me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time a few monthes after our one year. he didnt tell me he loved me the first time and i felt used. i told him how i felt and we continued to have sex for about 2 packs of condom worth...lol...and we just stoped. the last time we had it was about 2 monthes ago right after i told him i feel used any time we do that typa thing. since then he hasnt brought it up but one and said he didnt have enough money for condoms when he has if he really wanted to have sex with me. previous to this i told him i wanted to wait for marrige or until i KNOW im in love. so why did he want it so bad and now he doesnt mention it? does he respect how i feel and is he waiting for me to say i want to? what does this mean in guy terms?

im sure he respects your choice.

^optimistic much? geez.

or, he doesn't want to have sex with someone who takes it so seriously.

LOL. Damn I miss you so much Ruth. Hahaha. You deserve a 1up for pwning two members at once. Killing two birds with one stone.

it could also be that he might feel hurt that you said that you felt used.

well you cant always be pessimistic about everything

would that be more pessimistic or truthful? don't suggest that guys don't ever think that way.

and thanks, tung :)

hes tired of you telling him that you feel used.

no money for condoms made me laugh though.

Either he feels guilty for 'using' you.

Or he's used you and had his fill.

Sorry to be so blunt, but that's all that really springs to mind.

in guy terms this means that he wants sex, and he is gonna have to wait for you if he wants it

showw me u boyyfriendd pic../

i cann telll watt he thinkinn if i c sum pic..

Either

1. He felt awkward when you said he felt used and didn`t find it much fun (if it ever was).

Or

2. He just doesn`t enjoy it altogether.


Ask.
It never hurts to, right?

Well, you really won't know unless you ask him, right? It could be that hes dying on the inside.

He's getting it somewhere else!!

Honestly, though, maybe he feels a bit guilty. I mean, how would you feel if he told you he felt like you were using him (for anything, not just sex)? Maybe he feels bad so he's just not going for it. Maybe you should make the moves. If you want to have sex with him don't sit around and wait for him to initiate something.

he's only been with 1 other girl then me and believe me...he enjoyed it...ALOT. lol as of right now we're not in the position to be having sex because he lied to me a few times and just in general...i dont feel he deserves to share that with me. i just want to know whats making him not mention it at all.

guys are push overs
i'd know
im one of 'em

nah hes probably nervous
coz he wasnt expecting you to feel that way

Edit// wat ever use your brain

with the fade-away jumper, at the buzzer, she scores!

wtf is a puch over?

maybe as a pull over

I think he meant push over.

After your last post, I agree with the people who say that you take it too seriously. Most guys (and girls) I know don't take it that seriously. If it's going to be such a huge issue that he has to ask you for it, instead of you mentioning it, and that you're going to decide that you're not going to have sex with him because he told you a lie maybe you should assess your relationship.

Why do you care if you don't want it anyway?

my bad

i meant push over

it just worried me that he was doing OTHER things, so to speak. we still do other things so i'm going to stop worryin about it

He got his fill! Sarah ftw with that one.


Please hang yourself. Your little gay undertones are seriously a bit much.


Agreed.


I agree with the people who said that you are caring too much. You are definitely drink dumb dumb juice if you think he is going to stick around and beg you for sex. Trust when I tell you, that no box is that good to be begging for it, NO BOX. Like somebody mentioned before, he is probably beating something up on the side since you want to play keep away with your pussy. Assessing your relationship is definitely right. If you are going to hold stuff against him and then get mad when he doesn't give into your demands, then you have bigger problems and your relationship isn't healthy. Like Eden's Crush said, Get Over Yourself.

Your mean.

It's because you have a loose vagina.

And for the record I'm not playing the teasing roll. I just wanted to know why he stopped asking thats it. He knew where i stood with sex meaning something to me when he got into this relationship. When I can trust him again then I'll be able to feel better about sharing that with him. If he's cheating, then I'll find out and know that he doesnt love me and I can find someone that does.

He was my first so unless he was 25inchs then no, i'm not.

...but seeing that you had more cock then me you'd know right?

Can you please not triple post?

Sorry master. I didn't realize you were GOD of what I post in my own topic.

Uh, it's the rules to not double post, and triple post for that matter, I was just saying. Jeez.

its aright i was joking. i guess i forgot my "lol" but yeah i didnt know there was a rule for that.

A guy never lacks money for condoms.

That is all.

i thought the whole point was to make ppl feel better and help those who need it

he dun curr bout you!!

he turn GAaayy aftaa he seee me!!

after he see you

he puked puked puked and puked again

ye cuz u standin in frontt of mee blockin hiss view when he trydaa checkk me out..

maybe you 2 should just start a topic
and throw insults at each other all day

that way ppl can come and read it for a laugh

If you felt that I was being mean for giving my honest opinion, then there is nothing that I can do about that. Correct me if I am wrong, but aren't the forums meant for people to give their honest opinions? If told otherwise, then I can tell you what you want to hear as opposed to my take on the situation. Tung, you of all people should not be calling somebody mean.

I didn't call anyone mean wtf? I was correcting her grammar... thats what the asterisk is for?

OOPS! My mistake tungalung.



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