an instrument, etc.


but while I was typing this the only thing on my mind was: YES YOU IS ON THE MARKET NOW.

Hey, I kind of know how you feel, and honestly working harder and doing other shit didn't help me at all. I just couldn't concentrate because I was not over her.

Basically the same shit happened, we were great for a year, I knew she really cared about me. And then I moved, it became long distance, and eventually she started becoming a bitch and cheated on me.

There was nothing I could do to get over her, I had a fling with another girl in the same month, it only felt good for a while but my mind was always on her. Bottom line is, long distance is harsh, and to get over your girl you're simply gonna have to wait. It took me a month or two to get over mine. But now I know to never trust a girl as much again, ever.

Lol.

thats basically what happened. she grew colder and colder, i was too f**kin stupid to not see it coming. i dont think ill ever trust a girl as much again either.

and no, no gay porn thats what u do, fagget.

I'm sorry. =/

But hey... now you can find somebody better. This'll only make you stronger.

As other people said... distract yourself with school, work, friends, etc.

i just skipped school (and exams) like a madwoman when i lost him for a while... i worked out like crazy every day until i just fell asleep.

working out got my mind off him more than skipping school. i had a really cool friend who skipped with me (yeah, even during exams) and we just vandalized up the area... if you know anyone who'd spend time with you distracting you, even if you're not great friends, go hang out with him/her.

do something wild. you don't need her for anything, right?
people make mistakes, so you're not the only one in the world

^jeez.. u keepp ittt REALLL huh..

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^ I hope you get banned, i can't stand you.

but anyways, i hope you feel better (to the topic starter).
It always sucks breaking up, specially if you put more into the relationship. Try hanging out with friends and stuff so you can get over it.

For me usually getting another BF really quick helps me or just getting a boy toy... He he..

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when u breakk up.. it aintt hardd da git back up.. alot u just nub and dun wanna b alone r sum shiet..

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^ It's not really helping, it's just making you look like an idiot..but you knew that, your just trying to live up to your title right?

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yeah well, don't worry too much about it. It was probably bound to happen, I've seen so many good relationships shatter when they become long distance. And honestly long distance isn't really worth it, it took me a while to understand that.

Next time, don't get too deeply attached to another girl, even the ones who you think would never hurt you end up hurting you the most.

^ thats so true.. girls u thought wud never hurt u will always hurt u the most. ah well `` thanks guys. (girls too)

Don't do that!
You should NEVER give someone all you have, because things do happen. Even if that person would never hurt you we are all mortal and you have to know that you could live without that person.

But, it is not fair to put up a wall in all relationships because there are people out there that won't hurt you and you want to find that person, don't you?

grow some balls man cmon!

i just sorta wen through that with my ex.

youll get over it, give it sometime

meanwhile.... go get drunk get laid and then repeat. just make sure youre not getting anyone pregnant

Yes don't forget your friends "The Rubbers"!

icecream i like ur advice

wait how old are you??

btw, my name is Joselyn if you didnt notice (look at my sig...)

wow
that sounds like something that exactly happened to my friend.
[moved back to china too. rofl. and made it long distance, yaddaaa]
eventually, he got over her, so the only thing i can say is give it time. i know you can't force yourself to forget, and i'm not telling you to, but time is key for recovery.
eventually, you'll find someone else and you'll move on. :]

my friend seems happy with the gf he has now, and i know he still thinks about his ex, but not in a 'i misss her' way, but a, 'that was probably my best/longest relationship, i won't forget her because of that way.' mm, together for 2 years before that happened to him though so ionno.

either way, good luck? (;

thanks joselyn. im 18.
i went out today -.- saw cloverfield, went to my friends place, drank a lot and i feel better. but when i see her name on msn i jus wana talk to her =s. i kno i shudnt.. thanks

putt hur pixx up..

dont over do it withthe alcohol either... jsut temp. block her from msn

dun blockk hur u moron..

just b buddy.. n talk da hur..

but dun b 3rd wheell.. just b buddy..

^ That would most likely make the whole process more grueling

da point es u dun wanna show u sad or hate hur w/e..

u wannaa show hur u cool with da wholee thing n shakee dat shiet of..

if u blockk or w/e.. den she justt thinkk u lil pansy cryin n shiet..

just dun git onn MSN../ or change screename.. if shee findd outt u blockk hur.. she ginna laughh n thinkk u lil pansy..